Going to MFF
6 years ago
I am planning on being at MFF this December. It will be the third time I've been there: I was at both the 10th (before they moved to the convention centre) and 15th MFFs, so it seemed appropriate to be there for the 20th as well.
Looking forward to it. I'll be seeing a lot of you there!
Looking forward to it. I'll be seeing a lot of you there!
-2Paw.
When you're away at a convention- heck, when you've been on a business trip you've told me of, and off-duty winding down- and you've some time to post in on F-Chat or on FurryMUCK, I balance in my mind both that I'm sure you need a touchstone and comfort-space to home and friends here in Toronto when you're away, with the fact that you may be in a much more psychologically unfamiliar place, if not a physical one (or probably both), and the getting there included those difference as well. You're away from your accustomed 'home base', even with MidWest FurFest being a place of fun, I'd always hope, meeting friends who in turn you might not see very often in person (and might in some cases had never met in person beforehand; this has happened to me at many of the two local Toronto conventions I've attended, despite them taking place well within city limits, when I was regularly a congoer). If anything, what I would never want to do is overwhelm you with me and my needs, but provide reasonable comfort of friend-contact without taking the control away from you in your temporary home-base or putting doubt about it in you.
BTW, that novel I mentioned, along with my novella, 'Transformer': I plan to have the first, readable solid draft of both completed by the end of the year, as in December 31st. :)
-2Paw.
And yeah, I will admit I can get 'peopled out' at conventions sometimes, so checking in online can be a way to wind down again.
A lot of what I've written is about the Caitian/Ferasan decentralized world-government, called the Harlequin: basically dead to everyone who knew them before being selected, hiding in plain sight by deliberate de-recognizing.
I had to get them straight before I did the proper draft writing and fit them in where the written plot directs, but a lot of the narrative and precise written lines I've thrashed out in my head while riding the tram or subway up to see Dr. Fishman every second Thursday (or with him in person) or while I'm walking to and from the grocery or when I'm down on my brother's floor using his shower every night or two.
But as for MFF and the travelling-body biz, it's always been like that for me as conventions (as you and D'Otter saw of me yourselves at Ad Astra), even if it's only infrequently I might stay over the night. 2Paw understands, thus! :)
-2Paw.
Have an epic time :)
My first convention in general was the Victoria International Cartoon Festival a couple of years earlier, where Mark Evanier and Sergio Aragones were there, though that was a much smaller affair.
And thanks, I've got a few things specifically to go for, depending on who else is going to be there.
Also, as annoying as airport security is, scarily enough it's often faster to cross the border at an airport than any other way. There's an element of classism involved there: after all, big businessmen use air travel and we don't want to inconvenience them, but only poor people use the bus as far as some border guards are concerned. I haven't crossed the border for any reason other than business for a few years now, but I can't imagine that sort of attitude has gotten better of late.
I wanted to take Porter, I like them, but I couldn't face the extra trip from Midway. I finally went with Air Canada. (I think they were a little cheaper anyway.)
I drove to Chicon IV so that I could bring a trunk full of beer for the TorCon party. It took overnight. I left just after noon and arrived with the dawn. I doubt that's changed since, except that the boarder is probably tighter.
Yeah, the trip across from Midway was interesting. Fortunately, there are trains to each of the airports, and the elevated lines in downtown connecting them, and Serval had asked some locals and got a map. Definitely not something you want to go into unprepared.
-2Paw.
The furthest I've travelled to a Furry convention was MFF last year, (702 km.) But the furthest I've travelled to any copnvention was ConSpiracy, the 1987 World Science Fiction Convention in Brighton, UK, (5,740 km.) Now if I can afford it, (and I'm still just thinking about it so far), the furthest convention I expect ever to attend will be FurDU in Gold Coast, Australia, (15,033 km.) But it would be very expensive and I don't know if I can do it.
I believe Toronto has gotten a WorldCon the once, during my lifetime (or at least as an active science-fiction fan and congoer): am I remembering correctly that it was in 2003, D'otta? Even if I could afford the fee (much less if it had been out of town; realistically, it would only have been remotely possible that once on my budget), I don't know if it would be something I could handle, as in sensory-stimulation. Toronto Trek/Polaris (when it was still running) and Ad Astra were about as far as I could go with that sort of thing, at least familiar conventions I could accommodate. Something on the scale of a WorldCon, probably taking place in multiple venues (and not a single hotel or convention centre) I don't think I could handle being at, nor being divided on what to do and what to pass up.
Ouf! 1987 was the year I saw my first science-fiction movie in a film theatre, and a Trek movie no less: Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home, on my 10th birthday (December 27th). And it was also the year I began to petition my parents to allow me to stay up to watch Star Trek: The Next Generation. ^_^ I'm quite sure you have the seniority in experience on me there, good chummer! :)
The thought of going that far away, a totally new continent that I don't think I have ancestry there either colonial or Aboriginal...I mean, I don't dislike the idea. But if I was going to honestly take in the thought I was to go, I admit it would take some getting used to the idea. I assume FurDU is in a set city every year in Australia, and it's a matter of when the time and funds might be available? I can guess the kind of costs involved, even if it was a relatively straightforward convention but that far from home (and the way you're talking about it, D'otta, I suspect it's a bit on the luxury side).
I hadn't spoken to you about this, or at least not in detail rather than generic planning: I should have my first science-fiction novel- a Trek novel, no less- done in first draft, by the end of the year. I've already told Jenora about it, but you've been a big part of the same journey that all three of us have shared, and I definitely wanted you to know now, at least.
-2Paw.
Worldcon has been in Canada five times now; two previous times in Toronto in 1948 and 1973, once in Winnipeg in 1994, and once in Montreal in 2009.
And even a 'poorly' attended Worldcon like TorCon 3 in 2003 had about 4000 people, so yes, being worried about sensory overload makes sense. In a sense, it helped that I was helping Dronon with his 'Furry Fandom' fan table for about half the con, as I could sit in one place and have people come to me instead.
The Worldcon in Winnipeg I don't ever remember hearing about at Ad Astra, my first one being in 1994, but to be fair I think (as you and D'otter probably saw yourself- thank you for the drive home and Wendy's treat, as well as your company, good D'Otta!) I was already overwhelmed by the new conventioning-world I was taking in that year. I mean, it was a good overwhelming (like being heavily mashed underfoot by a friendly, immense female felinoid ^_^) but the whole thing was my First Step, as it were, and I think what I would look for every year down the road I hadn't learned to expect or where to find it just yet.
Montreal in 2009 was also out of my knowings, but to be fair and as we both know, I hadn't been going to yearly conventions since 2006, and it would've needed either a deliberate looking-up or the chance of coming across an otherwise unconnected mention to have notice of it find its way to me. I'm glad you understand about what my hypothetically going to a WorldCon (TorCon 3) would be like, even if it wouldn't have mandated I travel anywhere but to hotels and the Convention Center here in downtown Toronto (as opposed to a VIA Train ride away from home to Montreal, for example, and needing to obtain and pay for accommodations and food), and specifically about how I would handle it psychologically or my limited threshhold for sensory tolerances. In both your and D'otta's case, I'm glad you both were at the conventions here I attended (and you were also at CONTario, the furthest from Toronto proper I've ever attended a convention, just outside of city limits in Mississauga in 1995), and while things were mostly well within my tolerances at the 13 Toronto Treks and Ad Astras (1994-2006) we attended, that I knew I could count on your mutual support when and if needed. I think knowing I'd see you both at almost every Ad Astra I attended each and every year, was something I looked forward to tremendously; a touch-stone of purpose and identity with two close and excellent friends who shared the interests we do and the journey we've taken together, each in our own way.
Half wondering, since you and the Brass-Mane were both managing that table at TorCon 3/WorldCon 2003, if there are gigantic, plantigrade cat-footprints around there somewhere being used as ponds or sculpted frontings around downtown or the Metro Convention Centre. I mean, it's not like you'd have put most of them there intentionally. ^_^ BTW, I saw the picture a body put together for you, Jenora, for 'Painting The Sky' and the treat of the sequel to 'Painting The Cathedral' to look forward to next month! 2Paw is a happy 2Paw, he is. he is! Toe-smooches! <3
-2Paw.
Heh, no no new ponds around the convention centre. At least none that can be traced back to me.
The 'Painting the Skies' story I mentioned is a short bit because it was written to go in the souvenir conbook. And just in general principles I'm not going to post it here until after that happens. Honestly, don't even know if it's in or not yet.
As for the hypothetical ponds, I'll just assume any necessary cleanup has eliminated the evidence (or at least a bit of matter-forming by the authoress herself). Wags!
I think it's a bit of a conceit and a convenience for me to assume that only I or people with specific troubles akin to mine need to recharge, and can run out of psychological juice in a very specific way like I do. It's been far too easy, sometimes, to treat multiple elements of myself as a crutch like that, or at least an excuse. I mean, when I needed the help in simply finding what I was in my head, when the boy I was I had a poor grasp (if any at all) on the man I've since become, I suppose it was needed sometimes. And in my worst moments, I still give in to that conceit and emotional shortcut in rough spots, but I don't use it like a relative-state weapon, if I ever did before, and certainly not on other people in my family or anyone else I care about. Those times are in private, usually in my room and always in my head, and if they're for anything they're for damage control, and not to measure the size my of grief or rage at angels. The fact that I can think clearly most of the time now, relieves me of any worthiness for its use that way. If I can act, more or less, like a normal human being, I should act that way with the people who care about me, certainly those in my life who've helped me walk this far. <hug!s a jenora starcat!>
So, not delaying the starcat to her neutron-decay refresh cycle when needed or desired, is entirely appropriate. ^_^
-2Paw.