Some people are just bad and/or stupid.
This is so sad to watch for me as well.

Hope you have a good day

Ahjo, no né asi. :')))
To s tím, jak si vymejšlí, že mají nemoc nebo smrt v rodině... TAKY MI TO UŽ PSALI.
A ještě navíc po mně chtěli, abych jim to holdla, že ten adopt 100% chcou ne. A pak 3 týdny výmluvy, že
jsou furt nemocní a nakonec, že nemají prachy na benzín. PRACHY NA BENZÍN. CHÁPEŠ TO?? xdd
TO JE VÝMLUVA JAK ZVON.

no, mi jedna borka co kupovala adopty furt psala, že ma problemy s autem, pokaždé když vyhrala :)) takže blacklist,
a pakk nejlepší borka, celou dobu vždy za adopty platila, pak už to bylo tak, že někdy zaplatila, někdy ne a pak mi prostě napsala, že už jí nechce..
ale nemohla smazat komentář když aukce ještě běžela a omluvit se.. NEE. prostě musela počkat až bude konec aukce a napíšu ji :D

These things are incredibly frustrating and often upsetting to deal with. I wish some folk were more considerate... to them it's a throwaway issue, it doesn't matter if they change their mind or just disappear. And the ones that lie? They are the ones without moral compass it seems... this is our livelihood but these people just don't care, they see something shiny they like, but if they don't want it anymore then oh well, there's something else instead! But they don't think about the impact they are having on the person who's selling these things. Like, if you need to back out or whatever, just SAY so. Or better yet, only bid/buy if you are 99% certain you can follow through!

A semi decent comparison is people in stores. They pick up a food item, put it in their trolley/basket and walk around the store looking to buy other things. But they get to the clothes isle and decide actually I don't want this food thing, I'll just plop it down here on this random shelf with clothes on it. It's mindless, they aren't thinking about it really. But now they've made it more frustrating for the people who work there to track down and put it where it should be at the end of the day, when this person could have taken a couple minutes to make their life a little bit easier and put it back where they got it from... it might not seem like a huge deal, but people who work there have to deal with this every day. Something as simple as returning an item you don't want to the correct shelf can make their day a little easier.

And it's the same with us, if you want something just make sure you actually want it and can actually afford to follow through! And if you do have to back out for any reason, please just tell us. It makes our job SO much easier and it means we can try to find a replacement quicker. If you just disappear we will be waiting for days, maybe a week, and that's a week without the security of a sale.. though in our case it's less of an "inconvenience" and more of a "oh god I needed that money, now I need to find a way to get it quickly some other way because this person didnt tell me they needed to back out and/or suddenly threw it on me", especially since it can be hard to even get sales in the first place sometimes ;^;

Tbh it's a lack of common decency, lack of common sense, and a lack of empathy. I'm not saying these people always mean harm, but being considerate to other human beings that are working hard to give you something to enjoy is free, you know?

Anyway, I'm preaching to the choir but it really can throw a big wrench into things and cause real issues and I hate it ><