This world is a bit ...complicated?
5 years ago
Hey hello I really hope everybody is ok
my question is the world is complicated or i complicate it by myself?
I think most of the community here tend to be gay, and thats ok guys but... what is happening?
look, I know the gay community is super superficial, and this community is reaaaaaally hard
I sometimes feel i dont belong to this community, or my problem is that i am too conservative?
i am feeling a bit lost... i have been dating some guys ( I consider myself a beginner since in
mexico i have not had experiences) and despite i look like a superficial guy showing muscles...
i always tend to make first a conversation, try to know each other, !! but they have been calling me
a boring guy or they just start talking and then they want some action ... or free relationships
or hook ups or i dont know if i am looking correctly for dates, they also call me optimistic and
emotional but i didnt know that could be something bad !!!!!!!!!! D:
to be honest i dont blame this community I sometimes blame myself, since i think i am the one
who is not thinking propperly, or i am not used to this community... i sometimes feel so confused
i see some guys find love, true love, this beatuiful love of trust, and not only an empty eros love, but
something meaningful! beatiful,
what happens with the gay community?, most of them wanna date with..
like models or sexy fucking guys but then just for sex, and then what?... they change guys like cards from games
and they keep like that until their 40s, 50s!! and most of them end alone! dont you have a fear about it? I do
or is just me... am I wrong I am looking for, wrong?
is it also possible to get gay friends without sexual desires?!! because I used to have 2 gay friends, now only one !
and I lost 2 other people who i started to call them my friends since they started to flirt ... but i just really wanna
have someone to talk as a friend, and not having sex, i really wanna have people who listen... a F-R-I-E-N-D; i have
hetero friends (girls-guys) but i dont have gay friends...
i really feel kinda alone in this community... but again i really blame myself i think i am doing something wrong
or this is the normal thing in the comunity and i am the stupid one who doesnt fit propperly...
my question is the world is complicated or i complicate it by myself?
I think most of the community here tend to be gay, and thats ok guys but... what is happening?
look, I know the gay community is super superficial, and this community is reaaaaaally hard
I sometimes feel i dont belong to this community, or my problem is that i am too conservative?
i am feeling a bit lost... i have been dating some guys ( I consider myself a beginner since in
mexico i have not had experiences) and despite i look like a superficial guy showing muscles...
i always tend to make first a conversation, try to know each other, !! but they have been calling me
a boring guy or they just start talking and then they want some action ... or free relationships
or hook ups or i dont know if i am looking correctly for dates, they also call me optimistic and
emotional but i didnt know that could be something bad !!!!!!!!!! D:
to be honest i dont blame this community I sometimes blame myself, since i think i am the one
who is not thinking propperly, or i am not used to this community... i sometimes feel so confused
i see some guys find love, true love, this beatuiful love of trust, and not only an empty eros love, but
something meaningful! beatiful,
what happens with the gay community?, most of them wanna date with..
like models or sexy fucking guys but then just for sex, and then what?... they change guys like cards from games
and they keep like that until their 40s, 50s!! and most of them end alone! dont you have a fear about it? I do
or is just me... am I wrong I am looking for, wrong?
is it also possible to get gay friends without sexual desires?!! because I used to have 2 gay friends, now only one !
and I lost 2 other people who i started to call them my friends since they started to flirt ... but i just really wanna
have someone to talk as a friend, and not having sex, i really wanna have people who listen... a F-R-I-E-N-D; i have
hetero friends (girls-guys) but i dont have gay friends...
i really feel kinda alone in this community... but again i really blame myself i think i am doing something wrong
or this is the normal thing in the comunity and i am the stupid one who doesnt fit propperly...
The biggest problem with a lot of people today is that they do not see love as a form of deep trust, or something that lasts for years until death.
If you want to talk, then we can.
and thats true
trust is a really important but a really fragile thing...
i fee that the gay community has fear to have relationships and they would just like to have sexual fun.. but at the end... how this will be ending?
and also you've got us.
its just that people's interests are rather varied so there's really that chance that things don't click the way we want it to
i know poeple have different likes, but i feel this community are only interested on D*ks and s3x...
Also, no one should feel out of place and if you ever need someone to chat with, my DMs are always open if you need a friend or need to vent.
well to be honest I am not so much involved to the furrz fandom, i have never made a RPS and drawing porn, but well just trz to draw the things zou like to do
and yes i almost doont show off so much the body XD but one of the purpose is just to show i am not only a drawer or student but also i am a bit sporty
Back then i thought i want to be part of the furry fandom to find people who are more like me. But now i feel like i just like werewolves and identify myself as a wolf (yeah my sona is a fox. That's a long story) while furries just think it's cute sexy and cool
It can work. It is possible, but it is undeniably extra hard.