There's something serious I need to talk about.
5 years ago
General
Hey guys. I may not be one to get on serious or venting topics, things have been bothering me to the point where I'm gonna have to address it. This doesn't go to my friends btw.Now I understand that if you want to message me, or meet me, or whatever, you want to socialize and such, which is fine. But understand and know that when it comes to it, there are boundaries and such that I have that I need to tell you about.
When you message me, or want to meet me, and when I introduce myself, or when you do, I don't want our first meeting to be a cuddling role-play, or a sexual one. I am not into NSFW RP whatsoever, and I only RP with my close friends that I know well. When you, or want to keep "licking my face", nibbling my tail, rubbing my chest, tummy, or at worse cases, "down there", it brings me out of my comfort zone, and I don't like it...at all. It makes the whole situation very awkward and uncomfortable.
I don't want to feel awkward or uncomfortable. I'm more than willing to socialize, get to know one another, and make friends, but as I said, there are boundaries that need to be known. And I don't want you to get angry, or emotional, because that can make the situation worse. Maybe even more awkward or more uncomfortable.
I apologize if all of this is coming off as harsh. Things have been very rough lately. I got let go from a job I hated so much, I had to deal with family drama that put me in the worst sad and bad moods, I've been feeling sad, and maybe even gloomy lately, and COVID-19 has been making job hunting a lot harder than it should be, since I have to wait longer for a hiring manager to call, and I'm trying to find a job where I can be more happy and such, even if it's a retail job. So I am stressed out, and I am trying to find ways to cope with the stress.
Again, I am sorry if this is upsetting to those who wants to send me a DM, but I feel like I need to take in responsibility for my boundaries and manage my regulations a little better. And please, just because if you know me only a little bit, and I know you only a little bit, please don't try to RP with me right away or whatever. Like I said, I only RP with my friends that I am close with or know well. We still need to learn about each other, and again, like I said, it makes me feel very uncomfortable, and it makes the whole thing very awkward.
That's all I wanted to say. I just felt like it was best that I finally got this off of my chest. I hope you can understand.
Draikar
~draikar
Way to stick up for your boundaries, Teono! They're important and you deserve to be respected.
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