Call Me Out When Needed
5 years ago
tbh i like talking to people. i guess i'm more of a cyber-extrovert than I ever would be a physical one, but thing is, I barely like approaching new people I am not already familiar with. I am always going to be more comfortable with approaching friends of such people, too, but yeah....
I seemingly more often than not forget that I gotta try talking about interests at hand more often. Sometimes I just can't tell what to talk about, however. Maybe it comes with myself in a way, but it's partially what i get for being too hyper-focused on one particular unnecessary focus-point during some of my developmental years.
But in any case, I'm currently in a state of mind that I'm more prone to talk about tmi with my personal life as a way to introduce myself. If it's not that, the weird positive on the opposite end of the spectrum would be my more niche kind of dragon love. If I approach anyone and talk about that to any awkward substantial extent, I actually would appreciate being called out about it.
Yes, it would be annoying, but it'd be more annoying if I'm enabled to continue, and then I'd also be annoyed to find out it wasn't made clear I was going that way too far. Even if anyone would say it's on me, for situations like that, anyone in that demographic who waits too long to tell me would also be doing a slight disservice to themselves and their psyche, too, and I just think it's bad for everyone involved if there's too long of a wait to tell me about any of it.
So, do me a favor, when anyone approaches you with that attitude, call them out.
and call me out when needed.
I want to improve as a person, and it'd help everyone if the behavior's called out as soon as possible.
thank you.
I seemingly more often than not forget that I gotta try talking about interests at hand more often. Sometimes I just can't tell what to talk about, however. Maybe it comes with myself in a way, but it's partially what i get for being too hyper-focused on one particular unnecessary focus-point during some of my developmental years.
But in any case, I'm currently in a state of mind that I'm more prone to talk about tmi with my personal life as a way to introduce myself. If it's not that, the weird positive on the opposite end of the spectrum would be my more niche kind of dragon love. If I approach anyone and talk about that to any awkward substantial extent, I actually would appreciate being called out about it.
Yes, it would be annoying, but it'd be more annoying if I'm enabled to continue, and then I'd also be annoyed to find out it wasn't made clear I was going that way too far. Even if anyone would say it's on me, for situations like that, anyone in that demographic who waits too long to tell me would also be doing a slight disservice to themselves and their psyche, too, and I just think it's bad for everyone involved if there's too long of a wait to tell me about any of it.
So, do me a favor, when anyone approaches you with that attitude, call them out.
and call me out when needed.
I want to improve as a person, and it'd help everyone if the behavior's called out as soon as possible.
thank you.
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