Bad Ideas explained: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/321008/ Includes index.

Hands-on remote control

Yes, it's a variation of the Nintendo Power Glove.
She wears it, and it is the transmitter (or transceiver if there is force feedback). And of course, he wears the receiver (or transceiver for force feedback). It's her controller, and he gets controlled - you know how. The Nintendo design was around 1990, with the technology and limits of the time - the 486 was new, the Pentium and Windows 95 being in the future. Now, all these years later, with bluetooth and wifi and more capable electronics, the resolution can be much finer. Precision control. She can give a gentle reminder, a quick warning, a mild to sharp rebuke, or... more. MUCH more. If you've seen and remember the movie Spaceballs you have the idea.

And with more capable systems, she can have the control address a single person, or a couple, or a group, or even broadcast to affect everyone in range - and the range doesn't need to be local nowadays.

Gloves, like testicles, come in pairs, too... virtual reins for her ponyboy(s)?

While it might be most interesting to show things in use with him (them) minimally dressed, nothing prevents her having her... entourage... fully dressed and discreetly controlled when out and about.

You want me to try on some new activewear? Really active? And you'll help me put it on to be sure of proper fit? Well now.