I havent thought about my gender in a long time. It's not something I think about often (although I used to). I've tried many gender identities, and found them all uncomfortable. I don't like being called girl, nor boy. Honestly, I don't have a clue.
My sex is male, I have a penis, so I simply go by He/Him, because I just dont care anymore. I used to identify as trans, but I found that it wasn't right for me.
However, I love wearing makeup, and having long hair, and often think about cross dressing because it sounds so fun.
So I consider myself a non conforming male. It's just easier. Gender has caused me alot of pain and isolation in the past, because I was always an outcast. So, I don't think about it.
Just wanted to share this with those who are interested.