The human condition (vent)
5 years ago
General
Remember kids, lower, lower, LOWER your expectations until you achieve a goal~
If you ignore facts/statistics because they dont suit your beliefs and puts you in your place, you're part of the human condition that's causing problems...
Them: Look how horrible this is!
Me: Well the reality-
Them: *Intsa block* HA get fucked you racist bigoted silencing P.O.S *proceeds to share and have people white knight me*
Me: Notice how when the same thing happens to you, you go fucking ballistic?
xThem: Well they were trying to silence and oppress me!
Me: No they were trying to give you the right information and make it so you dont buy into the cherry picking garbage being fed to you. Actual learning, and self betterment and betterment as a whole comes from Viewing the bigger picture whats actually happening and tackle things based on its importance. So for example if you have X thing thats causing a few thousand deaths a year vs X thing thats causing millions which is more important to tackle first? Thats right the million deaths yearly over the thousands, and while im not denying what you're saying is happening im trying to get you to see the bigger picture, because right now millions are dying and youre worried about the thousands. We're not trying to change your beliefs or say you're wrong We're trying to get your attention on bigger more important things. "The needs of the many out weigh the needs of the few" And when we talking millions to thousands, the millions is more important. Its called LOGIC.
Them: Eventually that thousand will lead to a million!
Me:In a thousand years, like legit it would take a thousand years for that to reach the bigger issue's death toll.
Them: Lives are lives!
Me: Hate is hate
Them: No its not!
Me: Yes it is.
Them: Everyone is equal!
Me: no they arent...
Them: How could you say something like that?!
Me: A doctor is more valuable then a drug dealer, the doctor will save more lives then the drug dealer there for, to society the doctor is far more important then the drug dealer. A persons value isnt based on their skin colour, their beliefs, or even how much they are paid Its based on what they can do for society.
By the age of 40 there are so many differences in a person saying one is just as valid and equal to the other is...insane. For example, my friend and roommate is 22 he's a car mechanic and is about to go buy a house in a few months He helps people fix their cars, i on the other hand just bring him the cars to fix, or clean them, he is more important and more valuable to society then i am, he and i are not equals in this right. Hell i cant even afford a car payment haha X3 Im 24, being paid minimum wage and falling apart, i much like those in similar situations to me, have so many issues and challenges on the daily that when compared to someone that doesnt have these issues we arent equals, by any means, the person with out These issues will function, protect, and help society more then i will ever be able to, there for they are more valuable at the end of the day then i am. For another example an artist with even the slightest bit of practice is more valuable then me because their art Can and will make people smile, they will be the moral booster people need but me? Nah fam, i cant do that, there for even if they have the exact same issues i do they are more valuable to society then me. When you sit down and actually compare a person to another person The differences and inequalities that exist become very apparent very quickly. Hell even when compared to going through the same trauma people's reactions and copping are insanely different. Hell my 5th suicide attempt was just a couple months ago and a friend of mine thats been-Through worse then i have isnt even on that many if any at all, Hell there is a dude at work that car a car dropped on him that is more valuable to society then i am and hasnt even tried...Im pretty pathetic when compared to these people.
We arent dogs or 'lessor' animals that rely and solely go off instinct one red fox is the same and equal to another one human is not the same or equal to another they just arent and again the differences become aparent veyr very quickly. Even the most accepting groups of people are just as hateful and violent as those they wish to destory or rid themselves of. They in contrast are just as bad if not worse because of hypocrisy.
Lets look at another friend of mine, she streams, she does art (rarely but still does) and is over all just a good bean to be around, she makes more people smile on a daily then i do she brightens peoples days and genuinely controbutes to society, me? I dont, she is more valuable then i am. Im more likely to wind up dying in a gutter tomorrow then anyone i know and my entire life would have lead up to that point i would have done nothing for society or hell even my watchers on here, i write once in a red moon, or would ring of fire eclipse be more accurate? That gets maybe a few hundred to a thousand views and makes people horny for 30 seconds. So while im more valuable then a drug dealer its not by much because that drug dealer could have a change of heart and become a doctor, a firefighter, an EMT or some other form of not only life savor but help improve someone elses life, i can not and will not i just dont have the energy anymore.
everyone is born equal, not everyone ends being equal, hell i was born healthy, happy, and even up to 3 years old i was no different then your average three year old...Now not so much. Now i have two bad knees, a bad hip, bad heart, going blind, constant migraines, memory issues, ptsd, gender dysphoria, constant need/want to kill myself, diabetes, a twisted look and view on reality... and some other things i forget from time to time... now compare that to the average human that doesnt have those things, maybe a bit of anxiety or stress? How exactly are that person and i equal again? Oh right...we arent not even in the slightest...While we deserve the same rights. medical, marriage, laws, etc we arent equal in the slightest. Everyone i know with PTSD is handling it far better then i am, and moving on, trying to get better and even doing better and when i try i stumble and fall and even though im trying i just dont seem to make progress like they do and its draining, im trying to do better and get better and its not getting better...I barely slept all month until a few days ago, for weeks i was only able to get 1-2 hours of sleep a night before not being able to sleep or even try until the next night, its hard and while they struggle as well they dont seem at least outwardly to struggle as much as i am and its that outward appearance that makes it convincing.
Im tired of people being so invested and blinded by their beliefs that they dont see the damage and similarities they have with those they hate, to the point they are doing the exact same thing they claim to hate and be "better" than...They do the same things, cause just as much damage and shout the same rhetoric (in a sense) that those they hate do, they cherry pick and shove things down your throat just like those they hate and just like those they hate when you point this out they shame you, block you, attack you, get you white knighted to the point in some cases its actually worse.
"If you are not with me, then you are my enemy"
Sound familiar? Thats because every revolutionist/hate group/activist group uses this saying or a similar phased saying much like "Silence is violence" The funny thing is, is with that saying your just as guilty as we are because of other issues you're just glossing over and ignoring a.k.a being silent about. the best counter to this is "Only a sith deals in absolutes" because only true evil sees you as an enemy if you don't fight along side them and preach what they do you are the enemy and need to be destroyed just as equally as those they are fighting against. And that my friends is the human condition, thinking you're the right one and denying and attack anyone that thinks differently, adversity and discussion is what causes growth, not ignoring and not blocking, denying things you dont like is how you grow...But people get "offended" if they dont do this and while you cant control what you get offended by, you can control how you act and react to that offense. You cant choose what you hate, but you can choose on how you act on that hate, if you hate something/someone but dont act on that hate that is how you prove you are better then those that do.
I hate cats, with every fiber of my being, they attack me no matter what, i have more scars on my body to cats then any other living being on the planet in cluding my father, but just because i hate them and want them destroyed and wiped off the fave of the earth doesnt mean i need to mistreat them, i will never mistreat a living being based on my feelings and if i ever do i apologize and do my best to fix the wrong doings. If i get angry and snap on someone, i apologize, even if it takes me a few days or a week i will apoligze and try to make it better, i will lose and have lost sleep over being a douche to someone, being mean, snapping, i feel physically ill and if a cat attacks me while im tried or pissed off i'll slide them across the floor to get them away from me and then apologize profusely because that was wrong to do.
Its okay to hate, its not okay to act on that hate, because if you hate something or someone, but you treat them normally, why does it matter what you think? You arent hurting them with your thoughts, or your actions, so that hate, even if its justified (fucking cats) acting on this hate is the true wrong doing because you're hurting someone, you're hurting something and thats not right. Teach people to act out of kindness and love not hate, because right now in this world people are only acting on hate, and action on that hate leads to more hate, because see, even if you hate someone and they acted kind to you, and you acted kind to them, they and you would grow to not hate, and that non hate would spread. But instead, people act on this hate, on this anger, on these negative emotions and it spreads like a disease... What happens when a new disease comes out? We distance ourselves from it and eventually it goes away or we create a vaccine for it and even though it still exists and people get sick from it, they have less of a chance to die from it. So even though you hate someone or something, distance yourself from the hate, be the vaccine, treat people and living things properly so that the hate doesnt spread...Be the doctor not the dealer....
Please stay safe out there, please help people, dont riot, dont loot, dont hate...stop it before it gets worse, please...so many lives are on the line, so many people will die because of whats going on, but because you're so blinded by this hate you dont see whats going on...please...stop...
Them: Look how horrible this is!
Me: Well the reality-
Them: *Intsa block* HA get fucked you racist bigoted silencing P.O.S *proceeds to share and have people white knight me*
Me: Notice how when the same thing happens to you, you go fucking ballistic?
xThem: Well they were trying to silence and oppress me!
Me: No they were trying to give you the right information and make it so you dont buy into the cherry picking garbage being fed to you. Actual learning, and self betterment and betterment as a whole comes from Viewing the bigger picture whats actually happening and tackle things based on its importance. So for example if you have X thing thats causing a few thousand deaths a year vs X thing thats causing millions which is more important to tackle first? Thats right the million deaths yearly over the thousands, and while im not denying what you're saying is happening im trying to get you to see the bigger picture, because right now millions are dying and youre worried about the thousands. We're not trying to change your beliefs or say you're wrong We're trying to get your attention on bigger more important things. "The needs of the many out weigh the needs of the few" And when we talking millions to thousands, the millions is more important. Its called LOGIC.
Them: Eventually that thousand will lead to a million!
Me:In a thousand years, like legit it would take a thousand years for that to reach the bigger issue's death toll.
Them: Lives are lives!
Me: Hate is hate
Them: No its not!
Me: Yes it is.
Them: Everyone is equal!
Me: no they arent...
Them: How could you say something like that?!
Me: A doctor is more valuable then a drug dealer, the doctor will save more lives then the drug dealer there for, to society the doctor is far more important then the drug dealer. A persons value isnt based on their skin colour, their beliefs, or even how much they are paid Its based on what they can do for society.
By the age of 40 there are so many differences in a person saying one is just as valid and equal to the other is...insane. For example, my friend and roommate is 22 he's a car mechanic and is about to go buy a house in a few months He helps people fix their cars, i on the other hand just bring him the cars to fix, or clean them, he is more important and more valuable to society then i am, he and i are not equals in this right. Hell i cant even afford a car payment haha X3 Im 24, being paid minimum wage and falling apart, i much like those in similar situations to me, have so many issues and challenges on the daily that when compared to someone that doesnt have these issues we arent equals, by any means, the person with out These issues will function, protect, and help society more then i will ever be able to, there for they are more valuable at the end of the day then i am. For another example an artist with even the slightest bit of practice is more valuable then me because their art Can and will make people smile, they will be the moral booster people need but me? Nah fam, i cant do that, there for even if they have the exact same issues i do they are more valuable to society then me. When you sit down and actually compare a person to another person The differences and inequalities that exist become very apparent very quickly. Hell even when compared to going through the same trauma people's reactions and copping are insanely different. Hell my 5th suicide attempt was just a couple months ago and a friend of mine thats been-Through worse then i have isnt even on that many if any at all, Hell there is a dude at work that car a car dropped on him that is more valuable to society then i am and hasnt even tried...Im pretty pathetic when compared to these people.
We arent dogs or 'lessor' animals that rely and solely go off instinct one red fox is the same and equal to another one human is not the same or equal to another they just arent and again the differences become aparent veyr very quickly. Even the most accepting groups of people are just as hateful and violent as those they wish to destory or rid themselves of. They in contrast are just as bad if not worse because of hypocrisy.
Lets look at another friend of mine, she streams, she does art (rarely but still does) and is over all just a good bean to be around, she makes more people smile on a daily then i do she brightens peoples days and genuinely controbutes to society, me? I dont, she is more valuable then i am. Im more likely to wind up dying in a gutter tomorrow then anyone i know and my entire life would have lead up to that point i would have done nothing for society or hell even my watchers on here, i write once in a red moon, or would ring of fire eclipse be more accurate? That gets maybe a few hundred to a thousand views and makes people horny for 30 seconds. So while im more valuable then a drug dealer its not by much because that drug dealer could have a change of heart and become a doctor, a firefighter, an EMT or some other form of not only life savor but help improve someone elses life, i can not and will not i just dont have the energy anymore.
everyone is born equal, not everyone ends being equal, hell i was born healthy, happy, and even up to 3 years old i was no different then your average three year old...Now not so much. Now i have two bad knees, a bad hip, bad heart, going blind, constant migraines, memory issues, ptsd, gender dysphoria, constant need/want to kill myself, diabetes, a twisted look and view on reality... and some other things i forget from time to time... now compare that to the average human that doesnt have those things, maybe a bit of anxiety or stress? How exactly are that person and i equal again? Oh right...we arent not even in the slightest...While we deserve the same rights. medical, marriage, laws, etc we arent equal in the slightest. Everyone i know with PTSD is handling it far better then i am, and moving on, trying to get better and even doing better and when i try i stumble and fall and even though im trying i just dont seem to make progress like they do and its draining, im trying to do better and get better and its not getting better...I barely slept all month until a few days ago, for weeks i was only able to get 1-2 hours of sleep a night before not being able to sleep or even try until the next night, its hard and while they struggle as well they dont seem at least outwardly to struggle as much as i am and its that outward appearance that makes it convincing.
Im tired of people being so invested and blinded by their beliefs that they dont see the damage and similarities they have with those they hate, to the point they are doing the exact same thing they claim to hate and be "better" than...They do the same things, cause just as much damage and shout the same rhetoric (in a sense) that those they hate do, they cherry pick and shove things down your throat just like those they hate and just like those they hate when you point this out they shame you, block you, attack you, get you white knighted to the point in some cases its actually worse.
"If you are not with me, then you are my enemy"
Sound familiar? Thats because every revolutionist/hate group/activist group uses this saying or a similar phased saying much like "Silence is violence" The funny thing is, is with that saying your just as guilty as we are because of other issues you're just glossing over and ignoring a.k.a being silent about. the best counter to this is "Only a sith deals in absolutes" because only true evil sees you as an enemy if you don't fight along side them and preach what they do you are the enemy and need to be destroyed just as equally as those they are fighting against. And that my friends is the human condition, thinking you're the right one and denying and attack anyone that thinks differently, adversity and discussion is what causes growth, not ignoring and not blocking, denying things you dont like is how you grow...But people get "offended" if they dont do this and while you cant control what you get offended by, you can control how you act and react to that offense. You cant choose what you hate, but you can choose on how you act on that hate, if you hate something/someone but dont act on that hate that is how you prove you are better then those that do.
I hate cats, with every fiber of my being, they attack me no matter what, i have more scars on my body to cats then any other living being on the planet in cluding my father, but just because i hate them and want them destroyed and wiped off the fave of the earth doesnt mean i need to mistreat them, i will never mistreat a living being based on my feelings and if i ever do i apologize and do my best to fix the wrong doings. If i get angry and snap on someone, i apologize, even if it takes me a few days or a week i will apoligze and try to make it better, i will lose and have lost sleep over being a douche to someone, being mean, snapping, i feel physically ill and if a cat attacks me while im tried or pissed off i'll slide them across the floor to get them away from me and then apologize profusely because that was wrong to do.
Its okay to hate, its not okay to act on that hate, because if you hate something or someone, but you treat them normally, why does it matter what you think? You arent hurting them with your thoughts, or your actions, so that hate, even if its justified (fucking cats) acting on this hate is the true wrong doing because you're hurting someone, you're hurting something and thats not right. Teach people to act out of kindness and love not hate, because right now in this world people are only acting on hate, and action on that hate leads to more hate, because see, even if you hate someone and they acted kind to you, and you acted kind to them, they and you would grow to not hate, and that non hate would spread. But instead, people act on this hate, on this anger, on these negative emotions and it spreads like a disease... What happens when a new disease comes out? We distance ourselves from it and eventually it goes away or we create a vaccine for it and even though it still exists and people get sick from it, they have less of a chance to die from it. So even though you hate someone or something, distance yourself from the hate, be the vaccine, treat people and living things properly so that the hate doesnt spread...Be the doctor not the dealer....
Please stay safe out there, please help people, dont riot, dont loot, dont hate...stop it before it gets worse, please...so many lives are on the line, so many people will die because of whats going on, but because you're so blinded by this hate you dont see whats going on...please...stop...
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"Humans are blind, we see only what we want to."
With many blocking each other for only slight disagreements, I can't help but I agree with that phrase.