Protect the hubby~

Fiercely and with a vengeance!

You should block them too. Just imagine how pissed off they'd get 😂

This though. xD

Yes, that's what I usually do :D

omg I read these kind of things happened to someone else on twitter too.
What's wrong with people.
What makes them think they have a chance with someone who : a) never talked to before b) clearly have no interest in them c) are already taken
Besides, they are probably going in for free art.
That's really sad tbh.

I know, right? Though in these particular cases, it was more about complaining about Night's art. That is why he blocked them in the first place.

I'm happy that he has a protecting tiger dad to protect him <3

Awww, thank you! <3

Yikes...

Oh man, manche Leute ey^^ Ich kann mir persönlich auch nicht vorstellen das man bei Night einfach ohne grund gesperrt wird. Es muss irgeneinen bestimmten grund haben. Ich hoffe das es bald aufhören wird und du nicht mehr solche Nachrichten bekommen wirst.^^

Das stimmt, er blockt Leute wirklich nur, wenn er einen Grund dafür hat. Meistens, weil sie aufdringlich sind, nervig, oder über Sachen diskutieren müssen, die wirklich nur Geschmackssache sind.
Vielen lieben Dank! ^.^

Da kann ich es aber auch nachvollziehen. Sowas würde mich auf Dauer auch nerven wenn ich das ständig mitbekommen würde.

i completely understand what night is going threw, i had that simallar issue when i had people coming at me when they got blocked by there friend's and some artist as well to and i'm not going to the end's of the earth to get them unblocked by someone who blocked them, that's not my problem or issue, so i know what you are going threw bud, but i hope night is ok and i hope thing's will calm down for him as well to.

Yeah, it can get pretty annoying after a while. And thank you, he's not really shaken up, just a lil agitated :3

well that's good he's doing fine though, tell him i'm sending him love and hope just to make him more happier and better.

Good on you Asyr, often I hear of people trying to reach artists through their significant others or very close friends/their art manager after they have been blacklisted by the artist.

It's really annoying as well as humorous that they think talking to one of the artists close associates would help make the situation any better. They're just going to get blocked even further and most likely reported.

Happy to hear you're there to help keep them at bay. ^.^

I think they sincerely believe that we might be able to help them. They seem kinda disenfranchised from reality.
As if I'd ever be like: "Oh, you're criticising Night for some choice he made with his artwork... of course I'm gonna take your side and tell him that!"
Right :p

It's even worse in your case where you're his spouse and someone would go to you and say something expecting you to hear them out or even take their side in any matter.

Complete Stranger vs Husband.. hard choice there. Some people just don't understand or just don't care, it's worse when the artist has anxiety and these people pull this stuff. But atleast those of us know better to just block that out.

Ah furries, the more things change, the more they stay the same...

Indeed

Sorry you have to go through that, hun.

Thank you, kit :3

Do people not also realize that, even if it's *not* because he blocked them, making you don't know someone your go-between is incredibly rude?

Sadly, I don't think they realize that. They probably think: "I am right about this, so I need to reach out to others and tell them I'm right!"

I feel like these are the things that drinking games are made of
Example:
“Oh I got a guy talking to me that wants to get a pic from you, take a shot! Oh, it wants to be ‘X’ fetish, 2 shots!”

Probably end up under the table real fast x3

That could be a good or bad thing. Depends on if your drinking partner is wearing pants

Dad has to protect his son right? As if you'd take their side over his.

Exactly! :3

*hugs*

*hugs back*

Holy moly. Sorry you have to deal with that.

Thank you! :3

I Agree, If Night blocks someone, he must have a reason for doing it.
Thanks, Asyr.

Yup yup, that's right :3

Oje, da muss aber gewaltig was im argen gewesen sein. oO Hoffe mal, dass das sich bald legt und alles wieder normal weiter geht.

Es geht. Es kam jetzt ein paar Mal vor, vielleicht kommt nochmal was, aber ich mache mir da keine großen Gedanken.

Es kommt mir da gerade so eine art "senpai notice me" Szenario in den Sinn. Würde mich nicht wundern wenn es so ähnlich war. Aber ja, groß darüber den Kopf zerbrechen sorgt nur für Migräne. Ich drück ihm und dir die Daumen, das da nicht noch mehr kommt. *umarm*

One of those times I read a journal and think "This needed to be addressed?" Then I remember that some people just have 0% gorm.

Unfortunately yes.

I’m sorry you have to deal with that sort of stuff. I’m sure hey aren’t being malicious, but I think it could be thought out a bit better on their end. Sometimes it’s best to just call your losses instead of making things worse, you know? I think you are taking the correct approach with this

I wouldn't be so sure about them not being malicious, but otherwise I agree. That is why I don't start any discussions with those people but just block them right away.

It blows my mind when it comes to people...

Like seriously: If (A) blocks (B), then (A) Seriously wants nothing to do with (B). But (B) doesn't move on, and still wants to reach out to (A). Even if it means asking © and (D) and rest of their friends or family. When (A) clearly doesn't want to talk back at them.

So (B) has to show respect. So intead: They can't let (A) go. Or overly attached.

Sadly, not everyone understands it :/ Best solution is indeed blocking people.

People shouldn't reach out to other close people to ask them "Why" or "Ask him/her to hear me out" speech. When they were already blocked in the first place...

It is saddening how many people do not get this, even though it's so simple. I completely agree with you.

That is so gross. How can people be so stupid as to think they can convince you to side with them over your partner and so entitled as to think people don't have every right to block them?

I frankly don't know what they're thinking. It is beyond me.

Ugh, my fiance knows the same feeling, I can only imagine it's more frequent for you both since Night is a really popular artist. People really need to learn to move on.

eh i take a middle ground on this i have been blocked by an artist once so i messged a mutual friend turned out it was accidental and the artist had no idea he had blocked me and sent me an apology afterwards, you find quite often if you block someone with out sending them a note saying why they are blocked they will assume mistake or they get in to a paniced mind set of OMG WHAT DID I DO? not knowing is the worse it would be like being fired from a job and not being told why just finding your self locked out of the building, so yer i can see why it happens, of course some of them are probably just egotisst who think anyone who blocks them must not understand "WHO" they are, and who those who don't think the oanic thing is real it is i can assure you i had to come down from an anxiety attack due to that block i mentioend because i thought i must have done something so horrible and i ended up in a spiral of self hate and doubt took me awhile before i was actually in a place to message said mutual friend and get the issue sorted.

Ugh.

I mean, I can sort of see how it might be allowable if it was a case of mistaken identity (thinking the person was some other asshole who had a similar user name on a different site), if it was an accident/automatic block done by Twitter (which has happened, as the guy above me notes), or if the blocking comes out of the blue and with no explanation rather than after a bad interaction with the person (although even there, it could happen if they said something awful elsewhere, and the blocker saw this and blocked them over it). But all of these are very rare instances IMO, and of course none of them would occur after an interaction between blocker and blocked, which is true for the vast majority of cases. I.e., it's not as if they have no idea why the blocking happened, and if they try to say "but I didn't even get a chance to apologize/explain myself before they blocked me!"...again, that's hardly true for most cases, they usually had plenty of chances and either didn't take them or their explanations and apologies were obviously bogus.

So, no, you are absolutely right to be against this sort of thing across the board. And of course, a wonderful hubby and daddy, too.