The last several months has been trying socially and not because of social distancing; lately it feels like either everyone wants my attention right or everyone is ghosting me.

One day I have 5+ people hitting me up in every messenger and communication method available including in person, and they are all impatient; they want responses NOW. Fast forward to the very next day and I am all alone; literally nobody is bothering to respond. I really don't get it; my social life used to be a constant hum with occasional dips in either direction..