Update 11-25-2020
5 years ago
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Hey Everyone. I finally got the time to make the updates everyone was waiting for.
Here goes.
First, things have gotten ALOT better between me and my stepfather for the very first time in years as the new understanding came to light what caused all the negativity I experienced from him over some years making me want to leave him.
And here's what happened as new truth was revealed. My mom was in fact cheating on my stepfather over around 4 years and because of all the rage my stepfather had in him from really believing that happened but couldn't prove it, all the rage is GONE after she got caught red handed with one of the messages from her ex boyfriend and my stepfather found dirty messages between her and ex boyfriend.
She got angry for being caught and first thought he was turning me and sis against him but that's not the case. My stepfather did give me a FREE WILLED choice either or not move on with my mom to an apartment she tried to apply for and did jump the gun wanting me a co-signer but after seeing evidence of her cheating, I did back away from it and did let her know I felt uncomfortable after alot of lies she has told me, sis and Stepfather to cover up her affairs and was angry at my stepfather one night as we all confronted her. I wasn't yelling, but tried to show how hurt I was but she kept cutting me off that night.
But as of now, here's the current update.
My mom who did leave the house, is allowed to move back in, as my stepfather feels he's still in love with her and WANTS to make things work for them as they are sleeping together for first time in like 12 years. Despite there is still gonna be some trust issues and few blowouts as we expected, but my mom did apologize to me and sis for not being honest and not realizing it's hurting me and sis as well. They're making progress right now, long way to go but I hope we make things right at this point as long as my mom cooperates by not constantly changing stories, denying stuff and other methods of Lying.
Lies can do ALOT more damage than you think it well. Lies and misinformation is what started feuds or worse Wars throughout history based on Lies and Misinformation.
Also as of now, my stepfather and I gotten along ALOT better for first time in years as all the rage he had was gone. He said, his eyesight for reading small print improved, he's not shaky, no death stares, no rage in his anger, no judgemental attitudes, and he felt very regretful how he treated me and sis based on his rage towards my mom from her Lying and such. He said he didn't want to go back to who he was during those years and understood for first time how we felt about him during his tensions period.
Another Update is, I'm gonna take a break from artwork for now as my artist motivation feels frozen right now as I need time to fully recover mentally from that unfortunate event we had by watching my favs and playing video games I missed doing. Don't worry, any art ideas I had and will have are written down on my notepad app so I don't lose them. I'll let you know when I'll be back at it. I thank you guys for your support during that crisis and I hope from this point on, things get better for all of us.
Update you next time :)
Here goes.
First, things have gotten ALOT better between me and my stepfather for the very first time in years as the new understanding came to light what caused all the negativity I experienced from him over some years making me want to leave him.
And here's what happened as new truth was revealed. My mom was in fact cheating on my stepfather over around 4 years and because of all the rage my stepfather had in him from really believing that happened but couldn't prove it, all the rage is GONE after she got caught red handed with one of the messages from her ex boyfriend and my stepfather found dirty messages between her and ex boyfriend.
She got angry for being caught and first thought he was turning me and sis against him but that's not the case. My stepfather did give me a FREE WILLED choice either or not move on with my mom to an apartment she tried to apply for and did jump the gun wanting me a co-signer but after seeing evidence of her cheating, I did back away from it and did let her know I felt uncomfortable after alot of lies she has told me, sis and Stepfather to cover up her affairs and was angry at my stepfather one night as we all confronted her. I wasn't yelling, but tried to show how hurt I was but she kept cutting me off that night.
But as of now, here's the current update.
My mom who did leave the house, is allowed to move back in, as my stepfather feels he's still in love with her and WANTS to make things work for them as they are sleeping together for first time in like 12 years. Despite there is still gonna be some trust issues and few blowouts as we expected, but my mom did apologize to me and sis for not being honest and not realizing it's hurting me and sis as well. They're making progress right now, long way to go but I hope we make things right at this point as long as my mom cooperates by not constantly changing stories, denying stuff and other methods of Lying.
Lies can do ALOT more damage than you think it well. Lies and misinformation is what started feuds or worse Wars throughout history based on Lies and Misinformation.
Also as of now, my stepfather and I gotten along ALOT better for first time in years as all the rage he had was gone. He said, his eyesight for reading small print improved, he's not shaky, no death stares, no rage in his anger, no judgemental attitudes, and he felt very regretful how he treated me and sis based on his rage towards my mom from her Lying and such. He said he didn't want to go back to who he was during those years and understood for first time how we felt about him during his tensions period.
Another Update is, I'm gonna take a break from artwork for now as my artist motivation feels frozen right now as I need time to fully recover mentally from that unfortunate event we had by watching my favs and playing video games I missed doing. Don't worry, any art ideas I had and will have are written down on my notepad app so I don't lose them. I'll let you know when I'll be back at it. I thank you guys for your support during that crisis and I hope from this point on, things get better for all of us.
Update you next time :)