yeah, I know exactly what you mean. I feel sad that some people who 10 years ago said:
"Your sexuality does not define you. You should be judged based on your character and actions."
now advocate
"One's sexuality does qualify as a personality trait"

it does indeed. if the only thing you are about is your sexuality. I wonder how they would react if they would get everything they want. I guess those would even cry then. thanks god most LGBTQ+ are normal people .

I'm 100% with you...
As long, as they stay out of "my" pants, they may do as they please... (just let the children out of it...)
I've got some amazing friends who are "gay" or "lesbian" respectivly... we can have fun no matter what...
And some of my best friends and most reliable friends are "gay"...

many of my pals online and offline are gay too. but even they are saying now: they are crazy. I mean. I hear some gays talk worse about "woke" LGBTQ+ SJWs than straight people. Imagine that. XD

Jap, but they are permitted to trashtalk.. because it's their own community... so that's ok...
It's like everything else.. you can do it, you can overdo it... And now, they start to take apart old films and games, because they are not empowering this and that... that is silly, and therefor they too can be taken apart... luckily by their own community

I a looking for the day they are being target. History tells us that they will be targets too one day and be called old school and such ^^

Oh believe me, Kumb, I am LGBT (I am bi) and I support thel and our rights but DAMN are some of them making us look bad, hateful and stupid, thry just destroy the cause and cause more homophobia by being as bad as homophobic and cisphobic because "it is deserved after centuries of oppression" no bitch you're still an asshole who wants a special snowflake prize frt the hell out of the movement !

That is what I mean. I absolutely do support same rights for everyone. But some sound like the just want revenge . And I am not going to support them. You do not want homophobic? Great deal to react with straightphobic XD

and yes. many are not about same rights. they just want to be special and praised for it

I mean, I get it. As long as I've been around, I've seen a lot of the spectrum here. I went off, and lived a life, and thought I left a lot of this behind. But I've returned to find the state of things...confusing. Not as I left them. The world has fallen in love with a label maker. They want to slap a label on something, and the more labels you have, the higher your status is, I guess?

I don't know. I remember when people, where people, and what you wore and what flag you flew didn't matter, and you were a person, and judged based on being a person...good or bad. Now if you don't have a laundry list of letters and the right color codes so people can identify what box you belong in, they're confused....and I'm confused.

It's a very odd welcome back...

Yeah. everyone is just defining himself this way now it seems Oo

This goes for just about any idea or group some one might be part of, you get annoying if you are a broken record. Don't let one aspect of your life be the only defining part of your life. If your gay, that's fine and people shouldn't bother you about it. If your gay and are covered in rainbow colored clothing with "I kiss boys" in big letters on the front, now you are being obnoxious about it and deserve some of the blow back you get for it. If you support alphabet people issues, that's fine. If you are in every one's face all the time about it and calling every thing a micro aggression, you deserve some of the blow back you get for it. "Live and let live" is a good philosophy to live by. People just want to go about their lives and be left alone (some times literally) and since every part of life has become us vs them issues, many people just want to avoid it.
Basically, what I'm saying is your sexual preferences don't need to be a topic unless your planning to bed the person your talking to and that person isn't phobic or close minded if they aren't interested in it. If some one is genuinely oppressing/hating on you, its reasonable to confront them about it but offense is TAKEN, not GIVE so don't fly off the handle looking for way to assume what some one said was some sort of attack on you or some one else. Obviously some things people say ARE meant to be attacks, I won't dispute that, but those things are OBVIOUSLY meant to be attacks and there's little doubt what the intent was.
So if your jumping on people all the time over every little thing and they avoid you, its not because they are bigots, its because your annoying. Treat others as you want to be treated and if you treat others like crap, expect them to treat you the same.

Thanks ^^ I am glad you said that ^^ I almways try to repect other people but some --- not alll - but some in the LGBTQ+ group sound like they are not happy until the genozide all straight people Oo . I hope I am wrong there.

Its because every thing has become so polarized that there is ONLY a "far left" and "far right" in people's minds. A "your either with us or against us" mentality, as in there's no middle ground any more and you have to go ALL IN or you are the enemy. The worst part of this is that people are afraid to have the wrong opinion on any topic because if they do, they get canceled so they grovel and beg to be told what opinion they should have or are allowed to have and parrot it at every opportunity seeking validation and acceptance. A good example of this was the video where the BLM mob was harassing people trying to eat lunch demanding they raise their fist in support and then surrounding the couple who didn't and screaming at them trying to force them into compliance. South Park also did a good job with their season 23 "board girls" ep where their PC Principal tried to deal with a transgender issue.
In the USA we had a saying that went "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it" that was meant to enforce our freedom of speech but that ideal has died along with many others, either being one-sided or simply abused.

Your post is kinda vague, so I'm not sure what you are talking about here? Do you have specific examples of what you're talking about?

I'm generally out of the loop of what's going on in the US (and news in general, wherever in the world) btw, so apologies in advance if your post is targeting something big happening right now that I should be aware of and I completely missed it lol

Unless you mean somebody is personally bullying/harassing you (in which case you're absolutely right to stay vague and hide specific/personal info), if that's it then I'm really sorry you're going through this, I hope you'll find a way out of it and/or get that person kicked out. :/

These are just my thoughts about the whole thing: Sexual preference, gender and such should be accepted as it is. leave everyone be and don't shove it down other peoples' throat.
F.E. Some Trans whining all the time about how cis people oppress him. even if they don't. And then wonder why they are being told to shut up.

I am not being harassed . I just am annoyed when I read in every chat how people instandly start to bring up woke shit, lgbtq and everything else like there is no other topic. And if you say. I am fien with then havign the same rights, then you are NOT woke enough. Execuse me. should I kill myself because I am not LGBTQ but only cis ???

I can only agree with your main point, that sexual preference, gender and such should be accepted as it is.

I'm probably not in the same "bubble" as you are though (social media platforms tend to do that, forcing you in one bubble and barely allowing you to see anything outside it), I am openly gay myself and I have a bunch of both straight, cis, and lgbtq friends (both online, in the furry community, and IRL), and I don't see anybody forcing others to be either gay or straight, but this kind of behavior is banned by pretty much every group chat I'm in, and anything close to conversion therapies is firmly banned here in my country, but I hear they're allowed and a much bigger thing in the US?

I'm not saying "this does not happen to me so it's not real", of course, I'm just saying I'm having a hard time knowing exactly what's going on around you because I feel like I've never been exposed to that stuff before haha.

However I see you talking about Trans people feeling oppressed, and for that I've seen that the US is passing some very strong anti-Trans legislation right now (just in a few states it seems for now? I have no idea how law works in that country), and I do see a major outcry about it, is that what you are talking about?
I think it's legitimate to be vocal about it at the very least. If I was a parent and my country suddenly decided to ban medication my kid needs because <insert some "I believe so and the facts are wrong" typical politician shit here>, I too would go ballistic about it.

Also your past couple of sentences make no sense to me lol, are there really people that think "no WE are superior to you and you straight/cis should have less rights than us, or better just go kill yourself"? Other than crazy selfish people who want to feel superior of course, but those are everywhere and not just LGBTQ that's for sure x)

Well. I try my best to not stay in a bubble. I am willing to discuss stuff. But people tend to instand yell at me and block me XD

(and yes. I had it several times when I tried to enter a discussion I was labeled with CIS and this ended any chance to talk to them Oo )

Funny thing. I was a lot more open about my sexuality in my former country. Here in the US, I hide that I'm gay to everyone, not because I'm ashamed of being gay or because I'm scared, but because I don't want to be associated with the extreme side of the "community" people would automatically associate me with.

It's also not unique to LGBTQ+.
This is was communotarism does. Being X or Y automatically makes you part a group (whether you like it or not) which people will automatically associate with you. This means that regardless or your own opinion, they will think that because you're gay, you necessarily agree with everything "The LGBTQ+" community says as a whole.
But in reality, we're all different people with different opinions (except maybe the twitter zombies that block their way out of self-validation).

Us seem to be strange but Germany is also becoming weird.

If you mind that someone doesn't "have a personality besides being LGBTQ+" then you never accepted LGBTQ people to begin with.

What about a gay guy like me who has the same issue? I never accepted myself?

I am gay, but I want to make friends based on myself being a nerd, an artist, a video game player, a classic Simpsons fan... All that stuff does much more to define me as a person than my sexuality. That's what I learned when I started to accept myself for the first time.

Hey, Farel. this guy is saying I have never accepted you ;) XD

what exactly do you mean? Most LGBTQ+ people I have meet are more than just LGBTQ+ . I am sure no person is only a gender label on two legs Oo

I am asking directly: What do these LGBTQ+ want ? Kill cis? Have them hide their sexual identity?