RUSSIAN TRANSFOBIA [Di_02]
4 years ago
General
It pains me very much to bring up this topic, because I always hid it, but my private life secrets were again made public without my accept. I was again sabotaged by close human. I'm sure every trans*person knows this pain. The life of each of us becomes a cruel survival game. In any country. Not life: survival in spite of. For 20 years, I have been attacked several times and twice tried to killed. And now history is again giving a circle. These words are written by a human whom I considered my friend for more than five years:
A human, without whose help I would not have dared to go to the medical examination in St. Petersburg after the "doctors" in my provincial hospital was laughed in my face, was calling me "a victim of American propaganda", "a pitiful sight" and declared that the such diagnosis hasn't been put to anybody here before and will never be puted just like principle. I was immensely grateful for the help, but it became more and more difficult to maintain communication with this person every year. It was unrealistic for me to listen to his streams of hatred on everyone and everything. However, a sense of duty for the help rendered forced me to be with Marty all this time, in order to one day repay with kindness in return. Gradually, rare into my address also began to slip caustic remarks (about worldview, lifestyle), which now turned into open bullying in the presence of strangers.
The calls to give up my dreams about travel, ditch punk, off mohawk, get a civil`job and also "quit trying to become a professional artist, as it brings low profits". I never pursued the goal of getting rich, but just wanted to stay myself. Marty Collins - on the other hand, is a rich person who famous as hater of low income people. I realized that it true only when happened was an attempt to extort money from me on sponsing his unreasonably expensive parties, without discussing in advance am I could afford and wanted at all participate in the organization of such events. I tried to JUST TALK with him about this issue, and all Russians are saw, (you can look too) what have I get [link above] So today Im in the ranks of guys who say Marty Collins "bye"
However, Im just shocked. I don't understand why people use our intim info as compromising evidence every time. I do not understand why after THIS society considers sick us, - queer*people, - who just want to live quiet life in peace. I don't understand why, in any conflict, instead of a calm, reasoned answer, our "dirty laundry" is just displayed every time for the public see like it is fat argument. No, I am refuse understand this!
Previously Marty Collins/Jeffrey-Macfrlyne/Charlie Spaice (all of it is one person nicknames) make similar conflicts with other popular russian furry/anthro/toonanimal artists. He organized bullying his former friends- autors Furry-St.Petersburg: the fully-paid Ferox-suit refused give to customer, "draw dicks in eyes of furryhead", threatened people, tried to break into homes, distributed their intimate photos. Tried use me for incitement skinhead mobs to raids, allegedly "all furry-community of St. Petersburg are encourage a zoophiles and pedophiles". But person did not provide no one intelligible evidence that his ex-friends and the perverts are generally related. Raid did not take place, but... I'm even not sure at all now that this was...lie or not? And who Collins are trying to portray today from me? Damn, it's just a miracle that earler innocent people weren't hurt, but what be next?
Earlier I thought that St. Petersburgs are really harm to Marty, which provoke reaction, but soon realized that the person have some chronic soul pain and outbursts of unmotivated aggression, which force make conflicts and behave inappropriately. Person enters into trust to talk on vulgar topics so that make you obscenely open to him, and just then blackmails or spreads rumors. Person have a company of the several people, which he makes the haters of his victims, using: exaggeration, taking words out of context, hiding the true reasons people's actions and just false facts. For this reason much rus-furrys are have a personal dislike to Charlie Spaice (Marty Collins/Jeffrey-Macfrlyne) as an artist, which is why he tried to change his nicknames, characters, and move to other sites, make his blogs private, etc.
! This text is not a call for a boycott or bullying, I just know that many of you would not finance the business of a discriminator. It would be dishonest of me (as the only english-speaking victim) keep silent, because this is exactly the case when inaction = approval.
! I want to ask all people who was affected (or will be affected) by Marty, rally and henceforth write about all of his new incidents also in English too, with full evidence, and links to other cases. I think that we should create an open registry of Marty/Charlie crimes, so that he cannot run away to people wich sill don't knows how him acts. I believe this will help become a better person if he has the chance to clean up those registry one day by publicly apologizing to every his victim.
! I just want Marty Collins to start controlling his actions (maybe see a doctor), because everything should have the reasonable limits.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CO26-v8pMOFA human, without whose help I would not have dared to go to the medical examination in St. Petersburg after the "doctors" in my provincial hospital was laughed in my face, was calling me "a victim of American propaganda", "a pitiful sight" and declared that the such diagnosis hasn't been put to anybody here before and will never be puted just like principle. I was immensely grateful for the help, but it became more and more difficult to maintain communication with this person every year. It was unrealistic for me to listen to his streams of hatred on everyone and everything. However, a sense of duty for the help rendered forced me to be with Marty all this time, in order to one day repay with kindness in return. Gradually, rare into my address also began to slip caustic remarks (about worldview, lifestyle), which now turned into open bullying in the presence of strangers.
The calls to give up my dreams about travel, ditch punk, off mohawk, get a civil`job and also "quit trying to become a professional artist, as it brings low profits". I never pursued the goal of getting rich, but just wanted to stay myself. Marty Collins - on the other hand, is a rich person who famous as hater of low income people. I realized that it true only when happened was an attempt to extort money from me on sponsing his unreasonably expensive parties, without discussing in advance am I could afford and wanted at all participate in the organization of such events. I tried to JUST TALK with him about this issue, and all Russians are saw, (you can look too) what have I get [link above] So today Im in the ranks of guys who say Marty Collins "bye"
However, Im just shocked. I don't understand why people use our intim info as compromising evidence every time. I do not understand why after THIS society considers sick us, - queer*people, - who just want to live quiet life in peace. I don't understand why, in any conflict, instead of a calm, reasoned answer, our "dirty laundry" is just displayed every time for the public see like it is fat argument. No, I am refuse understand this!
Previously Marty Collins/Jeffrey-Macfrlyne/Charlie Spaice (all of it is one person nicknames) make similar conflicts with other popular russian furry/anthro/toonanimal artists. He organized bullying his former friends- autors Furry-St.Petersburg: the fully-paid Ferox-suit refused give to customer, "draw dicks in eyes of furryhead", threatened people, tried to break into homes, distributed their intimate photos. Tried use me for incitement skinhead mobs to raids, allegedly "all furry-community of St. Petersburg are encourage a zoophiles and pedophiles". But person did not provide no one intelligible evidence that his ex-friends and the perverts are generally related. Raid did not take place, but... I'm even not sure at all now that this was...lie or not? And who Collins are trying to portray today from me? Damn, it's just a miracle that earler innocent people weren't hurt, but what be next?
Earlier I thought that St. Petersburgs are really harm to Marty, which provoke reaction, but soon realized that the person have some chronic soul pain and outbursts of unmotivated aggression, which force make conflicts and behave inappropriately. Person enters into trust to talk on vulgar topics so that make you obscenely open to him, and just then blackmails or spreads rumors. Person have a company of the several people, which he makes the haters of his victims, using: exaggeration, taking words out of context, hiding the true reasons people's actions and just false facts. For this reason much rus-furrys are have a personal dislike to Charlie Spaice (Marty Collins/Jeffrey-Macfrlyne) as an artist, which is why he tried to change his nicknames, characters, and move to other sites, make his blogs private, etc.
! This text is not a call for a boycott or bullying, I just know that many of you would not finance the business of a discriminator. It would be dishonest of me (as the only english-speaking victim) keep silent, because this is exactly the case when inaction = approval.
! I want to ask all people who was affected (or will be affected) by Marty, rally and henceforth write about all of his new incidents also in English too, with full evidence, and links to other cases. I think that we should create an open registry of Marty/Charlie crimes, so that he cannot run away to people wich sill don't knows how him acts. I believe this will help become a better person if he has the chance to clean up those registry one day by publicly apologizing to every his victim.
! I just want Marty Collins to start controlling his actions (maybe see a doctor), because everything should have the reasonable limits.
Let's say no to bullying together
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Stay strong, comrade. You have my support.
I'm fine, it over time, this shit even ceases to amaze. This was written as an information assistance for LGBT+ furrys