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I Am Looking to Get Out of Kentucky.
4 years ago
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Sorry for the radio-silence recently. I figured the title was pretty succinct enough, that I'm looking to get out of this shithole state, but I should perhaps detail my reasoning, as it's been a wild 20+ years.
First.. I suppose I should start off with why I've been so silent on the matter up until now.
-- I've been trying to build-up a nest egg to take on such a thing. I was unsure of how much I'd need, but I'm getting close to where I think it's a 'doable' amount. Which is why I've been busting-ass on commissions lately. Apologies if I'm still slow.
-- I have been painfully paranoid on the matter, if only because I am unsure how much my family ACTUALLY actively stalks me online. They already do this IRL, mainly over phone or 'surprise' visits to my apartment. Select few have done this to my sister as well, who ALSO wants to leave this fucking area.
-- The Right-wingers here in this state ARE violent, racist pieces of shit, honestly. I've had a friend even recently who switched to voting Blue / Independent / etc. , and he was actively threatened by his father on his life about the subject, citing 'Race war' bullshit and all as well. This state is a fucking hole. The cops are shit, most of anyone I turn to here are shit. The mayor is a lame-duck and does fuck-all about the police or anything of the sort to hold them accountable for jack-shit.
-- The Mother side of the family consists of racists, bigots, druggies, and most of all -- ties to the Klan. I do not wish to be affiliated with this.
-- The Father side of the family (minus said father and anyone who moved out West) -- Are predominantly red and have shown to have ties with 3%ers. They have also screwed me and my current two roommates on housing situations in the past, whether it be rent / repairs / deposit / etc. Wholly irresponsible.
-- Due to these frequent and -increasingly- more pushy behavior from the people I hate the most, it's becoming unsafe to life here almost entirely. I urged my sister to try moving the same -- ESPECIALLY since her confrontations with the Egg-Donor have been violent as well.
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The options:
While I have been looking for residency with
Jeschke , our results haven't been coming up with much of anything worthwhile. But my hopes / goals are mainly;
1. Get out of Kentucky.
2. Destination is likely either Illinois or Minnesota at this point. Somewhere North / Colder.
3. If I'm living alone, the rent needs to be DOABLE. 800+ for a single-bedroom or Studio apartment is unacceptable.
4. If I'm living with roommates, I'd prefer them be clean. I'd also prefer them be okay with me using pot for dealing with pain / art / etc.
5. My only allergies consist of only FEW varieties of cats (there are some which mainly make me sneeze a lot..), and shellfish (bad reactions).
Optional 6: Preferably, I'd like to live in a 'legal' state. If you're in the know, you know what this means.
In these times, I know beggars can't be choosers. But any help with getting out of this fucking state would be helpful.
Thank you in advance.
First.. I suppose I should start off with why I've been so silent on the matter up until now.
-- I've been trying to build-up a nest egg to take on such a thing. I was unsure of how much I'd need, but I'm getting close to where I think it's a 'doable' amount. Which is why I've been busting-ass on commissions lately. Apologies if I'm still slow.
-- I have been painfully paranoid on the matter, if only because I am unsure how much my family ACTUALLY actively stalks me online. They already do this IRL, mainly over phone or 'surprise' visits to my apartment. Select few have done this to my sister as well, who ALSO wants to leave this fucking area.
-- The Right-wingers here in this state ARE violent, racist pieces of shit, honestly. I've had a friend even recently who switched to voting Blue / Independent / etc. , and he was actively threatened by his father on his life about the subject, citing 'Race war' bullshit and all as well. This state is a fucking hole. The cops are shit, most of anyone I turn to here are shit. The mayor is a lame-duck and does fuck-all about the police or anything of the sort to hold them accountable for jack-shit.
-- The Mother side of the family consists of racists, bigots, druggies, and most of all -- ties to the Klan. I do not wish to be affiliated with this.
-- The Father side of the family (minus said father and anyone who moved out West) -- Are predominantly red and have shown to have ties with 3%ers. They have also screwed me and my current two roommates on housing situations in the past, whether it be rent / repairs / deposit / etc. Wholly irresponsible.
-- Due to these frequent and -increasingly- more pushy behavior from the people I hate the most, it's becoming unsafe to life here almost entirely. I urged my sister to try moving the same -- ESPECIALLY since her confrontations with the Egg-Donor have been violent as well.
---
The options:
While I have been looking for residency with
Jeschke , our results haven't been coming up with much of anything worthwhile. But my hopes / goals are mainly; 1. Get out of Kentucky.
2. Destination is likely either Illinois or Minnesota at this point. Somewhere North / Colder.
3. If I'm living alone, the rent needs to be DOABLE. 800+ for a single-bedroom or Studio apartment is unacceptable.
4. If I'm living with roommates, I'd prefer them be clean. I'd also prefer them be okay with me using pot for dealing with pain / art / etc.
5. My only allergies consist of only FEW varieties of cats (there are some which mainly make me sneeze a lot..), and shellfish (bad reactions).
Optional 6: Preferably, I'd like to live in a 'legal' state. If you're in the know, you know what this means.
In these times, I know beggars can't be choosers. But any help with getting out of this fucking state would be helpful.
Thank you in advance.
please stay safe yo
Can be pricey here compared to Kentucky though
I know you have a brick of options, feel free to do some research on that one and see if it's something you might like to do. And of course, it's literally just across the river to the northeast, it would be a cinch to hop over. ^O^
But I don’t have a nest egg like you since life here is always hectic so, I wish you the best on your search
Lots of furs in the area too and at least from my experience, very open minded and clean folk, so also people to reach out to for potential roommates if need be.
Sorry about the bad experiences, I hope things work out for ya.
Just be careful, yeah? I know you will be, but.. Y'know. Always gonna be worried.