Let's talk about... kinky stuff
4 years ago
General
For some reason, you fluffs like nothing more than to kink-shame people. I see nothing wrong with kinks, as long as they harm no party involved... but for those that don't know, one man's puke reflex might just be another man's kink.
This always make kinks a little more complicated... but even as someone who doesn't feel quite confortable next to *a lot* of kinks I don't see any harm in it. But there is a good reason to keep it *a little* more separated, in my opinion.
I mean, take for instance Diapers. Diapers makes me puke! (well, ok, that's an exageration, but you get the point) but is there a problem with adults enjoying them? Yeah, I would prefer that people keep it *somewhat* behind closed doors (also, cause there is a time for kinky, and there is a time for clean). But even if I see them in public... I mean, a look away costs nothing, and does nobody harm!
The point is, it is not because you discovered that a person you follow has a kink that makes you feel kinda unconfortable, that you should shame them for it. And if you see something you don't quite like just look away! But that's more a discussion for the bird website than for here, it's just that that discussion won't fit neatly in 160 characters so I'll keep it to this.
TW/ Kinks
As for me, fun fact: I do have kinks.
But there is sadly a good reason that you won't see much of anything on here. In fact, the strange thing with my kinks is that most of them care more about my feeling than any visual flair, and in fact the whole visual aspect is for all but 3 of them just a massive turn-off. So no porn, no fetishy imagery, yeah not much at all of that aspect for me.
The one that you are *actually* bound to see on here is one that I'll dub as fluff fetish. I've kinda done it subdued in here... but I have a fetish for massive, massive amounts of floof. Floof beyond the point that you can walk. And long, useless ears that flaps pointlessly above it all, as if they were an afterthought.
This raises a good point, the fear of losing control over your own body is a recurring theme for me. Ever since I made Caroline's bodysuit (which is digigrade and features massive amounts of padding), I've been thinking about getting some kind of plush suit which would be so massive and plushy, and would make me completely unable to walk. All movements will have to be done by pushing me around, and both for getting in and getting out I would require a handler.
But the weird thing is... am I actually starting to like inflation? Actually not, at least not in the form as it is presented on here, the visual aspect of that one is one hell of a turn-off for me, it's just that that feeling of completely losing control over my own body is... endlessly fascinating.
Related to that is mind control. The idea of being addicted to some machine connected to your brain that could provide you with dopamine at will, making you a total slave that would do anything one orders it too. But also modifying aspects of the brain to become an animal, unable to communicate in anything but barks, unable to comprehend anything beyond simple commands. Or what about getting the mind of a girl...
This leads smoothly into transformation. Of course, the classic sona transformation is obvious. The idea of your sona (especially Caroline) being a bit species-fluid is also worth an explore.
But I can't hardly be "a little bit trans" without mentioning gender-swapping (even if I doubt any cis writer would have a hell of an idea of how that one would work). Besides the obvious for me "what if they finally did cut my dick off" (big question for me: would I still be ace?) I also like the inverse idea of *ahem* "girls" getting dicks. Body-swapping. And all kinds of weird combinations thereof (hint: cloatra's, hermaphrodites, and other xenogenders, are mighty fascinating too).
I also have somewhat of both a pregnancy and an egg fetish (cause unless medical science makes gigantic leaps (we can still wish!), I'm afraid neither is one I'll ever be able to experience).
But I also like other kinds of "body horror". Fusion. Aeromorphs. Wings. Bodysuits that can't be removed. Forced transformations, medical procedures gone overboard... all from fears I still have as an adult. Girls with massive tits attached to milk machines. Boys with extreme levels of testosterone fighting in the ring like wild beasts. Girls and boys that are birthing machines, gas machines... On hormone cultures that are just there to make them machines. Yeah these are very extreme fantasies, and something I wouldn't enjoy there existing in real life.
But sadly most of the above I only enjoy in my head, I don't kick off to seeing it and that makes it kinda difficult to explain.
On that I do occasionally like the visual aspect of is goo. Melting. Again, becoming all soft and uncontrolable.
Huttser17 has done it far better than I do, and I would count that as the only kinky art I have right now (outside of Caroline's fluff, and the occasional joke of her looking like a boy).
I think these are the main ones for me... I might update this in the future if needed. yeah, sorry, it's a bit of a dissapointment maybe?
Of course the most important one is that you don't draw one of my characters in your kink without asking permission, even if it *is* one from the list here above. But that's about it, really!
So now go ahead and kinkshame me O no actually, please don't, there are far more dire issues in the world. Go chase some pedophiles and zoophiles, ok! these have kinks that actually harm the world.
This always make kinks a little more complicated... but even as someone who doesn't feel quite confortable next to *a lot* of kinks I don't see any harm in it. But there is a good reason to keep it *a little* more separated, in my opinion.
I mean, take for instance Diapers. Diapers makes me puke! (well, ok, that's an exageration, but you get the point) but is there a problem with adults enjoying them? Yeah, I would prefer that people keep it *somewhat* behind closed doors (also, cause there is a time for kinky, and there is a time for clean). But even if I see them in public... I mean, a look away costs nothing, and does nobody harm!
The point is, it is not because you discovered that a person you follow has a kink that makes you feel kinda unconfortable, that you should shame them for it. And if you see something you don't quite like just look away! But that's more a discussion for the bird website than for here, it's just that that discussion won't fit neatly in 160 characters so I'll keep it to this.
TW/ Kinks
As for me, fun fact: I do have kinks.
But there is sadly a good reason that you won't see much of anything on here. In fact, the strange thing with my kinks is that most of them care more about my feeling than any visual flair, and in fact the whole visual aspect is for all but 3 of them just a massive turn-off. So no porn, no fetishy imagery, yeah not much at all of that aspect for me.
The one that you are *actually* bound to see on here is one that I'll dub as fluff fetish. I've kinda done it subdued in here... but I have a fetish for massive, massive amounts of floof. Floof beyond the point that you can walk. And long, useless ears that flaps pointlessly above it all, as if they were an afterthought.
This raises a good point, the fear of losing control over your own body is a recurring theme for me. Ever since I made Caroline's bodysuit (which is digigrade and features massive amounts of padding), I've been thinking about getting some kind of plush suit which would be so massive and plushy, and would make me completely unable to walk. All movements will have to be done by pushing me around, and both for getting in and getting out I would require a handler.
But the weird thing is... am I actually starting to like inflation? Actually not, at least not in the form as it is presented on here, the visual aspect of that one is one hell of a turn-off for me, it's just that that feeling of completely losing control over my own body is... endlessly fascinating.
Related to that is mind control. The idea of being addicted to some machine connected to your brain that could provide you with dopamine at will, making you a total slave that would do anything one orders it too. But also modifying aspects of the brain to become an animal, unable to communicate in anything but barks, unable to comprehend anything beyond simple commands. Or what about getting the mind of a girl...
This leads smoothly into transformation. Of course, the classic sona transformation is obvious. The idea of your sona (especially Caroline) being a bit species-fluid is also worth an explore.
But I can't hardly be "a little bit trans" without mentioning gender-swapping (even if I doubt any cis writer would have a hell of an idea of how that one would work). Besides the obvious for me "what if they finally did cut my dick off" (big question for me: would I still be ace?) I also like the inverse idea of *ahem* "girls" getting dicks. Body-swapping. And all kinds of weird combinations thereof (hint: cloatra's, hermaphrodites, and other xenogenders, are mighty fascinating too).
I also have somewhat of both a pregnancy and an egg fetish (cause unless medical science makes gigantic leaps (we can still wish!), I'm afraid neither is one I'll ever be able to experience).
But I also like other kinds of "body horror". Fusion. Aeromorphs. Wings. Bodysuits that can't be removed. Forced transformations, medical procedures gone overboard... all from fears I still have as an adult. Girls with massive tits attached to milk machines. Boys with extreme levels of testosterone fighting in the ring like wild beasts. Girls and boys that are birthing machines, gas machines... On hormone cultures that are just there to make them machines. Yeah these are very extreme fantasies, and something I wouldn't enjoy there existing in real life.
But sadly most of the above I only enjoy in my head, I don't kick off to seeing it and that makes it kinda difficult to explain.
On that I do occasionally like the visual aspect of is goo. Melting. Again, becoming all soft and uncontrolable.
Huttser17 has done it far better than I do, and I would count that as the only kinky art I have right now (outside of Caroline's fluff, and the occasional joke of her looking like a boy).I think these are the main ones for me... I might update this in the future if needed. yeah, sorry, it's a bit of a dissapointment maybe?
Of course the most important one is that you don't draw one of my characters in your kink without asking permission, even if it *is* one from the list here above. But that's about it, really!
So now go ahead and kinkshame me O no actually, please don't, there are far more dire issues in the world. Go chase some pedophiles and zoophiles, ok! these have kinks that actually harm the world.
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People who kinkshame are just bad people in general, trying to use something they think they can poke at. Be positive about whatever your mind is fascinated with and let others enjoy theirs. We don't all have the same tastes, and I don't see people being judged for liking sambal? *shrugs*
Yeah, kinkshaming is from my perspective indeed just another vector of attack from bigots; though there are genuinly people who are quick to jump to conclusions when they think something is disgusting from their perspective.
Also, I'll be the first to admit I have been in no less than 3 wordfights about spicy food; with at least one specifically being about sambal 😁 so you're never safe!