o__o; Huh?

I'unno much about being stalked, but there's no reason you gotta change your life. I think you've got the right idea of hiring a lawyer. Maybe purchase some pepper-spray or a tazer, or something...beat the stalker senseless when you catch them in the act.

Hire someone to do it for you, if need be, but the worst thing you can do is run from a predator; they'll take more interest in chasing you down. Y'gotta stand up to them, y'know. Let 'em know you ain't gonna take that garbage any longer.

*scratches his head sheepishly, an ear half-folding back as he considers what he just said*

...but what do I know? I'm just a cat. ^__^;

Actually, pepper spray is a good idea! It's not a stalker like you'd conventionally think, it's an entire family with one of them being the central figure.

Aww, and you're not just a cat.You're a cute cat!

wow...

I been stalked online ... once in RL... but it all ended without trouble.

I hope all go's well.

What sux the big one is that:

Because of there Action, YOU have to make the biggess sacrafises againts them =(

Tell me more about your situation?

Whats to tell?

Two person declaring to be in love with me, without even knowing me...

Calling, iming... e-mailing me over and over to know where and what I'm doing... every moment of my life... for months.

Whats sad is that, they belive they know me better then I do, thinking and making things up of a imaginary "Me".

Draing my energy, time and passience.

To a point where you ignore and start thinking everyone is liek that.

Even if you keep telling them, take your time, they keep saying how they love you, not even giving you time to ajust or thinking about your self.

Mailing and sending you thing...

You give them a intch and they take 3 miles...

You try to be nice and polite, but they turn every word into drama.

Rummors pops, thing untrue or Reality twisted int h emost worst ways.

Must I go on?

I do try to do my things and not letting get to me, but it has left me marked.

But I'm very stubern and wont it let my life be stoped.

Fortunatly for me, they seem to have "Hooked" on soemtihng else... I think. =)

That totally sucks, i so hope your ok, if i could i would break them for you hun.

Thank you so much for that, hun

Let me know if I can be of any help, ok? *hug*

I will babe, thank you. How goes your recognition with that company?

Well ^_^ Going down in only 10 days or so now *gets all nervous* X3

*snug* I have no advice I can bring up here.

I'm sorry this is happing happening to you.

>^..^<

Yeah, we'll talk in IM's

Be strong,sweetie....I may not be much,but I'm here for you.....

*snugs* We'll talk more later, I got the email

*snuggles you tightly but gently* If somebody's been mistreating you, I'll chew their ears off. No one will hurt my little sister as long as I'm around. You hear me, NO ONE!!!

stalkers are scarey. *hug* you should get a lawyer or somthing. *hugs again*

Yep, I'm going to. No way I'm going to pussyfoot around this one

Hells yes, hire a lawyer and get this situation under control! People are not allowed to treat one another like this. If you'r scared and concerned all the time about this guy, he's already changed your life, and he hasn't the right!

It's not the ex, it's the ex's family who are trying to steal my child. I'm calling a lawyer tomorrow

I would get a restraining order against each of the people trying to get to your child.

File a police report for anything they've done , and hand over whatever proof you can.

They're violating your rights and disrupting your life.

Don't take it lightly. *hugs*

Absolutely. I've got everything on record. I'd say more, but anything I say here isn't exactly assured to be savvy

Don't expect you to give details about such a delicate matter.

Please be safe.

*hug* I thought it was them and I hope that you'll manage them at bay from you, Sharra dear! Regretfully I'm not familiar with USA's laws and i can't offer you any advice, but you have my best wishes and all support that the Net can trasmit! *hugs*

*snugs* What's Italy's laws?

I belivethat someone can camp outta your door and watch you without being charged with anything except illecit occupation of public soli, but i'm not sure... *hugs even more*

Dude! I am so sorry, that is... Ooohhh! People make me so mad! I don't know you in person, but there's just no way around it, a mother should have her child to take care of unless she's done something terrible. I really really reallly wish you luck {hugs}

That is rediculous....But you gotta watch out for those disgruntled-family-types...I take them very seriously....

I would get a lawyer, file some police reports and get a restraining order.

Sharra, all I can do is voice the same that others here have. If you need any of us at all for anything... just let us all know. I may not know you like others here, but I still will be here if you need me. I hope you get all of this crap sorted out. *snuggles you best she can and purrs*

*snuggles* You're such a sweetheart, being supportive like that is how people DO get to know each other really well, so this makes me feel warm =)

*snuggles back* Thank you so much. I try to do for others what I would like done to me so by being nice and friendly, usually I get the same in return. Helping out a friend is always a pleasure as I like to think that I mean something to someone... at least one person hehe. *hugs you to her and purrs gently* You're more than welcome my dear friend, more than welcome. I only wish I oculd do more for you.

I'm the sort of person who sees that you need a simple socket wrench to solve the problem, then goes out and picks up a pneumatic impact wrench. I wouldn't carry pepper spray. I'd carry a firearm. A big one. That they couldn't miss seeing. And then I'd seek them out, and pull it on them and say, "You will leave me alone, or I will ventilate your frontal lobe." Just be sure that when you do so, you're QUITE alone so that it's your word against theirs if they press some moronic charge.
That, or you give their address to me. *evil grin*

*hug* take care... and a lawyer may be a good idea, but watch out or you'll have those blood suckers stalking your wallet. If you have proof, maybe the police can do something... in any case, I hope it all gets sorted soon. It doesn't sound like a safe situation.

I'm actually seeing if I can get some free legal services from the state's human resource center *nodnod*

That could work.

I suggest you get two large, evil-looking dogs. One to protect you, one to protect your kid.

I've got a big australian shepherd that knows attack commands, but I wouldn't want to do anything that might also jeapordize one of my pets getting hurt, you know?

Oooh, yeah. I know how you feel; I think someone tried to poison my dog once.

Sorry for the late response but yikes... Stalkers are terrifying.
I wish the best safety to you and your bebe. I can't even imagine going through that kind of stuff with a child to take care of, too. =/ *hugs*