Further Confusion 2018
Posted 8 years agoSince I've never done one of these before, but several friends are doing it for the same con, I figured... what the heck! Looking forward to Further Confusion in a few days, and hope to meet up with friends and have some much needed fun! If you're there and you come across me, don't be afraid to say hello, as I don't bite... unless asked... ;)
Arrival and Departure
Will be checking in around 4pm on Thursday and heading off sometime before noon on Monday
Staying At
The Hilton
Means of Transportation
Getting there by car (since I'm only an hour away from San Jose anyhow!)
Sharing a Room With
keybladeraccoon,
jpa2blue,
shinfox and
gdzeek ... at least that's the current list, hopefully everyone will make it safely!
Who Do You Hang Out With?
Pretty much anyone willing to hang out! While I'm shy, I tend to be sociable once I get to know folks.
Hoping to Meet / See Again
More people than I can recall right now; I know sometimes finding matching times can be tough, so I guess we'll see who I succeed in seeing!
Gender
Male.... *checks* Yep, definitely male.
What Do You Look Like?
Hmm... never though of anything particularly distinct about me, other than I keep being told I have the most beautiful brown eyes. Other than that, run of the mill holdover from the 80s (no not the gaudy clothed, massive hairdo kind, but the jeans and t-shirt kind :P ). If you look at my gallery here on FA, you'll actually see a real life picture of me... go find it! :D
How Old Are You?
47 (Yes, I'm one of the 'ancient' ones in the furry fandom ;) )
How Tall Are You?
5'10"
How Do You Pronounce Your Fursona's Name?
Well, hmm... if you're French, you probably will get it right the first time. :) But to pronounce 'Vaurien', the best I can do in words here for the Parisian French version (the one I use), it's close to 'VORE-ree-on' (the 'n' at the end is only partly pronounced - cut it off early and you've got it).
Are You an Artist?
I primarily write, but when I was young I used to draw and VERY recently I've picked it up again... but it's going to take a bit to be semi-decent at it.
Are You a Fursuiter?
While I have an interest in getting a partial suit as of recently, I currently am not one.
What's Your Fursuit?
Currently don't have one; see previous comment.
Attending Parties?
Hoping to find a few kink parties, as I could use the stress relief that comes with.. er.. "lack of movement". :D
Do You Drink?
Like a fish. :P Though more seriously, I am a social drinker.
Can I Buy You a Drink?
Mmaayyyyybe... depends on if there's intent behind it, and what that intent might be. ;)
Do You Smoke?
Only medicinal cannabis infrequently (helps with stress), but have never, ever touched cigarettes or cigars and never plan to do so.
Are You Attending Any Panels?
Once I see what there'll be, I might attend a few, given whether I'm busy at those times or not.
Stage or Public Performance?
Given I'm quite shy in crowds of people I don't know... HIGHLY unlikely.
How Do I Identify Myself to You?
If you could get some trumpets to note your arrival, along with a butler to announce you loudly... no, seriously, just come up and say hello. :P
Rules of Engagement (Physical Contact)?
If I know you well, even just from online, a big hug is a wonderful thing! For those less known or new, handshake is fine first, then if you ask for a hug, you will probably get it. :)
How Can I Find You?
Keep an eye out for a guy in jeans, t-shirt and long-sleeved jeans shirt with a bandana around his neck, and it's very likely me! But you can also find me on Telegram and Discord (just ask for names there).
Can I Talk to You?
Absolutely, but be warned: my favorite topics tend to revolve around geeky things.... or stuff not necessarily suitable in mixed company... or both. ;) But I do enjoy chatting.
Can I Give You Lots of Money?
I'm already really well off, so much prefer attention and fun than any sort of financial boost.
Can I Give You Stuff?
Well, depends on the kind of things, honestly.
Would You Like to Get a Commission Done of You (Fursona)?
Hmm, possibly! I've never had any custom conbadges done for myself, that might be cool. Always looking for artists whose style I enjoy to see their interpretation of my fursona!
Can I Hug or Snuggle With You?
Once I know someone, even just a bit, I very very very much love both of these things and almost always will gladly do them!
Can I Come to Dinner With You?
I much prefer company when I eat, so usually yes!
Can I Hang Out With You?
My main reason for attention this convention is to be around others, as it usually makes me feel really good, so absolutely!
Can I Take Your Picture?
Just quickly check with me first, but nearly all times the answer will be 'yes'.
How Do I Know If You're not Looking to Socialize (Angry, Busy or Upset)?
Nearly all of the time I'll be looking to socialize, but if I seem highly distracted, you might just want to check with me quick first. That being said, I don't expect that to happen much or at all. :)
Personality Type?
A bit introverted and quite shy, but once I'm comfortable around someone I'm extremely friendly (and with those who don't mind, quite affectionate) and can even be quite chatty... just gag me if I talk to much. :P
What's Your Goal For the Con This Year?
To forget about real life for a bit and have as much fun as I can, both tame and not-so-tame. ;) Also hoping to make new friends and connections in the community!
Arrival and Departure
Will be checking in around 4pm on Thursday and heading off sometime before noon on Monday
Staying At
The Hilton
Means of Transportation
Getting there by car (since I'm only an hour away from San Jose anyhow!)
Sharing a Room With
keybladeraccoon,
jpa2blue,
shinfox and
gdzeek ... at least that's the current list, hopefully everyone will make it safely!Who Do You Hang Out With?
Pretty much anyone willing to hang out! While I'm shy, I tend to be sociable once I get to know folks.
Hoping to Meet / See Again
More people than I can recall right now; I know sometimes finding matching times can be tough, so I guess we'll see who I succeed in seeing!
Gender
Male.... *checks* Yep, definitely male.
What Do You Look Like?
Hmm... never though of anything particularly distinct about me, other than I keep being told I have the most beautiful brown eyes. Other than that, run of the mill holdover from the 80s (no not the gaudy clothed, massive hairdo kind, but the jeans and t-shirt kind :P ). If you look at my gallery here on FA, you'll actually see a real life picture of me... go find it! :D
How Old Are You?
47 (Yes, I'm one of the 'ancient' ones in the furry fandom ;) )
How Tall Are You?
5'10"
How Do You Pronounce Your Fursona's Name?
Well, hmm... if you're French, you probably will get it right the first time. :) But to pronounce 'Vaurien', the best I can do in words here for the Parisian French version (the one I use), it's close to 'VORE-ree-on' (the 'n' at the end is only partly pronounced - cut it off early and you've got it).
Are You an Artist?
I primarily write, but when I was young I used to draw and VERY recently I've picked it up again... but it's going to take a bit to be semi-decent at it.
Are You a Fursuiter?
While I have an interest in getting a partial suit as of recently, I currently am not one.
What's Your Fursuit?
Currently don't have one; see previous comment.
Attending Parties?
Hoping to find a few kink parties, as I could use the stress relief that comes with.. er.. "lack of movement". :D
Do You Drink?
Like a fish. :P Though more seriously, I am a social drinker.
Can I Buy You a Drink?
Mmaayyyyybe... depends on if there's intent behind it, and what that intent might be. ;)
Do You Smoke?
Only medicinal cannabis infrequently (helps with stress), but have never, ever touched cigarettes or cigars and never plan to do so.
Are You Attending Any Panels?
Once I see what there'll be, I might attend a few, given whether I'm busy at those times or not.
Stage or Public Performance?
Given I'm quite shy in crowds of people I don't know... HIGHLY unlikely.
How Do I Identify Myself to You?
If you could get some trumpets to note your arrival, along with a butler to announce you loudly... no, seriously, just come up and say hello. :P
Rules of Engagement (Physical Contact)?
If I know you well, even just from online, a big hug is a wonderful thing! For those less known or new, handshake is fine first, then if you ask for a hug, you will probably get it. :)
How Can I Find You?
Keep an eye out for a guy in jeans, t-shirt and long-sleeved jeans shirt with a bandana around his neck, and it's very likely me! But you can also find me on Telegram and Discord (just ask for names there).
Can I Talk to You?
Absolutely, but be warned: my favorite topics tend to revolve around geeky things.... or stuff not necessarily suitable in mixed company... or both. ;) But I do enjoy chatting.
Can I Give You Lots of Money?
I'm already really well off, so much prefer attention and fun than any sort of financial boost.
Can I Give You Stuff?
Well, depends on the kind of things, honestly.
Would You Like to Get a Commission Done of You (Fursona)?
Hmm, possibly! I've never had any custom conbadges done for myself, that might be cool. Always looking for artists whose style I enjoy to see their interpretation of my fursona!
Can I Hug or Snuggle With You?
Once I know someone, even just a bit, I very very very much love both of these things and almost always will gladly do them!
Can I Come to Dinner With You?
I much prefer company when I eat, so usually yes!
Can I Hang Out With You?
My main reason for attention this convention is to be around others, as it usually makes me feel really good, so absolutely!
Can I Take Your Picture?
Just quickly check with me first, but nearly all times the answer will be 'yes'.
How Do I Know If You're not Looking to Socialize (Angry, Busy or Upset)?
Nearly all of the time I'll be looking to socialize, but if I seem highly distracted, you might just want to check with me quick first. That being said, I don't expect that to happen much or at all. :)
Personality Type?
A bit introverted and quite shy, but once I'm comfortable around someone I'm extremely friendly (and with those who don't mind, quite affectionate) and can even be quite chatty... just gag me if I talk to much. :P
What's Your Goal For the Con This Year?
To forget about real life for a bit and have as much fun as I can, both tame and not-so-tame. ;) Also hoping to make new friends and connections in the community!
Happy New Year, Folks!
Posted 8 years agoSince everyone else I know has been doing one, I figured "Why not?" :P :D
I'll be honest: I'm extremely glad that 2017 is over and hoping I can forget much of it. But that's not to say all of it was bad. I got to make some new friends and re-kindle old ones, and for that I'm very thankful. You all know who you are, and to you all I say: thank you for being in my life. It helped me through probably one of the darkest times of my life, and for that I will always be grateful. Hopefully 2018 will be a much happier year for me!
I'm sure people will ask: any resolutions for the new year? Usually I would say "Nope!", but this time, I'm going to shoot for a few:
- Improving my health: I've had a LOT of stress in my life this year and it's caused me to eat and drink more than I should. I'm finally getting that under control, but now I need to step it up and lose some weight along with exercising more. Let's see if by the end of 2018 I can get back down to my goal weight and get my blood pressure fully under control!
- Writing more: I started off the year strong, then about halfway through lost my muse again, but with me considering doing commissions, I need to break that dry run and get back to writing on a regular basis. It makes me feel good when I do, so I really have no excuse!
- Trying to do more artwork: I did one drawing a bit earlier in the year, but haven't made another attempt since. However, I had fun doing it, and the only way to get better is to keep doing it, so let's see if I can get some momentum with that as well!
- More bondage fun: this past year was REALLY dry for me in terms of having any sort of kinky fun, sexual or otherwise! Nothing helps me feel better than a snug straitjacket and loving arms holding me close and letting me just rest, so I need to try to get some more of that, along with the more explicit stuff as well... :D There's a lot of hope for some fun at Further Confusion in just a few weeks, so this one should be easy to accomplish, right? :D
I think that's good enough for me to try for this year, let's see how many I can reach! So to all of you, I say Happy New Year and I wish you a wonderful 2018!
- Vaurien (Ken)
I'll be honest: I'm extremely glad that 2017 is over and hoping I can forget much of it. But that's not to say all of it was bad. I got to make some new friends and re-kindle old ones, and for that I'm very thankful. You all know who you are, and to you all I say: thank you for being in my life. It helped me through probably one of the darkest times of my life, and for that I will always be grateful. Hopefully 2018 will be a much happier year for me!
I'm sure people will ask: any resolutions for the new year? Usually I would say "Nope!", but this time, I'm going to shoot for a few:
- Improving my health: I've had a LOT of stress in my life this year and it's caused me to eat and drink more than I should. I'm finally getting that under control, but now I need to step it up and lose some weight along with exercising more. Let's see if by the end of 2018 I can get back down to my goal weight and get my blood pressure fully under control!
- Writing more: I started off the year strong, then about halfway through lost my muse again, but with me considering doing commissions, I need to break that dry run and get back to writing on a regular basis. It makes me feel good when I do, so I really have no excuse!
- Trying to do more artwork: I did one drawing a bit earlier in the year, but haven't made another attempt since. However, I had fun doing it, and the only way to get better is to keep doing it, so let's see if I can get some momentum with that as well!
- More bondage fun: this past year was REALLY dry for me in terms of having any sort of kinky fun, sexual or otherwise! Nothing helps me feel better than a snug straitjacket and loving arms holding me close and letting me just rest, so I need to try to get some more of that, along with the more explicit stuff as well... :D There's a lot of hope for some fun at Further Confusion in just a few weeks, so this one should be easy to accomplish, right? :D
I think that's good enough for me to try for this year, let's see how many I can reach! So to all of you, I say Happy New Year and I wish you a wonderful 2018!
- Vaurien (Ken)
Made it to 200 watchers! (And pondering commissions)
Posted 8 years agoHoly sh... in just 10 months, I've doubled the number of watchers I have, and those first 100 took me 9 years to get to, so I think things are starting to move ahead just a bit faster! :D
I just wanted to thank all those who do follow me, and wanted to mention that I'm trying REALLY hard to get back to my writing. I started up again recently and then work got in the way, leaving me little time and energy, but with things slowing down a bit for the holiday, this should get a bit better. I know once I start writing again, I'll be able to keep momentum, just need to get my next story finished. *smile*
On that note, I have been considering taking commissions for stories, but still uncertain how I should proceed on that. Any opinions folks would have regarding that (like if I should go for it, what type of ground rules are good to lay out up front, amount to charge, etc.), I would be greatly appreciative.
- Vaurien (Ken)
I just wanted to thank all those who do follow me, and wanted to mention that I'm trying REALLY hard to get back to my writing. I started up again recently and then work got in the way, leaving me little time and energy, but with things slowing down a bit for the holiday, this should get a bit better. I know once I start writing again, I'll be able to keep momentum, just need to get my next story finished. *smile*
On that note, I have been considering taking commissions for stories, but still uncertain how I should proceed on that. Any opinions folks would have regarding that (like if I should go for it, what type of ground rules are good to lay out up front, amount to charge, etc.), I would be greatly appreciative.
- Vaurien (Ken)
Bandanimals Kickstarter - Please Support!
Posted 8 years agoI'm not normally one to post these sort of things, but this one is kind of near and dear to my heart, so... here's a link for Bandanimals!:
https://www.kickstarter.com/project.....?ref=discovery
They only have 16 days left and aren't even halfway to their goal yet. If they don't make it, I would be seriously disappointed, as I have four of these from previous runs and these look to be even better, so please pledge! And if you know anyone who might like this, please pass it along!
Get the word out! :)
UPDATE: They made it! That is all. :D
https://www.kickstarter.com/project.....?ref=discovery
They only have 16 days left and aren't even halfway to their goal yet. If they don't make it, I would be seriously disappointed, as I have four of these from previous runs and these look to be even better, so please pledge! And if you know anyone who might like this, please pass it along!
Get the word out! :)
UPDATE: They made it! That is all. :D
Reached 100 watchers!
Posted 9 years agoWell, that was unexpected... just a year ago I would have laughed if someone told me I'd hit 100 watchers here. :) To those who do, thank you! I'm hoping to start writing more soon and get more submissions uploaded here this year, but at least I'm off to a decent start!
- Vaurien (Ken)
- Vaurien (Ken)
Looking for a room to share for Further Confusion 2015
Posted 11 years agoNot sure who will see this or if it will get any responses, but here goes...
Given that I'm in the middle of major house remodeling right now, I can't quite take the chance of reserving a room in full (and finding those to share) for Further Confusion 2015, so I'm looking for a possible share with someone who already has a room or is getting one. I'm fully willing (and capable) of paying my share of the room; I'm a non-smoker, relatively quiet, and primarily need a place to sleep and shower. :) One small heads up I will give: I'm a bit kinky and do usually bring some gear with me, so those I'm staying with would hopefully be relatively comfortable with at the very least possibly seeing the gear (though not necessarily me in any of it).
So if there's anyone out there looking, or happen to know of someone who's looking for others, please get in touch!
Ken aka Vaurien (aka MindDrive)
Given that I'm in the middle of major house remodeling right now, I can't quite take the chance of reserving a room in full (and finding those to share) for Further Confusion 2015, so I'm looking for a possible share with someone who already has a room or is getting one. I'm fully willing (and capable) of paying my share of the room; I'm a non-smoker, relatively quiet, and primarily need a place to sleep and shower. :) One small heads up I will give: I'm a bit kinky and do usually bring some gear with me, so those I'm staying with would hopefully be relatively comfortable with at the very least possibly seeing the gear (though not necessarily me in any of it).
So if there's anyone out there looking, or happen to know of someone who's looking for others, please get in touch!
Ken aka Vaurien (aka MindDrive)
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