What I've been up to, where I'm going
Posted 5 months agoHi there, thanks for joining me on this wild ride through the world of transformation smut. If you're reading this I'm assuming you like my work and I am truly overjoyed to share it. Connecting with tf people is one of my greatest joys haha.
I've been asked a number of times what happened to me, and I'm fine with sharing an answer, but it's often long-winded and complicated, and tough to sum up with a pat answer that explains anything. It's easier to have a response here rather than try to explain it elsewhere.
I have had the outrageous good fortune to be partnered and later married to the same sweet guy since 2001. Imagine, almost 25 years with someone who's among the kindest and gentlest people you've ever met, it's been a blessing! I love him dearly, and don't regret a single bit of our time together. HOWEVER, it took me far too long to come to terms with all this transformation stuff I kept thinking about, and halfway through the marriage had to admit to several things I'd been keeping quiet. I had to explain that in spite of very clearly being into guys, what truly got me going was this thing I'd kept hidden from you for a decade, this transformation stuff that is my genuine sexuality if I had to define it. Oh, and I'm asexual and really don't want to have sex anymore...
As you can imagine, it was tough, but we got through it and are now very happy. We opened our marriage because I felt bad to deprive him of the sex he very much wanted to have and I couldn't fake anymore. He dated guys and expanded his circle of friends dramatically, I hang out with them most of the time these days and we're an awesome trivia team. I started searching for other people like me that I could finally, FINALLY, share this thing with, and I found them, some right near where I live! One thing leads to another and I fall deeply in love, and it can't work out because I can't leave my husband, I love him too much! I felt like I was hurting too many people by getting too close and not being able to be what they wanted me to be for them. Couple all that drama with my preexisting mental health struggles and I got lost in a deep and hazy depression funk. Suddenly, like rip van winkle, I get medicated and finally feel free of all that silly sadness, only to find I haven't been here in years. I've truly missed being able to share art again and god willing have little intention of leaving again.
Me and my boo are still going strong, he's amazingly supportive of my tf art, he doesn't get it, but hey, I don't get all that physical sex nonsense but you don't see me making fun of him!
Thanks for reading, and be well.
-Sergio
I've been asked a number of times what happened to me, and I'm fine with sharing an answer, but it's often long-winded and complicated, and tough to sum up with a pat answer that explains anything. It's easier to have a response here rather than try to explain it elsewhere.
I have had the outrageous good fortune to be partnered and later married to the same sweet guy since 2001. Imagine, almost 25 years with someone who's among the kindest and gentlest people you've ever met, it's been a blessing! I love him dearly, and don't regret a single bit of our time together. HOWEVER, it took me far too long to come to terms with all this transformation stuff I kept thinking about, and halfway through the marriage had to admit to several things I'd been keeping quiet. I had to explain that in spite of very clearly being into guys, what truly got me going was this thing I'd kept hidden from you for a decade, this transformation stuff that is my genuine sexuality if I had to define it. Oh, and I'm asexual and really don't want to have sex anymore...
As you can imagine, it was tough, but we got through it and are now very happy. We opened our marriage because I felt bad to deprive him of the sex he very much wanted to have and I couldn't fake anymore. He dated guys and expanded his circle of friends dramatically, I hang out with them most of the time these days and we're an awesome trivia team. I started searching for other people like me that I could finally, FINALLY, share this thing with, and I found them, some right near where I live! One thing leads to another and I fall deeply in love, and it can't work out because I can't leave my husband, I love him too much! I felt like I was hurting too many people by getting too close and not being able to be what they wanted me to be for them. Couple all that drama with my preexisting mental health struggles and I got lost in a deep and hazy depression funk. Suddenly, like rip van winkle, I get medicated and finally feel free of all that silly sadness, only to find I haven't been here in years. I've truly missed being able to share art again and god willing have little intention of leaving again.
Me and my boo are still going strong, he's amazingly supportive of my tf art, he doesn't get it, but hey, I don't get all that physical sex nonsense but you don't see me making fun of him!
Thanks for reading, and be well.
-Sergio
It's nice to be back
Posted 5 months agoI've been away for a good long while, it's really nice to see so many familiar faces out there still posting wonderful art. Not to mention the whole community still being such a warm and welcoming place for me. Truly, I rarely feel more at home than with my adopted online family here and in the tf-community more specifically, its the family I never really had.
I've had some challenges of heartbreak and mental health that sidelined me for some time, but I picked up a pencil a few weeks ago and suddenly all the self-doubt was gone and I missed being able to share my weird little obsessions. I'm glad to be able to do just that with such a great group of oddballs.
-Sergio
I've had some challenges of heartbreak and mental health that sidelined me for some time, but I picked up a pencil a few weeks ago and suddenly all the self-doubt was gone and I missed being able to share my weird little obsessions. I'm glad to be able to do just that with such a great group of oddballs.
-Sergio
I'm going to try taking commissions for a bit
Posted 8 years agoHey, so, I guess enough people keep asking if I take commissions that I thought I'd give it a try! I'm going to post more details in a couple of weeks once the holidays are over, but I think it'll be fun! I love drawing tf for other people. X3
Changed my mind, this is my smutty account now!
Posted 9 years agoSorry for the confusion, but people outside of tf can sometimes not really get the thrill of leaping into different skins. :3
I'll be posting any and all tf here on this account, and it'll be smutty a lot of the time!
Come along with me! It'll be weird fun!
I'll be posting any and all tf here on this account, and it'll be smutty a lot of the time!
Come along with me! It'll be weird fun!
I'm moving to a new account - SergioPWolf
Posted 9 years agoHey guys, anyone following me that wants to keep on following me should probably truck on over to my new account, Sergio P. Wolf.
I'll still be posting plenty of TF art over there, but it'll be mixed in with more normal furry type stuff. :)
I'll still be posting plenty of TF art over there, but it'll be mixed in with more normal furry type stuff. :)
FA+
