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What the actual Fuck
Posted 8 years ago
So I had court today over my ex. They dropped the Order of protection because I slapped him. So I am the aggressor for defending myself.
REALLY?! This man abused me mentally, verbally, and emotionally. BUT HEY I'M THE BAD GUY FOR DEFENDING MYSELF.
This really pisses me off. Because its like the law is saying its okay to abuse someone as long as you don't hit.
On top of it all he still wont give me our shit back. My son's toys and my personal belongings along with my books, pikachus, and my bottle collection are just sitting there. I can't even get my cats.
What the actual fuck is wrong with the judicial system?!
Its Not Okay
Posted 8 years ago
Its not okay to abuse someone. Abuse is not just physical. Its Mental, verbal, and emotional too. Abuse is abuse.
He/she will do it again, they buy you gifts or trinkets to make you think it will be okay. But its not.
I just got out of a year and a half long relationship where my partner abused me verbally nearly daily and emotionally neglected me. All the signs were there and i was too scared. I had many warnings by people I loved and cared about yet i was too ignorant to see. I then started seeing signs when it was too late. My oldest son was attached to this man and we had a second child together. We moved into our own home and it's only got worse.
I was feeling suicidal. I was depressed. All because of this man, We got into a fight where he wouldn't get out of my face. He was screaming and spitting. I shoved back just for him to get right back. I slapped him to get a punch in the head. With the words, "If you're man enough to hit i'm gonna hit back." to get two more blows to the head. In front of my kids, his mother, and his sister.
I tried to forget it cause I hit first. Except I couldn't the week after that grew worse with the abuse, So I packed some clothes up for me and the kids. Took what i needed and left. Then went back to talk it out for the kids sake. He tried to take them away. I Was not letting that happen. I ran to my mom's with the kids. He Gave me threats and swore he was going to take my child even though he wasn't his. I called the police to get advice. Three times I was told to get an order of protection so I did. I've been gone for a week and it still hasn't stopped. I have to look at the house every day because its across the street. I'm Scared. I'm Alone. I now have to care for two more kids because my step father won't
I need out of this situation already.
Helping a friend
Posted 8 years ago
Friend new help with rent money. Please go help
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/8085844/
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