When I was 15, I went through depression. It was a heavy time, and I lost sight of myself for a while. By the time I reached 20, I had begun to feel better again, and that spark became the fuel I needed to keep moving forward.
Then in 2022, I lost my dad to COVID‑19. With him gone, I lost my sense of purpose too. My dad worked in a prison and what stood out to me was how he held space for others there people who had so little dignity left. He listened, he respected, and he gave them something the world often denied them. That’s what I carry forward now: not what he gave me directly, but what I witnessed him give to others.
The furry fandom opened a new chapter for me. It gave me a place to rebuild, to continue that legacy of dignity and presence in a community that values connection, creativity, and care. It wasn’t about replacing what I lost it was about continuing it in a new way.
Ten years of self‑growth have taught me that pressure doesn’t have to break you. For me, it became energy. What could have been a weight turned into momentum, and that momentum carried me into new ways of moving through the world. Autism plays a part in that too it shapes how I see, how I describe, how I connect. The detail in my words, the imagery I lean on, the way I hold space for others those aren’t accidents. They’re strengths I’ve learned to embrace.
I don’t want recognition just for myself. If my name ever carries weight, it will carry my dad’s too and it will carry the voices of those who feel unseen, unheard, or silenced. If I rise, I’m bringing everyone with me.
My space is safe, inclusive, and welcoming. I’ll listen without judgment. I’ll speak up when dignity is at risk. I’ll remind anyone who feels alone that they are not. That’s the name I want to make for myself not just a name people know, but a name people trust.
This is no small feat. But my drive is strong, my torch is steady, and I will keep working until others know they can lean on me. Recognition and a name together not for ego, but for legacy, for trust, and for the people who need it most.

>END Credits

hope this gives a clearer picture of what I’m all about, and I also hope it inspires you not to give up no matter how rough the water gets. My space will always be open for all adults. I’m an anchor, a furry to lean on, and I will always be myself. This is what I offer for others.
An update on how I’m doing: I won’t lie, this year has been very tough for me emotionally, and I know it has been for many of you too. Don’t let things drag you down. Don’t let others mistreat you on any platform you’re on. Everyone deserves respect and dignity.
I also want to thank you for being there for me. Whenever I’ve been upset, you’ve helped me up when it was difficult, and I’m forever grateful for that. You don’t need to worry about me holding space for others I appreciate the concern, but I’m like a sponge. Save your energy for when you need it most.
I’m not expecting anything in return your time and presence here already mean a lot. But money is tight, and if you ever want to, there’s always the option to give something, and it’s always greatly appreciated. gifted fury art steam game of choice or a steam gift card within your budget Diapers like the ones in my gallery others are fine too such as myinnerbaby not in the uk)
• Diapers like the ones in my gallery (NRU and ABU ABDL)
• Onesies (3XL — my size is XXL has to be ABDL)
• Furry t‑shirts (XXXL)
• Steam or Xbox gift cards if your in the USA Canada make sure you do the uk versions as its region locked codes from retailers
• Chocolate (KitKat, Dairy Milk, Minstrels, Galaxy i will make this in my fa bio i need time to make it it sounds right and how it sounds

Of course, only ever if it’s your own choice and within your own means. Since I can’t use tips, Ko‑fi, or similar platforms i can't risk it because of how the laws work with PIP and Universal Credit here in the UK, this is the only way I can accept support.
stand firm, and I stand by the ABDL community until this gets addressed as I’ve stated clearly in my featured journal I'm always listening i will keep refining and continue to grow stronger from you positive or negative feedback is welcome as long as its constructive Kieren. part two will come when its ready

this journal is for feedback
1. **The advocacy/policy argument**
2. **The concrete, visual guidance**
The advocacy/policy argument
This journal is my feedback and constructive criticism and the response to the trouble ticket.
You can read the exact text of that ticket, along with my personal account of the experience here.
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11218702/

## 🗂 Comfort‑Wear, Diapers, Wetness & Onesies — Safe Presentation Feedback

Think of it like a **scale** you can control, so you can keep it subtle and rule‑safe:

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| **Level 0 – None** | No visual dampness at all. | A completely dry diaper, onesie, or outfit. |
| **Level 1 – Implied** | No visible patch — only environmental storytelling. | Sitting on damp grass, holding a tipped cup, standing in light rain. |
| **Level 2 – Very Subtle** | Slight colour shift or texture change, not the focus of the image. | A faint darker area on clothing, small enough to be ambiguous. |
| **Level 3 – Moderate** | More noticeable patch, but still without detail or emphasis. | A darker area that could be from water play, rain, or a spill. |
| **Level 4 – heavy** 🚫 | Clear, detailed depiction of bodily fluids.| Not safe for FA under current rules — avoid for non‑sexual comfort art.
For **FA‑safe, non‑sexual comfort‑wear art**, you’d want to stay in **Level 0–2**, maybe Level 3 if the environmental cause is crystal‑clear and non‑sexual.


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| **Clothing Fit & Style** | Outfit feels cohesive with character’s personality; colours and textures add warmth. | Consider looser or layered options for a more “comfort‑wear” vibe; avoid overly form‑fitting if aiming for all‑ages safe. | Ensure no sexual framing; focus on “cosy,” “soft,” or “playful” descriptors. |
| **Onesies| Great for reinforcing a nurturing, regression‑safe aesthetic; can be patterned or themed to match character traits. | Add accessories like plushies, blankets, or themed socks to strengthen the comfort‑wear tone. | Frame as practical or cute clothing; avoid emphasis on body shape or suggestive posing. |
| **Diaper as Comfort‑Wear** | Presented as part of a gentle, nurturing aesthetic; matches character’s colour palette. | Could add context props (plushies, blankets) to reinforce non‑sexual, regression‑safe tone. | Avoid fetish framing; treat as clothing/accessory, not a sexual object. |
| **Wetness Depiction** | If included, subtle cues (colour shift, pattern change) keep it understated. | Consider symbolic or environmental cues (e.g., rain, spilled drink, damp grass) to imply without explicit focus. | FA rules currently restrict explicit bodily function depictions — keep abstract or symbolic. |
| **Overall Scene Tone** | Warm, safe, and emotionally resonant; communicates care and comfort. | Add narrative captions that clarify intent (“after a long nap,” “cosy rainy day indoors”). | Clear intent statements in description help moderators see non‑sexual framing. |


# 🛡 Comfort‑Wear, Wetness, and Artistic Safety — Why FA’s Rules Must Change

Recently, I submitted a ticket to clarify how comfort‑wear, diaper depictions, and wetness cues can be presented safely and non‑sexually.
The reply labelled my content “inappropriate.”
I’m taking this moment to show exactly why that label is outdated — and why the rules **must** be updated

## 2️⃣ Why the Current Rules Fail

FA’s existing policy was written to block explicit sexualisation — and that’s still important.
But in practice, it now **blocks safe, non‑sexual expression** that reflects real‑world comfort practices, disability realities, and neurodivergent coping tools.
This is not a hypothetical. It’s happening now, and it’s harming inclusion.

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## 3️⃣ Society Has Moved On — FA Needs to Catch Up

- Comfort‑wear and regression‑safe art and RL photo are now widely recognised as therapeutic, nostalgic, and identity‑affirming.
- Disability and neurodivergent communities have fought for visibility and respect in how their clothing and care needs are portrayed.
- **Diapers are not inherently a kink** — treating them as such is a harmful stereotype that misrepresents the ABDL community and erases the many non‑sexual contexts in which they appear. This bias directly fuels unfair moderation decisions and needs to be addressed in policy.
- Blanket bans ignore context, intent, and presentation — and in doing so, they erase safe representation.

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## 4️⃣ The Update FA Must Make

1. **Separate sexualised from non‑sexual comfort‑wear** in the rules.
2. **Allow symbolic/narrative wetness cues** when clearly non‑sexual.
3. **Encourage intent statements and safe‑topic tags** to help moderators.

This is not optional — it’s necessary to keep FA relevant, inclusive, and fair

## 5️⃣ Closing

Labelling safe, non‑sexual comfort‑wear art as “inappropriate” is not protecting the community — it’s excluding it.
Safety isn’t censorship, and censorship isn’t safety.
It’s time for FA’s rules to reflect the reality of its diverse, creative user base.


### 🌟 A Call to Speak Up

If you’ve ever felt your art, your identity, or your comfort practices misunderstood, you are not alone.
Your voice matters — not just for yourself, but for everyone who shares your experiences quietly in the background.

Change doesn’t come from silence. It grows when we speak with honesty, kindness, and conviction.
Every respectful story, every thoughtful comment, every shared perspective adds weight to the truth: **safe, non‑sexual representation belongs here**.

You don’t have to write an essay or start a debate — even a few words of support can help shift the conversation.
When we stand together, we show that our community is stronger, more diverse, and more compassionate than outdated rules give us credit for.

Let’s make sure our voices are heard — not in anger, but in clarity, care, and unity. This isn’t just my experience — many in the community have spoken up, yet have been let down. I’m not alone in feeling this way — others have described the moderation process as inconsistent, biased, and dismissive, with vague terms like “lacking artistic merit” used to remove work without clear explanation. People have shared how it feels like certain mediums or creators are scrutinised more than others, and how the silence from staff only deepens that sense of unfairness.
FA has long claimed to care about the community and to value transparency, yet repeated concerns about bias, inconsistent enforcement, and dismissive language have gone unanswered. No mascot or staff member has addressed these issues publicly, despite many users raising them over time. Until that happens, those promises feel hollow — and it’s hard to believe the platform truly values the community it says it serves.
My aim here isn’t to attack, but to ensure the rules reflect the diversity and safety needs of the community they serve. I welcome a public explanation from staff so the community can better understand the standards being applied.
Every day this silence continues, trust erodes a little more. We deserve a platform where rules are applied fairly, where intent and context matter, and where creators can feel safe expressing themselves without fear of arbitrary removal. If you’ve had similar experiences, I encourage you to share them — not to stir conflict, but to show that these concerns are real, widespread, and worth addressing. Change doesn’t happen in the dark; it happens when we speak together, clearly and respectfully, until we’re heard.
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This matters to me because comfort‑wear and safe, non‑sexual representation aren’t just a hobby or a visual they’re part of how I express who I am, connect with others, and create spaces where people can feel seen without fear of judgement. For others, it can be a lifeline: a way to feel understood, to reclaim something that brings peace, or to see their own needs reflected without shame. When these expressions are unfairly restricted, it doesn’t just limit what we can share it limits belonging, and it tells people their comfort and identity don’t matter here.
FA already built the tags and filters to let people block what they don’t want to see. The tools are there. What’s missing is fairness — and until that changes, every time they call comfort‑wear ‘inappropriate,’ they’re not protecting anyone, they’re shaming people like me and erasing a whole community that deserves to be seen.
This will remain featured until our voices are heard and shown to matter — and it will stay here until change happens.
if this matters to you comment me too
your not alone your voice matters.
The furry fandom is supposed to be accepting, understanding, and welcoming. When ABDL and comfort‑wear voices — especially those about non‑kink diaper wearing and clothing are pushed aside its exclusion that promise falls short.

Why FA’s rules erase safe, non‑sexual comfort‑wear expression.

our content has been removed because it violates our rules which state:

Upload Policy, Section 2.8 - Content Lacking Artistic Merit
Content lacking artistic merit is not permitted on FA, and includes such items as:
• Photography focusing on body parts without creative content.
• Placeholder content with empty documents or blank submissions.
• Text-only imagery.
• Content modified to be generally unviewable through use of filters, blurring, or censorship.

Upload Policy, Section 3.3 - Indecent Photography
Photography depicting nudity or physical contact with nudity (exposed buttocks, breasts, bulges, outlines of genitalia, etc.), indecently-clothed models (undergarments, diapers, lingerie, etc.) is not allowed. Exceptions may be made for swimsuits worn in public locations, such as a pool or beach, but not activities such as breastfeeding.

#62089585, Adult-only comfort content

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I feel under constant scrutiny here. Bad experiences keep piling up, and it’s left me feeling unwelcome — even stalked or watched — simply for being myself.

I want to share something with you i have been feeling different about my identity i'm thinking of changing it too Kieren or kieran not to sure about having my surname as Husky tho i feel emotionally connected to that name i feel like i need to start new i have gone through a lot in my life depression from 15 up too 21 then lost my Dad to COVID-19 in 2022 not having IRL friends i have been more emotional not because i'm depressed or there's something wrong with me i feel like I have become much more emotionally aware & emotionally sensitive i can feel how others feel if i upset someone or if someone is upset these emotions are still new to me and it can be very intense because i get very overwhelmed by them such as crying and feeling tender one of them is Secret crushes i really get attracted too fursona's and i have to hold back my feelings because i'm worried that i will scare them off or make them feel uncomfortable I also worry i won't be able to fav there art because it means a lot to me to be able to do that it makes me feel part of the furry fandom and losing that ability would feel like loosing part of myself that's why i get very upset when i get blocked. it's a real challenge for me having crushes i even cry because that's how much i really like them i hope this journal helps others feel seen and less alone this is me showing my symbolic vulnerability that i share openly not just to help me get through my own thoughts and emotions but to hopefully help others feel less alone and seen because i really care about others there's one fursona i'm really attracted to and i want to get this of my chest and there name is faron. i hope this is ok me sharing this if this makes you uncomfortable i can remove it i respect everyone's boundaries there are a couple others i'm really attracted too but i don't want to make anyone uncomfortable like i have said before i respect everyone even if they are upset with me or don't like me using AI to help me find words i really struggle finding the words i want to say sometimes Kieren.

I have been following a 16+ Twitch channel for about four weeks and was starting to feel comfortable there.
In this space, no one is allowed to use the word “yiff” in a 16+ stream — but that wasn’t the issue. I got timed out for showing symbolic vulnerability.
The streamer says “everyone is welcome,” but it didn’t feel that way to me. It felt more like control than safety, and I felt hurt and unwelcome.
My openness isn’t unsafe, and I won’t change who I am to fit someone else’s comfort zone. I’ll look for Twitch spaces where I can be myself. The mods are over‑censoring — I feel like I’m on eggshells. Rules are not clear enough either.
I still really like the streamer — I just wish the space felt as inclusive as they say it is. If someone could help me with this issue, I’d appreciate it a huge ton, because I feel like the streamer and mods won’t understand me. I can tell you their channel name in DM to keep their privacy.
Another issue happened on Wednesday 10th/09. The stream was an exercise in their furry characters. I used TTS — it said, “Your posture is all wrong, try harder you furry bum.” I tried to explain it in chat, but I wasn’t able to because the shitty mod told me to drop it, like my voice didn’t matter.
It made me feel unwelcome. It’s silencing.
I’m getting so pissed with all this bullshit. I can’t be myself. Everyone is far too serious and it’s pissing me off. FUCK sake.
The stream was 18+, but I really like the streamer. Nothing gets explained to me effectively.
I feel like having Autism is a curse. I don’t understand why it’s hard for me to understand. It’s pissing me off because this is giving me problems. I feel like crying.
In both streams, that makes the whole thing even more frustrating — because instead of engaging with my intent, they shut it down without explanation, leaving me stuck in that awful limbo of “I can’t even clarify what I meant.”
For someone who communicates best when there’s room to explain, it’s not just frustrating — it’s like they’ve taken away my ability to be understood.
This has made my anxiety much worse, on top of FOMO that’s in my bio. FOMO also gives me anxiety.
This is why autism awareness matters — because this is what happens.
I’m getting sick of being treated like this on FA and Twitch, like I’m some heartless furry bastard. Too many don’t give a crap how they might make the other person feel.
From what I have gone through on FA and on Twitch, I thought the furry fandom was a welcoming place. There is no excuse for any of this behaviour. If there’s an issue, talk about it.
This is so much emotional weight to carry all on my own. My mum won’t understand it because these are complex feelings in the furry fandom.
Update 13th/09: Got freaking banned from chat for being upset. I’m getting freaking sick of this shit. I’m allowed to be upset and show symbolic vulnerability. Fuck this. People suck. Life sucks. No one understands meee. Fuck my life. I’m literally crying and angry.
One streamer — we have sorted it out. We are on good terms.

i have the barq app Feel free to follow, add, DM me there 18+ only..
Want to see more than what’s allowed on FA? Like my profile on Barq and join the same groups I’m in!

i have improved my bio to make it easier for everyone to read i might add or remove things so keep that in mind this is my ongoing effort for everyone to better understand me and my transparency I also hope this will encourage other autistic adults to feel seen and inspire them to be more open so others understand you better in your fa bio don't worry about unkind furries or people remember you can report and block.

so it turns out submitting a administrative ticket does nothing waste of time it favours the ones who miss use the system before they blocked me this space feels like showing symbolic vulnerability isn't allowed it said mention of someone in shouts or there name that is correct but not entirely true is this is how i get treated on here so much for a ''inclusivity'' and ''understanding'' turns out they did block me but i commented before they blocked me so its actually false broken system outdated with missing details before a ''report'' is done in detail this is what happened and i know it did exactly Because FA’s system doesn’t track comment timing vs. block timing, it may treat the report as valid without nuance.
• i'm left with a warning, while they avoid scrutiny—even my comment was emotionally sincere or symbolic. outdated unfair system 2025 with 2005 systems that's just great wonderful sarcasim

I want to be careful how i do this because of FA'S community guidelines this is to help others understand me better and why i use AI to help me express myself in a safe gentle way.
yes i use AI not to replace me or to do it for me i use it to help me find words i find difficult for me express sometimes. in the right way communication can be very difficult for autistic people this isn't my fault it is something i have and i'm proud to have it its something i will live with throughout out my everyday life. It did hurt me a lot, and yes—I’m upset. But I respect you, and I’m happy to put that aside. I’m not angry or mad. I care, I’m listening, and I’m open to talk about this.
i'm open to talk about this because i care i'm listening i'm ready feedback is welcome in a constrictive respectful way

this does not break FA'S you and others in section 2 community guidelines witch i respect deeply deeply in my heart because this space means so much to me it's a life line.
none of this was used for AI i respect what others might find uncomfortable with AI i'm not disregarding that on other people's perspectives. What i find normal, i may be not be normal for others. and What is comfortable for me might not be comfortable for others

I’ve been thinking a lot about connection lately.
Not just chatting. Not just “how are you” and emoji replies.
I mean the kind that feels grounding. Ongoing. Emotionally safe.
It’s how I show care—through clarity, softness, and emotional presence.
But often, what returns holds no clarity. Just silence.
A few gentle words, then nothing—like a door half-opened and quietly closed again.
And that hurts.
Not because I expect constant attention. Not because I want control.
But because I’m showing up with emotional presence—and it’s painful when that isn’t met.
I know some furries care. Some even worry about me. And I’m grateful for that.
But care without connection feels like standing in a warm room with the door half open.
You sense the kindness, but you’re still outside.
I’m not broken. I’m not weak. I’m just longing for something real.
If you’re someone who values soft pacing, emotional clarity, and gentle, ongoing connection—
I’d love to know you’re out there.
I’m not asking for everything. Just something that feels mutual.
Something that doesn’t start with warmth and then quietly fade—
leaving me holding silence, unsure if I opened too much—or not quite enough to be seen.








care about connection that feels real—not rushed, not performative.
I care about listening, not just hearing.
When someone shares feedback, I don’t flinch—I lean in.
I reflect, I adjust, I grow.
Not because I’m trying to be perfect, but because I care.

I care about showing up gently, especially in spaces where softness is rare.
I care about emotional safety—for myself, and for anyone who steps into the space I shape.
I care about clarity in how I speak, how I write, and how I hold space—so others feel safe enough to be honest.
I care about choosing with intention, because emotional safety matters more than fitting in.

I care about connection that lasts.
Not just replies—but relationships.
Not just presence—but resonance.
I care enough to change, if it helps someone feel more seen and keep the friendship.
I care enough to stay soft, even when it’s hard. kierenHusky

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the ways I find emotional safety and calm. Age regression is one of those gentle rituals that helps me reconnect with a sense of innocence and softness. I also like to experience what roleplay is like in ABDL—nonkink it’s a way for me to explore comfort, care, and emotional grounding through symbolic play.
Wearing diapers is part of that comfort space for me. It’s a sensory anchor, a way to feel held and soothed when the world feels too loud or fast. I know it’s not something everyone understands, and that’s okay. I share this not to shock or seek attention, but to be honest about what helps me feel whole.
These rituals are deeply personal. They’re part of how I care for myself, especially when words are hard or emotions feel too big. I hope that by sharing gently, I can help others feel less alone in their own comfort needs—and maybe open a little more space for kindness and curiosity. i also have binkies pictures coming soon here is some links to help you better understand this practice https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11050843/ https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11200649/
and this brilliant video from this youtube content creator https://www.bing.com/videos/rivervi.....mp;FORM=VRDGAR here is a link if your carious or want to see for yourself https://nru.co.uk/collections/nappies https://uk.abuniverse.com/ and USA version here >>> https://us.abuniverse.com/

When it comes to roleplay, openness makes all the difference. Be willing to explore different ideas, styles, and tones—sometimes the most unexpected scenes become the most memorable. Respect each other’s boundaries, and talk honestly about what you enjoy and what doesn’t sit right. That kind of clarity builds trust and makes the whole experience feel safer and more fun.
Try switching up your RP style now and then—whether it’s slow and emotional, fast and silly, or something in between. Variety keeps things fresh and helps you discover new ways to connect.
As for how RP works: you play each scene as it unfolds. There’s no fixed script—just a shared rhythm. Either person can guide the direction, and that mutual flow makes things feel more alive and engaging. It’s not about control—it’s about co-creating something meaningful, together. If you’ve got your own advice or thoughts on RP, feel free to share them too. Everyone brings something different to the table, and I’d love to hear what makes it feel real for you. thanks for reading Kieren.

i haven't completed the game yet or gone that far yet but I'm loving this visual novel i and i wanted to share my interest with you since i haven't done my interest. i'm making a small change sharing my interests i'm cutting it down to one it will now be 2 or 3 the fourth one will be treated as a bonus but it won't be certain every month I hope you will enjoy the game treat it like watching anime or a book it will make it easier to play i'm rating it as teen just to be safe since i haven't completed it or gone that far yet
https://www.bing.com/search?pglt=29.....mp;FORM=ANNTA1&PC=U531

**“Thank you so much to everyone who’s been chatting and connecting with me. It truly means everything. to me Every shout, every small interaction—through journals, through noting art watchers—It has touched me in ways I can’t easily describe. i will keep reaching out from time to time yes i might get hurt or upset but that's okay because I'm only human

i want to try doing cardio and the gym I'm curious i want to loose more weight to last time i weighed myself I was 105lb I have cut down on my eating and on fizzy drinks how I did this i was having 2L bottles once a week then after a period of time then reduced it to one 2L bottle now I'm only having 1 or 2 cans 330ml and started drinking more bottled water as well and in the near future i want to donate money to furaffinity because this is my home and what i love about it not just doing it once but now and again i will try and take some pictures to show you my journey sharing my experiences with you

You’re always going to get hurt. You’ll feel pain—from people you thought were your friends, from others, and just from life itself. That’s how it goes sometimes. It’s unfair, and it sucks. But the only way to get past those feelings is to keep getting back up, no matter how painful it is or how broken you feel.
Look ahead. Don’t look back. Keep your head up high. Don’t let anything or anyone bring you down.
I know that’s difficult. I understand how heavy it can feel. But if you don’t try, you’ll never going to know what’s waiting for you. There is something ahead—something better, something worth it.
And talking about how you feeling, & what’s on your mind it will help you feel better even if you don't feel anything right away we are all unique. we all experience emotions and feelings differently.
I believe in you.
Kieren.

I was looking out for someone who have gone through something terrible and awful I'm not going to name them I have to Respect there privacy i have been noting them for a short period of time & then they told me they don't Trust me i have shown nothing but empathy & emotional support they also said to me I'm putting weird things in there head like what the heck?. I never do that to anyone I was not brought up to behave like that I understand what they are going through is just awful but spitting in my face is Disgusting way how to treat someone when they have shown support and empathy it's just so insulting especially someone with Autism like me. Like i have said before i have no ulterior motive i hate no one i love everyone i deeply care about other Adults i will always show my emotional support empathy & comfort not just that but my door Is always open and available for every Adult i won't pressure you ever to note me i Respect everyone's Space and boundaries but i won't know unless you tell me so please do i have a middle Ground for you & for me to learn and grow because we are Not perfect nobody Is.. That's why i listen i.e feedback learn & Grow. Your feedback helps me be a Better furry i will do everything I can to make things Right i truly mean that in the Bottom of my Heart kieren.

I'm going to save for a fursuit for a long while and figure out how i want my fursona to look like it won't be anytime soon but it's something that will mean the world to me i know i will get there but having these feelings have has been very tough on me but i know i will get through it like i said before i have never had these feelings before this fandom means everything to me It feels like a Home to me a place where people understand each other and share our hardships through life and is something we all can relate to. also I'm sharing this with other furries here on FA I'm not sure if I'm gay or not i still get attracted to woman especially Japanese woman awwoooooo they are cute

when I see photos of furries at meets or cons and with other furries. They were together—laughing, touching, sharing moments. They looked close. Comfortable. Like they belonged.
I wasn’t in the photo.
I wasn’t near it.
I wasn’t invited.
Seeing that made me feel something deep. Not just sadness. Not just being left out. It feels like I'm missing something that matters to me. Like connecting with others , and knowing I’m not part of it.
I didn’t choose to be outside. I just am.
And the more I look at those photos, the more it hurts.
I feel unwanted. I feel like it’s too late. I feel like I’m behind everyone else.
I feel like maybe I’m not meant to be in that kind of space.
I feel invisible.
I feel like I'm missing out.
I wish there was someone there to guide me to one in person
I keep trying to be okay with it. But it still hurts a lot. kierenHusky