Now when I say this, I'm not referring to all rpers, there are some who are nice people, and I don't have these issues with.

However more often than not, most rpers i've delt with have gotten me so frustrated that i simply need to make this post.

1. SAY SOMETHING: this is the BIGGEST and MOST COMMON problem I face dealing with these people, but if you're too busy and unable to rp, or if you simply don't want to rp with me for some reason, then instead of just ignoring me and pretend I don't exist, maybe you should JUST SAY SOMETHING. Like is it THAT hard to just simply say "no thanks" or "not interested" or "currently busy"? and heck honestly i've lost some friends and good rpers who just decided to do this out of nowhere. What is the problem? Why is it so hard to tell me you're not interested or busy?

2. Me being flexible is a problem somehow: i've dealt with many people who despite me being very flexible, able to take suggestions even sometimes for my RP when it's my turn i'm almost always open to ideas and game for almost anything, yet this is somehow a problem? i've had multiple people say they are no longer interested or turned off because i said i'm open to ideas. Why is this a problem? Why is me being flexible such a big turn off? and sometimes if i ask for something and they don't want to do it, and i said then we don't have to do it, they then say they don't think it'll work and just reject, just because i suggested something they didn't like and said didn't have to do.

3. So you told me what you want to do, so I'm going to do the exact opposite: This is another very common problem. But usually when I ask for something to be done in an rp, or if there is a certain line I would like to be said, and the rper does their hardest to just completely go around it and say something else completely, or just do something else, and of course a lot of the time my suggestions and things I want are just completely ignored. Now i can admit i can be guilty of this sometimes but it's usually because I'm an idiot and forgot or i didn't understand exactly, but just simply explain and I'll understand and fix what i messed up, however when i ask the same from these people they just ignore me and continue to do what they want to do, especially when it's my rp idea. also please follow my rules, I have rules for rping, yet some people can't help but break them.

4. ok...sure...yes/pulls out pocket watch...you are in my power now and will obey: Gonna go ahead and lump these 2 together since they have the same issue and are similar enough. Giving me one-word answers...I feel like I don't need to say more than that. But then we reach the hypnosis part, again sometimes mixed with issue 3, but I have dealt with so many people who simply use their method for one post then the next one they give out commands to make my character do whatever, on occasion using the method and having 100% control being in the same message, I don't know how I can explain this problem despite me trying so hard to tell the rper, but I want the hypnosis to be slow and relaxing, I want my character to slowly relax and be calmed and relaxed, not just a 1 and done so we can get to commands quicker, this is probably the most common out of all of these problems possibly tied with the first issue, but it's annoying how I want my character to be soothed and relaxed and gently put under a trance, yet despite me explaining this most rpers I've rped with just simply have my character just be instantly hypnotized and under just like that. I don't know about any of you, but I think the induction should be prioritized just as the commanding, but I guess alot of people don't care about putting someone under slowly as much as just having someone be a mindless slave. (and in case you are wondering, yes, i hate hypnosis via drugs, attachable devices, and anything that puts someone under with little to no effort on your part)

5. Yes, I'm able to do hypnosis... (5 seconds later) oh no, i don't do hypnosis: yea...i don't even need to go into detail. but another one that can be said is when people don't even give me a reason why, or even flat out hate me for asking. Sometimes makes me feel like people hate me for even existing.

6. yes we can rp, just give me a minute...(5 days later)...*checks on them and sees they've been rping with tons of other people this whole time: this one i've been seeing TONS more of lately. Look I get it, i'm not the only person in the world and there are other people you want to rp with I get that, but to just ignore me while also giving other rps tons more replies during the time i'm waiting again makes me feel like people hate me for even existing.

7. maybe able to rp, but first i need to take care of the other 36,891,745 rp's i'm currently in the middle of: just something i'd be cautious about when you rp with someone, if they have hundereds of rp starters then there is a good chance you might not get far, not saying the people who do this are jerks (although alot are from my experience) but I don't think it's a good idea to do so many rps at once since you won't be able to stretch yourself enough to give everyone a good rp.

8. checks rp starter "I'm only sub" checks another "looking for dom" checks another "sub ONLY": I get it, of course alot of people want to be subs, including me, heck if it was up to be i'd be 100% sub, but if most of us our subs then there won't be enough doms, that's why I usually offer that if someone can be dom for me then i'll be dom for them, unfortunately not many are willing to take that as they only want to be sub

9. We're not gonna Rp, you don't add periods or capitalize beginning of sentences:...SERIOUSLY? IS THAT SUCH A BIG DEAL THAT YOU HAVE TO JUST REJECT ME AND NOT EVEN GIVE ME A CHANCE, JUST BECAUSE OF A STUPID DOT

10. Ive made an rp starter and everyone is welcome, looking forward to rping with you, sends them a note to express interes, except for you: this can be mixed with issues 1 and 6, but I’ve had tons of people open rp starters and are willing to talk with people about it, yet when specifically I message them showing Interest they usually ignore me, don’t give me a chance, even though their rp starter was open and they Talked about looking forward to rping with people, so why do I usually get singled out


Sorry for the longer post, but for these past months I've been dealing with these problems from rpers, losing friends and nice rpers because of these reasons, and simply being stressed out, and I just HAD to get all of this off my chest.

But if we RP, PLEASE don't do any of these.