
So much can change in a mere instant.
This day, July 16th, one year ago started as any other day, it actually was a better than average day as I hung with my sister and her love whom was also my friend, someone I had known casually for two years and very closely for eight months, he had very swiftly taken on the title of being a best friend.
Hari, my sister and my sister's four wonderful cattle dogs trotted past my work room for a walk as they had many times before...
but then the day ended in death, blood and terror...
I thought it would stand as the worst day of my life until the 29th came...
... the day that Hari died... but lets not speak of that until we must cross that bridge... cross over yet another sad "one year ago"
This day, July 16th, one year ago started as any other day, it actually was a better than average day as I hung with my sister and her love whom was also my friend, someone I had known casually for two years and very closely for eight months, he had very swiftly taken on the title of being a best friend.
Hari, my sister and my sister's four wonderful cattle dogs trotted past my work room for a walk as they had many times before...
but then the day ended in death, blood and terror...
I thought it would stand as the worst day of my life until the 29th came...
... the day that Hari died... but lets not speak of that until we must cross that bridge... cross over yet another sad "one year ago"
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Ohh man, I remember reading about this when you posted before... I dont know how I'd be able to handle being in your place, kudos for keeping as calm as you could. I'm sorry it had to happen to you, I hope the families involved are doing alright now... well, as alright as they could be.
There are times I wonder if humanity acts the way it does to make us suffer...then I read about all the little good things and the brave acts of heroes in the world and it moves me...
I cannot say what happened was alright, but it is past. I know the pain must still linger...my heart goes out to you dear, it really does...
PM me if you ever want or need to talk, alright? I'll listen and help best I can~
I cannot say what happened was alright, but it is past. I know the pain must still linger...my heart goes out to you dear, it really does...
PM me if you ever want or need to talk, alright? I'll listen and help best I can~
never forgotten ever
when I think about this it still shocks me and makes me sad
youre a brave person though get through so much hurt and loss
wow has the year gone by eh?
whenever I think of you I cant not help but to think about the incident
i would never imagine going through this my self
youre sister is even braver and im so glad she wants to continue fursuiting since it makes her happy
i hope ull always continue youre fursuit building and never give up
i hope life improves for you guys
im always here for support and love <3
when I think about this it still shocks me and makes me sad
youre a brave person though get through so much hurt and loss
wow has the year gone by eh?
whenever I think of you I cant not help but to think about the incident
i would never imagine going through this my self
youre sister is even braver and im so glad she wants to continue fursuiting since it makes her happy
i hope ull always continue youre fursuit building and never give up
i hope life improves for you guys
im always here for support and love <3
I have been having your sister in my mind recently, as I knew the one year mark since that bad night happened would soon come to. What I keep on thinking of about that event is not only your sister losing her love later but also losing the 4 dogs that night she loved so much, since I think the love one can have with dogs is like no other. Now one year later what comes to my mind is I think it is amazing how you all dealt with what happened and how your sister, the best she could, did not let her injured leg stop her from enjoying the life she loves.
I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. I have very recently lost my grandfather in a car accident. He was walking across a cross-walk and a person hit him, not under the influence but rather out of stupidity, as there were two other people in front of the cross-walk waiting for him. It's a horrible experience to go through the loss of a family member or a friend like that.
Hari is a hero to you and your sister.
Hari is a hero to you and your sister.
A year passed, a hero unforgotten, a family unbeatable. You are all so strong for what happened.
I remember reading the day you first posted about the incident.
I'm so proud of you and your sister.
It makes me really upset, to the point I'm crying right now, to know people can be so reckless.
Stay strong you two ♥
I remember reading the day you first posted about the incident.
I'm so proud of you and your sister.
It makes me really upset, to the point I'm crying right now, to know people can be so reckless.
Stay strong you two ♥
I'm sorry for your loss. It's amazing how far you and your sister have come from this, especially your sister. Things will get better with time, and Hari is watching somewhere, glad for saving Gem. He is a hero, and will never be forgotten by anyone; those who knew him personally, and those who knew him from the story alike.
something that wouldn't happen if there were real transportation, so that people who want to mess themselves up, wold not have reason, need nor excuse, to drive when they do.
to me, this is one of the many reasons, it is so backwards to make the car the primary mode of transportation, especially in densely populated areas, where there really is no excuse for doing so. just so bankers can keep everyone conned into indenturing themselves to one.
irresponsible behavior is obviously at fault. but so is a culture that worships the automobile, and puts economic interests ahead of the well being of real people, places and things.
to me, this is one of the many reasons, it is so backwards to make the car the primary mode of transportation, especially in densely populated areas, where there really is no excuse for doing so. just so bankers can keep everyone conned into indenturing themselves to one.
irresponsible behavior is obviously at fault. but so is a culture that worships the automobile, and puts economic interests ahead of the well being of real people, places and things.
This should really open some people's eyes. Even if you had not been drinking, reckless driving is stupid and WILL harm someone's life one way or another. I pray that peace will come to families and loved ones, even though it's been a year, it must still be hard. Hari was a hero. Hari is a hero.
it feels like it was just yesterday. People who drive high or drunk, shame upon you, you cause things like this. Drive the speedlimit, pay attention to the road, 10 and 2 just be a safe driver for christ's sake! I've almost been hit and people have died from your stupidity!
It's heartbreaking to read this again.... but it was one year ago....
It's heartbreaking to read this again.... but it was one year ago....
Hari will forever be a hero. I really hope this doesn't sadden you by saying this, but I'm sure up there heislookingdown and misses you both dearly.
I too am a victim of life being affected by drunk drivers.
My aunt at the age of 18 was hit a drunk driver, and died due to internal bleeding. I never met her, and to this day, every time my grandparents see something that belonged to her, her favorite food, her picture, ect. They break down in front of me. I truly understand how it feels because, she was my aunt! I love her so much :(
My dad is an alcoholic (without knowing) and honestly I'm just sitting here hoping that he doesn't drive while drunk....and ruin someone's life like those two people did to us.
:(
I too am a victim of life being affected by drunk drivers.
My aunt at the age of 18 was hit a drunk driver, and died due to internal bleeding. I never met her, and to this day, every time my grandparents see something that belonged to her, her favorite food, her picture, ect. They break down in front of me. I truly understand how it feels because, she was my aunt! I love her so much :(
My dad is an alcoholic (without knowing) and honestly I'm just sitting here hoping that he doesn't drive while drunk....and ruin someone's life like those two people did to us.
:(
I am so proud of your sister and you that you have made it this far. It takes such tremendous strength to deal with a tragedy like this and I embrace the beautiful souls of Hari, your doggies, your sister and you today :)
As we may not know each other, I have been following you and later on the events of this accident for a long while. I hope this isn't creepy :c
But I wish you guys the best of luck. It's a very tough road to walk and you didn't ask for this, but you are doing awesome. You inspire me to keep on going and be yourself, no matter what happens.
Keep it up and stay positive :)
As we may not know each other, I have been following you and later on the events of this accident for a long while. I hope this isn't creepy :c
But I wish you guys the best of luck. It's a very tough road to walk and you didn't ask for this, but you are doing awesome. You inspire me to keep on going and be yourself, no matter what happens.
Keep it up and stay positive :)
I still get emotional when I think about that horrible day, following along with your journals and submissions for any updates in the weeks that followed. That something so horrific could happen to such a giving person and her family is just unspeakable. Still, it's been an immense comfort to see how much support you and your sister have received every step of the way.
I wish you strength as you reminisce during this trying time (reflecting upon traumatic events is NEVER easy), and for you to someday know the peace of true and complete closure, once the monster responsible for all this is made to pay for his actions.
For what it's worth, you've still got all of us cheering in your corner, wishing the very best for you and your sister. <3
I wish you strength as you reminisce during this trying time (reflecting upon traumatic events is NEVER easy), and for you to someday know the peace of true and complete closure, once the monster responsible for all this is made to pay for his actions.
For what it's worth, you've still got all of us cheering in your corner, wishing the very best for you and your sister. <3
may Hari and your dogs rest a beautiful sleep.... ive read your posts every now and again, and i know for a fact that something wonderful was lost when this horrible accident happened. i pray to the gods that your sister, your families and yourself may remember Hari and the poor pups for the light they gave to you, and that they will continue to shine.
it still seems like this all just happened a couple months ago. Ive told your story to many people in the hopes of preventing something like this from happening to them.. or being caused by them.
I am so so sorry you had to go through this tragedy. Ive been through horrible things myself so every time i read your posts about it i can just feel it and it breaks my heart.
you and your sister are so incredibly strong
I am so so sorry you had to go through this tragedy. Ive been through horrible things myself so every time i read your posts about it i can just feel it and it breaks my heart.
you and your sister are so incredibly strong
In early october of this year will be 2 years since my best friend's sister was murdered by strangulation, then tossed into a river where they did not find her for nearly a week, leaving her two young daughters without their mom. I know we are complete strangers, but I can't help but feeling such sorrow when I hear about your story. I have been there. and I never want anyone else to have to feel that.
RIP and best wishes. This event impacted my life so deeply despite not knowing you personally. I truly do wish you and everyone else on your end the best. I will never drink and drive, text and drive, or do anything distracting like that while driving. I will stand behind this.
I had an idea about funding for that one dog [link below so you know who I'm talking about] is you could sell bumper stickers that are basically public pledges to not drink and drive on them. Just a thought I figured I'd share. As said, RIP and best wishes.
I had an idea about funding for that one dog [link below so you know who I'm talking about] is you could sell bumper stickers that are basically public pledges to not drink and drive on them. Just a thought I figured I'd share. As said, RIP and best wishes.
I understand you are getting this from everyone, and you may not know me, or may not even have the time to know me, but I'm really sorry this has happened. This is truly in my heart for you. I wish you the best and when I get around for money for commission I'll be sure to light a candle in my window for her and her dogs. *hugs* Glad you made it through.
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