Loupy... I know that we don't know each other very well, but this is just too sad. I understand life can be hard, I do. But why try making yourself feel bad? I mean, sure you may not have many friends, but it's not the quantity of friends, it's the quality. And I don't care how many you have, you just made another. *Hugs* Late Happy birthday. :3

Thanks you. I had a better birthday than many years before this year, so don't worry.

well to bad we are worrying *hugs* we love ya loupy and that aint changing

oh and here is a cute and news interview i think we'll all love. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rz5TGN7eUcM

Thanks you

it's what we're here for my friend

Well, maybe next year, we can make it better. :3

Happy birthday. I'll be happy to be your friend.

Thanks you

Awww! This is just so sad. <:(
*huuuugs*
Very nice, though sad, piece here. <:)

*hugs* veteran day has another meaning to me

*hugs you again, a little longer than before*
Don't ever feel like your alone, because you have me and the rest of your friends here on FA to get you through. <:.3 *hugs*

If you ever feel lonely, feel free to drop me a Note. <:3 *hugs*

*hugs* thanks but I'm alright right now

Can I be your friend? *gives you a present*

No-one has to bring present to be my friend, and I like to rp, yes.

Ok, noted you.

I figure I should ask, what do you want from life? You say you're not happy and going nowhere, but where do you want to be?

A place to call my own and a simple job, so I can build on that. Not constantly worrying about my parents, money and such.

Well, if you don't mind a personal question, and public reply, what is holding you back? Is there a specific job you've been wanting to do?

I have attempted to get, and worked, many jobs. My main problem is my social relations with my coworkers who make it difficult to work for the same place a long time, and those same social problems that make getting a job (damned interviews) really difficult. It is because of a mental illness http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/5448551/

Fascinating, and something i can relate to a great deal. While never diagnosed, that pretty much suits me to a T. In any event, have you considered a job where you need no co-workers? Personally, in the past eleven years or so, i've been doing security work. Sit in a box at midnight, let people through a gate, go back to playing video games until the next person. No co-workers, no issues.

Starting at the beginning of '14, I got a job dealing with water for the local government. I run a water plant overnight and on weekends, having only one shift a week where I am required to work with people. Perhaps look into some of the 'lesser considered' jobs where midnight shifts are available(in a skilled trade of course). You need to give up on the expectation of a social life, but for guys like us, that's not a problem, is it?

One of my best job ever I didn't had co-workers, but I cannot work nights : among my symptoms are recurring nightmares and I need sleep medicine, and as soon as I try to stay up past midnight it get really complicated. I can do a couple of nights at best. I have aimed for jobs without co-workers but I'm in no position to refuse a job anymore so I take what come my way and it's only temporary jobs so far. For security it requires a degree I do not have.

Usually working midnights is a transition you adapt to, but very well. And what type of degree do you need to provide basic unarmed security, I.E. a "rent-a-cop"?

In any event, my personal advice is to look into some skilled labor positions, check with your local government listing to see what is available to get a better idea, since municipal positions are always in demand anywhere you go, and usually don't require co-workers after a period of time.

The doctor suggested I avoid working nights. I have for a while and it was hard for me. For rent-a-cop there is a small degree in France, security training. I am supposed to have some support to find a job from the government but they are overworked and haven't had time to take me in yet.

I see. Well, if not nights, afternoons then. Most 24/7 places have either 3 or 4 shifts a day, ranging from 6 to 8 hours. While nights are preferable to myself, afternoons work better for others. I often throw out my own profession to others, perhaps take a peek at the requirements for a water treatment operator. Lonely job, good pay and always in demand, since everybody on earth requires clean water.

If you can balance the PH of your home pool, you can do this position.

I don't have a pool but I do have scientific training.

It was just an example, as my job primarily consists of adding chlorine to a water supply and checking on the status of flows and pumps, all of which is done via computer. It just needs a human there to make sure nothing is on fire.

But yes, take a peek at the requirements. Here in the US it takes two long distance courses and a state test to complete, as well as a year of on the job training. But, it's a job that'll always be around, and the options once you have the license are quite extensive. Food and drink factories require someone with the license due to regulations, private facilities, government facilities, all sorts of places require clean water.

This is so sad :c I can feel tears coming *huggles you*

*hugs* it's only a pic

Its still so sad though :c

I understand that feeling; I've had a rotten week and been even lower than usual ever since my birthday... Hope things look up for you. In the meantime I guess here's a companion cube?

Thanks you.

Happy belated birthday loupy. Hugs an cuddles

Thanks you.

I can't stand seeing a sad pup on there birthday

*Big huggles* Happy birthday!

Thanks.

Awwwwwwwwww :c if you ever wanna chat you can hit up my skype or yahoo. There listed on my page

I'm quite shy and such, if you want to chat with me you have to message me because otherwise I do not talk, too shy and social anxious.

Ah. >\\> im kinda the same way DX
Ill poke you sometime

Happy Birthday Pup. =3

Thanks

i will all ways be your friend Loupy and happy late birth bay

Thanks

your more then welcome

*hugs* If you ever want to skype, mines is 'tyleraw2'

Thanks

sowwy its a littl late but HAPPY BIRTHDAY Loupy

Thanks you.

You know I'm always around and I bother you a lot ;D Stop being so sad poopy pants perk up my little flower.

Thanks you, coming for the birthday spankings ?

I better get my bottom ready.

Bah oui, la vie n'est pas toujours marrante...

Bon anniversaire, Loupy !

Merci.

Happy belated Birthday. I'm sorry it was a bit depressing. I can definitely relate with you on the getting older feeling. The picture is adorable though!

I had an ok birthday this year, this pic relate to previous ones.
I have totally lost all way to contact our mutal friends also.

*gives the birthday girl a warm hug*

a bit late but still, happy birthday,

Thanks

I'll admit, there is something that really hits me here. It's just the image of something that is starkly SUPPOSED to be happy, and by all extensions should, but then having it presented as sad. It has more impact that say, a picture of a sad fur just holding a single birthday cupcake with a party hat. It's the fact that everything in the background shows it should be happy, from the balloons, the crown, the text hangers and even the bib and colorful furniture, put in contrast to someone who seems to honestly feel heartbroken in the midst of it. Drives the point home.

Life can be sad sometimes, yet we must learn to live with it. Strugling to get better tomorrow (or at least not worst than yesterday).
Number of friends does not matter mostly (its better to have less but true, than many but false).

So instead of wishing you happy b-day, i wish you better year, good opportunities and so on.


PS: Sad that your family dont treat yours b-day as they should.

Thanks you

*shuffles in with a large cake in the shape of a bone with only 2 candles on it*

Sorry i am late sweetness, but getting across the Channel is pretty tough in waterwings, but I do as always promise to always have you in my heart.

*hugs and cuddles* thanks