
Tree of Life - Book 0 pg. 62.
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Well thel ast part "HATE leads to suffering" isnt just about the person itself... it typically turns to violence eventually that destroys everyone around them friend and enemy alive, hence the moral is actually that "Wrath/Spite/Revenge" is a disease and is blatent destruction made manifest. Hatred eventually turns to the above mentioned. Heck most DISLIKE things...hatred is much much worse.
That is fine but fear generally leads to hate as it has to do with rejection; not anger per sey. To put it simply, love is attraction; hate is repulsion. Love is acceptance; hate is rejection. So from a philosophical point of view, no; Yoda's phrase, as much as I like the original Star Wars trilogy, is wrong from that point of view because fear has nothing to do with anger per sey. However, what happened with Nigel is still there and that is not going to change for the better, regardless of what I say but I admit that this was interesting talk.
Anger typically is a temporary emotion under normal circumstances, a direct result of being unable to do anything about the situation brought about by fear. This anger initially will have no direct target, but will quickly latch onto a person, object or group that can be blamed for preventing your fears from becoming reality. If neither the fear nor the anger can be addressed or alleviated, it can create into genuine hatred for that person/group. Hatred causes you to see those targeted as acceptable targets, not even really human, allowing you to justify violence against that group, and suffering follows, per Yoda's wisdom.
Tldr: anger and fear are short term emotions. Hatred is long term. Fear induces anger from the impotence, anger causes hate, that hate is typically what will let a person to actually cross that line to cause suffering. Yoda was correct.
Tldr: anger and fear are short term emotions. Hatred is long term. Fear induces anger from the impotence, anger causes hate, that hate is typically what will let a person to actually cross that line to cause suffering. Yoda was correct.
I'm sorry, but it still doesn't make sense that anger is related to fear per sey, and from all the information I have learned over the years, I discovered that this is not always the case. Sorry but Yoda was wrong and that's because those who wrote the scripts for such movies were still human.
I'm not talking about all circumstances, and neither was Yoda. The cycle Yoda talked about is something that definitely happens, and from what I can tell, the specific fear that Yoda meant was the kind associated with impotence, basically not being able to do anything about that thing you fear.
In universe, Yoda was talking about Anakin's and Luke's parallels, having known the terrible things that occurred because Anakin couldn't do anything about his mother's or wife's impending deaths.
In universe, Yoda was talking about Anakin's and Luke's parallels, having known the terrible things that occurred because Anakin couldn't do anything about his mother's or wife's impending deaths.
There we go.
And just as fast as they dropped their older son, they reduced the 'every family member becoming a Guardian' to 'at least one of a generation must become a Guardian'
I can't help but wonder what happens if Toby fails to become a Guardian for the very same reason?
I doubt they will find the fault with themselves, but I can't help wondering what their reaction would be and how it would reflect in their status and wealth.
And just as fast as they dropped their older son, they reduced the 'every family member becoming a Guardian' to 'at least one of a generation must become a Guardian'
I can't help but wonder what happens if Toby fails to become a Guardian for the very same reason?
I doubt they will find the fault with themselves, but I can't help wondering what their reaction would be and how it would reflect in their status and wealth.
I know exactly how this little child feels/felt. My one saving grace was that Papa didn't turn a cold shoulder on his 'Problem daughter', nor did my friends/community (for the most part). I hadn't lost 'All' affections/support. I don't think I would've survived to see adolescence, if I were totally cut-off like that.
This comic page really hits me in the feelz, and I have to say 'Thank You!' for the emotional depth your work(s) often portray!
This comic page really hits me in the feelz, and I have to say 'Thank You!' for the emotional depth your work(s) often portray!
Please 🥺🥺🥺🥺 🥺 don't kill your little brother he was innocent he didn't know what happened to understand.. don't kill him. I rather hope he runs and runs far away but always being a disgrace to his family just so his brother can live and hopefully redeem him some how QwQ however that's a Dream.. a dream I'm so afraid to learn is not real QwQ
I feel like this is all according to the spirit's plan. Two factor plan. First, she wants him to experience the negative emotions before she accepts him as a guardian. Second, she needed him to sever the connection to his parents so that they couldn't influence him once he became a guardian.
lol the edgy comments in the last few pages are kind of excessive. they are like, more hardcore than usual stereotypical Asian parents, not darth vader and maleficent XD. Also as far as "neglect" goes, anytime a parent can get tired of looking at their kid for whatever grudge they have, and just command their butler do all the parent stuff from their castle or whatever...I dunno lacks a little bite in spite of the hurt feelings, people need to chill :P
The thing is that from parents, they should be indeed loving their child forever (that is unless they become a monster who hurts people for fun of course) because parental love is unconditional, the child counts on them to grow good. So when this kind of "parents" don't because the kid doesn't meet their expectations, they never deserved to be parents
I can understand his anger at his parents hypocrisy, how they are neglecting him, and yes his anger is completely justified. (I also feel bad for the younger sibling for also having crap parents) but little dude should really think twice about lashing out on stuff since that is the fast track to getting whacked with a belt.
No he needs to wait, stay his path, grow larger and stronger. then when the time is right and he achieves his goal. that is when he parents would try to pull him back into his to say how proud they are. that is the time for him to strike and deliver it would full force for max affect.
lets your anger make your strong little one, but do not let it control you. all your anger but also accept happiness along the way.
No he needs to wait, stay his path, grow larger and stronger. then when the time is right and he achieves his goal. that is when he parents would try to pull him back into his to say how proud they are. that is the time for him to strike and deliver it would full force for max affect.
lets your anger make your strong little one, but do not let it control you. all your anger but also accept happiness along the way.
At least not one is defending the parents this page and saying he totally loved their son but they suddenly stopped loving him the moment he wasn't accepted. Which is totally how love works - if you really love someone you definitely can stop loving them the moment they dissapoint you over something that isn't their fault /s
I am a depressed cynic but I would probably write Nigels story line to have him cross paths with his parents quickly and have him not let them know who he is however I would have him notice that the pair are more grizzled and distant from each other. Toby I would make into a Guardian but I would have him act like a humiliating playboy and bounty hunter in public as a way to punish his parents for driving Nigel away because younger siblings always look up to older ones and Toby should take the loss of his brother personally. Nigel of course will be severely embittered towards his parents and keep a distance from Toby while learning how his abandonment or banishment from his home and family caused things to collapse under its own bad structuring with his mother feeling regretful and his father living in denial. The page itself makes me wish for this entire family to find redemption from how bad they are all going to become from this regardless of how they get there.
So is he going to be one of those: "I gave my best, but it was never good enough for you so you see me as a failure and ignore me. And because of that, instead of becoming a hero, i become a villain. Maybe you will notice me then."-type?
I mean, i can understand him. It was absolutely not his fault, and his parents switch to his little brother like he died in an accident or so.
I mean, i can understand him. It was absolutely not his fault, and his parents switch to his little brother like he died in an accident or so.
I'm curious as to how Toby isn't already in the state their brother is in now. They basically ignored him and piled all their false love on his brother until he failed. How would *you* react if parents who ignored you until they felt it was conveient to notice you started treating you the way they had your brother, while then mistreating the brother? I'd expect Toby to be far less happy and far more suspicious than he is in these panels, especially considering they're saying the same now obvious lies to him that they did to his brother.
Also? The sheer number of 'yes let the hate flow through you!' comments here... not sure if it's more creepy or disturbing.
Also? The sheer number of 'yes let the hate flow through you!' comments here... not sure if it's more creepy or disturbing.
Depending on the child and the age they would not known any better. All they see is the affection that they lacked suddenly surging in, not knowing it's 100% conditional to the parents expectations and can be ripped away with any error.
What would REALLY be terrible is if they dive into it when approached about it with there bother. the "You're just jealous cause they love 'me' now." Mindset that can EASILY be solidified at this stage.
We all crave affection, so for the child to young to really understand, all it is is a good thing. This kind of poison can fester.
What would REALLY be terrible is if they dive into it when approached about it with there bother. the "You're just jealous cause they love 'me' now." Mindset that can EASILY be solidified at this stage.
We all crave affection, so for the child to young to really understand, all it is is a good thing. This kind of poison can fester.
I'm not sure how old he is here, but I've had 13 nieces and nephews, and watched them all growing up from up close. Trust me that this game of 'parents favorite' was closely watched between them from as soon as the concept even starts out, and sometimes hotly contested over. At ages as young as three, they would compete for more attention and love, and would treat each other badly or sometimes mock each other depending on where they were on the scale.
In my own family of five brothers and sisters, I experienced this to an extent. my middle brother was the 'golden child'. My mother doted on him to no end, and nothing he ever did was wrong, even when it was. He was so high in her regard that he could get me punished by lying to her, and she would only realize he had lied *after* punishment was dealt out. And even then she would only be upset for a little while. Yet for some reason, he didn't like that she seemed to treat me more gently than everyone else (mainly because I was super quiet and out of the way, so caused no trouble for her to react to, or at least very rarely). Because of this, he was always trying to get me in trouble, or make it seem like I was doing wrong, just because he knew she would hardly ever think he was being malicious.
If I were Toby, I would be HIGHLY suspicious if my parent had suddenly stopped thinking my brother was the golden child and started looking at me in the same way she had him.
In my own family of five brothers and sisters, I experienced this to an extent. my middle brother was the 'golden child'. My mother doted on him to no end, and nothing he ever did was wrong, even when it was. He was so high in her regard that he could get me punished by lying to her, and she would only realize he had lied *after* punishment was dealt out. And even then she would only be upset for a little while. Yet for some reason, he didn't like that she seemed to treat me more gently than everyone else (mainly because I was super quiet and out of the way, so caused no trouble for her to react to, or at least very rarely). Because of this, he was always trying to get me in trouble, or make it seem like I was doing wrong, just because he knew she would hardly ever think he was being malicious.
If I were Toby, I would be HIGHLY suspicious if my parent had suddenly stopped thinking my brother was the golden child and started looking at me in the same way she had him.
Depending on how starved for attention the child is they might make the mental connection but not care cause "it's my turn now".
But this get where you come from just speaking froma position very similar, heck they still treat my older brother better than I but want to lamp the responsibility onto me.
But this get where you come from just speaking froma position very similar, heck they still treat my older brother better than I but want to lamp the responsibility onto me.
All negative emotions are signifiers of unmet needs.
All positive emotions are signifiers of met needs.
If you're mad at someone for ghosting you, for example, the root of that anger is an unmet need for inclusion and social interaction.
If you're mad at your parents for abandoning you and ignoring you because some goddess didn't entertain their power fantasy, that unmet need is the need for unconditional love.
The best solution is to find a way to meet the root need of that anger. To satisfy it, so that there's no reason to feel that anger. If it won't come from parents, it should come from someone else. Someone better.
...Man, I'm sounding like the Tree of Life aren't I?
All positive emotions are signifiers of met needs.
If you're mad at someone for ghosting you, for example, the root of that anger is an unmet need for inclusion and social interaction.
If you're mad at your parents for abandoning you and ignoring you because some goddess didn't entertain their power fantasy, that unmet need is the need for unconditional love.
The best solution is to find a way to meet the root need of that anger. To satisfy it, so that there's no reason to feel that anger. If it won't come from parents, it should come from someone else. Someone better.
...Man, I'm sounding like the Tree of Life aren't I?
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