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Clearing Up Confusion.
4 years ago
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As some might see in other places here, that we invited someone named Exey into our home.
My husband knew them and we wanted to help them after their engagement broke up.
When they moved in, everything was fine. We had guidelines about how our relationship would be.
To Exey, friends are sexual buddies, but we didn't want that after realizing how he was in person and as a person in general.
He lied to us to get into our lives and home. We found out all of his lies from his mother.
That he didn't like animals, and we have many animals in our home. He would yell at them for playing and doing dog/cat things.
The personal hygiene was terrible. Dishes were washed with cold water and next to no soap.
I started to get so stressed and uncomfortable in my own home that I missed my period. I would work later because I didn't want to come home.
He wasn't looking for a job very hard. Everything wasn't good enough for his standards.
I would get everything Mansplained to me like I was a fucking idiot.
We introduced a roommate agreement, which they got angry at. But it was only fair to be on the same level knowing how life would be. No physical contact, when my husband was feeling taken advantage of and he was scared to say anything. Rent, which he thought was too much but it was less than if he was living alone.
I fed him. I kept food and drinks available.
Exey says we kicked them out. We did not. We asked them to leave as our health and mental sanity was on the line.
We asked them to go back home to their mom. We were then asked to buy a plane ticket for them. We had already forked out $450 to get them and their luggage to us. Now we had to sink another $200 to send him back to his mom. That week, after getting his ticket, we WENT OUT FOR DINNER with friends. When he said he had no money to pay for his flight.
I am BEYOND LIVID with this whole situation. Making us out to be monsters when he was snug as a bug.
I am DONE being taken advantage of!
So long basement gremlin. My house has never felt cleaner or safer.
He also thinks I made an ass out of myself by commenting truths.
I posted views he doesn't like. Disbelieving what really happened. This delusional person needs therapy asap. Shit needs to be looked at inwardly and worked on. Not twisting realities to suit their own crazy.
Sorry for the rant/vent but just in case anyone comes here looking for insight/answers or the truth.
Note me if there are questions or anything.
***UPDATE****
They have since send me a LONG facebook message trying to explain their side, backpedaling and showing more so how delusional they are. Trying to turn my husband and me against each other. Then sicked their mom on me and my husband.
Not once did I comment on the CURRENT situation that they and their mom are in.
I only explained the PAST when he was at our home and before.
I now had a Pet Peeve that is VERY high on my list.
People who actively seek attention and sympathy from others.
I once was a doormat, but I am no longer.
Don't pick a fight with a cat. We have teeth a claws. And we will use them to protect ourselves and the ones we love.
My husband knew them and we wanted to help them after their engagement broke up.
When they moved in, everything was fine. We had guidelines about how our relationship would be.
To Exey, friends are sexual buddies, but we didn't want that after realizing how he was in person and as a person in general.
He lied to us to get into our lives and home. We found out all of his lies from his mother.
That he didn't like animals, and we have many animals in our home. He would yell at them for playing and doing dog/cat things.
The personal hygiene was terrible. Dishes were washed with cold water and next to no soap.
I started to get so stressed and uncomfortable in my own home that I missed my period. I would work later because I didn't want to come home.
He wasn't looking for a job very hard. Everything wasn't good enough for his standards.
I would get everything Mansplained to me like I was a fucking idiot.
We introduced a roommate agreement, which they got angry at. But it was only fair to be on the same level knowing how life would be. No physical contact, when my husband was feeling taken advantage of and he was scared to say anything. Rent, which he thought was too much but it was less than if he was living alone.
I fed him. I kept food and drinks available.
Exey says we kicked them out. We did not. We asked them to leave as our health and mental sanity was on the line.
We asked them to go back home to their mom. We were then asked to buy a plane ticket for them. We had already forked out $450 to get them and their luggage to us. Now we had to sink another $200 to send him back to his mom. That week, after getting his ticket, we WENT OUT FOR DINNER with friends. When he said he had no money to pay for his flight.
I am BEYOND LIVID with this whole situation. Making us out to be monsters when he was snug as a bug.
I am DONE being taken advantage of!
So long basement gremlin. My house has never felt cleaner or safer.
He also thinks I made an ass out of myself by commenting truths.
I posted views he doesn't like. Disbelieving what really happened. This delusional person needs therapy asap. Shit needs to be looked at inwardly and worked on. Not twisting realities to suit their own crazy.
Sorry for the rant/vent but just in case anyone comes here looking for insight/answers or the truth.
Note me if there are questions or anything.
***UPDATE****
They have since send me a LONG facebook message trying to explain their side, backpedaling and showing more so how delusional they are. Trying to turn my husband and me against each other. Then sicked their mom on me and my husband.
Not once did I comment on the CURRENT situation that they and their mom are in.
I only explained the PAST when he was at our home and before.
I now had a Pet Peeve that is VERY high on my list.
People who actively seek attention and sympathy from others.
I once was a doormat, but I am no longer.
Don't pick a fight with a cat. We have teeth a claws. And we will use them to protect ourselves and the ones we love.
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