Ghosting Rant
3 years ago
Don't do it.
I hate it.
If you have a problem with me or other people, say it.
Don't just give the silent treatment making people wonder what it is they did wrong to get this sort of reaction.
It makes the situation worse and if it's an issue with something a person did or said, tell them so they can move in the right direction to fix it.
As a person who this sort of thing has happened recently, I can come on strong and I'm not going to deny that.
If this bothers you, then either tell me to not be so forward, or if you're one of those sensitive types that take offense to almost everything, move on.
I'm sick of people beating around the bush about things with me, it does not make things ok if there's a problem but people won't address it.
For the last few months, I've tried talking with several furry artists, local furries who live literally within 5 miles of me only to be ghosted by them.
Ghosted for things I've either said or felt in such a way that made me feel like I was a bother to others or them only to say it was fine.
Tell me if I'm the problem so I can move forward to fix the issue because I don't see it myself.
I hate it.
If you have a problem with me or other people, say it.
Don't just give the silent treatment making people wonder what it is they did wrong to get this sort of reaction.
It makes the situation worse and if it's an issue with something a person did or said, tell them so they can move in the right direction to fix it.
As a person who this sort of thing has happened recently, I can come on strong and I'm not going to deny that.
If this bothers you, then either tell me to not be so forward, or if you're one of those sensitive types that take offense to almost everything, move on.
I'm sick of people beating around the bush about things with me, it does not make things ok if there's a problem but people won't address it.
For the last few months, I've tried talking with several furry artists, local furries who live literally within 5 miles of me only to be ghosted by them.
Ghosted for things I've either said or felt in such a way that made me feel like I was a bother to others or them only to say it was fine.
Tell me if I'm the problem so I can move forward to fix the issue because I don't see it myself.

LeoTheLion90
~leothelion90
Trust me, No one likes being ghosted.

ShadowEveSong
~shadowevesong
OP
Yeah and it sucks cause in my case I don't know what it was I did or said to be ghosted.

LeoTheLion90
~leothelion90
-hugs-