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Merry Christmas all.
3 years ago
Wish you all well. Been a crazy year. And sadly, still crazy in a lot of places.
just rambling past this
I been pretty private with my life for close to a decade now. I want to share, but I always feel like I shouldn't. That, and folks are still fired up to argue and win an argument instead of just take a moment to listen and help figure things out. Can't show any empathy. It's really retarded. Especially those who must choose a side on the political line.
Health been going down hill. I'll goin to need to find a new job field January. Unless I some how fix my issues. But I never get my sugars under 250. So yeah.
Mom's marriage to her husband of 20 years ended this month. Not officially, but she moved out of Washington state to live with us in Indiana. Something she is not happy with. Especially since our Dad lives 45 minutes away. And since the two are now in the same state. Both parents are doing the passive aggressive game of, "What did he/she say about me? Cause I can go on forever about him/her."
I am disappointed with my step Dad. We are not sure about his issue, maybe Dementia. But her forgets things withen minutes, sometimes seconds. He acts childish, easily angry. Something he never was. I loved with them from the start of their marriage till the 15th year. So I know how he was. Responsible gun owner, easy to talk to person. Don't have to agree, but we are able to convince each other things and keep ourselves grounded. I really liked the guy. I still do. At least the old him.
But he is now a big child, yells and screams a lot. Watches Fox News and channels like it. Counts his amo before he leaves. And cleans his guns 24/7. Everyone have told him to get checked in. But he always translate it as, "Give up his guns."
Long story short, sis and her husband been over there more than twice to try to meditate thing and get him to seek help. And he just fought more. So, last visit my sis was there, turns out Mom was mostly in tears and avoid him. So....yeah, she took her out of there.
Not sure what more to say. I had to do this with her ex boyfriend when I was in high school. At least this time Sis had a place to bring her. I didn't since I was just a kid and living with her at the time. Guess I am glad it's not car camping again.
I am still lost with her husband though. I don't want to adbondone him. But got mom out of there to at least save her sanity. I still wish I knew what to do with him. There's got to be way to get him to understand his mental health is what we are worried about. If we truly cared about removing the guns, we would have, regardless how he thinks he got things down to a pattern. But he still thinks this is about his guns. No, it's about our Mother and him. Guns don't kill, people do. And he's got issues.
I really just want to say fuck it and just focus on his guns. But then that would definitely make me enemy number one. That's not the intention.
Ah well.
just rambling past this
I been pretty private with my life for close to a decade now. I want to share, but I always feel like I shouldn't. That, and folks are still fired up to argue and win an argument instead of just take a moment to listen and help figure things out. Can't show any empathy. It's really retarded. Especially those who must choose a side on the political line.
Health been going down hill. I'll goin to need to find a new job field January. Unless I some how fix my issues. But I never get my sugars under 250. So yeah.
Mom's marriage to her husband of 20 years ended this month. Not officially, but she moved out of Washington state to live with us in Indiana. Something she is not happy with. Especially since our Dad lives 45 minutes away. And since the two are now in the same state. Both parents are doing the passive aggressive game of, "What did he/she say about me? Cause I can go on forever about him/her."
I am disappointed with my step Dad. We are not sure about his issue, maybe Dementia. But her forgets things withen minutes, sometimes seconds. He acts childish, easily angry. Something he never was. I loved with them from the start of their marriage till the 15th year. So I know how he was. Responsible gun owner, easy to talk to person. Don't have to agree, but we are able to convince each other things and keep ourselves grounded. I really liked the guy. I still do. At least the old him.
But he is now a big child, yells and screams a lot. Watches Fox News and channels like it. Counts his amo before he leaves. And cleans his guns 24/7. Everyone have told him to get checked in. But he always translate it as, "Give up his guns."
Long story short, sis and her husband been over there more than twice to try to meditate thing and get him to seek help. And he just fought more. So, last visit my sis was there, turns out Mom was mostly in tears and avoid him. So....yeah, she took her out of there.
Not sure what more to say. I had to do this with her ex boyfriend when I was in high school. At least this time Sis had a place to bring her. I didn't since I was just a kid and living with her at the time. Guess I am glad it's not car camping again.
I am still lost with her husband though. I don't want to adbondone him. But got mom out of there to at least save her sanity. I still wish I knew what to do with him. There's got to be way to get him to understand his mental health is what we are worried about. If we truly cared about removing the guns, we would have, regardless how he thinks he got things down to a pattern. But he still thinks this is about his guns. No, it's about our Mother and him. Guns don't kill, people do. And he's got issues.
I really just want to say fuck it and just focus on his guns. But then that would definitely make me enemy number one. That's not the intention.
Ah well.
sailoranna
~sailoranna
Sorry you have to go though all that. Take care man. I hope you get better soon!
