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Just Another Face in the Crowd
3 years ago
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Just Another Face in the Crowd
You first have to realize you aren't, all of our differences make us who we are and our differences also bring us together, not only as human beings but also in our passions, with passion comes courage and love to each other in our communities, families and among friends. You must take the time to build your self-worth. I wish that building your self worth was as easy as repeating to yourself that you love yourself, but it's not that simple. The truth is, you have to do something that is worthy of that love, you have to do something that you believe in. You want it to be enough to just exist as you are, but sometimes you feel that isn’t enough and we judge ourselves. People tend to turn to simpler, temporary solutions to ease pain or feelings of negativity. Let me tell you this, you need purpose. You may ask yourself “Why do I even matter?” or “Do I really belong here?” Remember that you don’t have to be extraordinary to love yourself. You must however pursue happiness. What is it that you can do for yourself and the world around you? That goal doesn't have to be big, it just has to be true to you, and that’ll bring you drive. Put in the energy everyday to get up and get out of your head if you are struggling with self doubt.. Create meaning in your life. You have to set an intention, set rules for yourself. Earn credibility within following those rules and believe that you are worthy because you take those small steps to do something that means something important to you. it doesn’t matter what other people think, you have to remind yourself how much it matters, to earn your own worth.
What you believe after you say “I am -” Will shape you. What you believe, will indeed set you on the course to that destination. If you think you will fail, you most likely will, because you lose the faith and drive from the beginning. You need not motivation, but drive when there is nothing and no one to motivate you. Find the meaning behind your drive and let it push you. Thoughts are powerful, thoughts lead to action, actions over time become habits, and habits make up your life. You are stronger than you think you are, don't forget that when times are hard.
I believe the people around you matter, close friends and family, the people you surround yourself with tend to influence you to either remain the same or pursue more. You can choose to surround yourself with people you can learn from in some way. Learning more from other perspectives of the world whether you wish to follow them is up to you, that’s the benefit of the will to choose. Sometimes you have to make big sacrifices, if you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want may become the sacrifice in itself. Which means you could lose your end goal and thus the meaning behind it and that can damage other parts of your life that were once good.
Only you can decide if others' opinions become reality. You face your own doubts, your own fears and your own conditioned thoughts you’ve befriended from your past. You have to fight some of your greatest battles, and you’ve made it this far, so don’t give it all up now.
The people close to you, who might do you wrong or maybe you assume they don't believe in you. Those who try to protect you may be shielding you from failure, but the worst of all is the internal enemy, the voices inside your head saying “I’ll never be good enough.” “I want to do this but I can’t.” You want to give to those you love, but you can’t. Your own thoughts will cause you more harm than anything. Though if you can direct those voices to work for you rather than against you, you’ll have the ball in your court. You can finally be proud of yourself by taking charge of your life, having reachable goals, and understanding what your purpose is in life. When you work on yourself daily, you can feel good enough because you are good enough.
Some advice to follow if you’re looking for self improvement is to cut out something that does nothing good for you and replace it with something good for you. Whether that could be as simple as throwing out the bread, chips and donuts, or building your credit back up, quitting smoking or finding the love of your life. There are no limitations to those who are willing to work for it. Don’t react to your life, instead acknowledge that you can create so much more. You are where you are right now because of your past decisions and beliefs. You add value to others for doing what you pursue. Finding what to pursue can be difficult, though no matter your struggles I believe you can get there. I believe in you and I’m proud of you. Thanks for reading. <3
Please share your thoughts on your own struggles and goals below and what you may do next to improve your situation.
You first have to realize you aren't, all of our differences make us who we are and our differences also bring us together, not only as human beings but also in our passions, with passion comes courage and love to each other in our communities, families and among friends. You must take the time to build your self-worth. I wish that building your self worth was as easy as repeating to yourself that you love yourself, but it's not that simple. The truth is, you have to do something that is worthy of that love, you have to do something that you believe in. You want it to be enough to just exist as you are, but sometimes you feel that isn’t enough and we judge ourselves. People tend to turn to simpler, temporary solutions to ease pain or feelings of negativity. Let me tell you this, you need purpose. You may ask yourself “Why do I even matter?” or “Do I really belong here?” Remember that you don’t have to be extraordinary to love yourself. You must however pursue happiness. What is it that you can do for yourself and the world around you? That goal doesn't have to be big, it just has to be true to you, and that’ll bring you drive. Put in the energy everyday to get up and get out of your head if you are struggling with self doubt.. Create meaning in your life. You have to set an intention, set rules for yourself. Earn credibility within following those rules and believe that you are worthy because you take those small steps to do something that means something important to you. it doesn’t matter what other people think, you have to remind yourself how much it matters, to earn your own worth.
What you believe after you say “I am -” Will shape you. What you believe, will indeed set you on the course to that destination. If you think you will fail, you most likely will, because you lose the faith and drive from the beginning. You need not motivation, but drive when there is nothing and no one to motivate you. Find the meaning behind your drive and let it push you. Thoughts are powerful, thoughts lead to action, actions over time become habits, and habits make up your life. You are stronger than you think you are, don't forget that when times are hard.
I believe the people around you matter, close friends and family, the people you surround yourself with tend to influence you to either remain the same or pursue more. You can choose to surround yourself with people you can learn from in some way. Learning more from other perspectives of the world whether you wish to follow them is up to you, that’s the benefit of the will to choose. Sometimes you have to make big sacrifices, if you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want may become the sacrifice in itself. Which means you could lose your end goal and thus the meaning behind it and that can damage other parts of your life that were once good.
Only you can decide if others' opinions become reality. You face your own doubts, your own fears and your own conditioned thoughts you’ve befriended from your past. You have to fight some of your greatest battles, and you’ve made it this far, so don’t give it all up now.
The people close to you, who might do you wrong or maybe you assume they don't believe in you. Those who try to protect you may be shielding you from failure, but the worst of all is the internal enemy, the voices inside your head saying “I’ll never be good enough.” “I want to do this but I can’t.” You want to give to those you love, but you can’t. Your own thoughts will cause you more harm than anything. Though if you can direct those voices to work for you rather than against you, you’ll have the ball in your court. You can finally be proud of yourself by taking charge of your life, having reachable goals, and understanding what your purpose is in life. When you work on yourself daily, you can feel good enough because you are good enough.
Some advice to follow if you’re looking for self improvement is to cut out something that does nothing good for you and replace it with something good for you. Whether that could be as simple as throwing out the bread, chips and donuts, or building your credit back up, quitting smoking or finding the love of your life. There are no limitations to those who are willing to work for it. Don’t react to your life, instead acknowledge that you can create so much more. You are where you are right now because of your past decisions and beliefs. You add value to others for doing what you pursue. Finding what to pursue can be difficult, though no matter your struggles I believe you can get there. I believe in you and I’m proud of you. Thanks for reading. <3
Please share your thoughts on your own struggles and goals below and what you may do next to improve your situation.
