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2 years ago
~~❤❤Hey there!❤❤~~ Hey hey all, how are we all? Doin good I hope.
Just Daz here with a quick update on everything thats been going on in my ever chaotic life of the last 4 months or so.
So to start off for those who dont wana read a potential wall of text here's the TL:DR and there will be some links at the end for ya.
I've been forced to move a bunch and might do again, my partner of 4 years broke up with me by telling me they're with someone else, my work situation is looking bleak but is manageable.
Okay now for the long form content, a wall of text, so strap in, get that starwars into music playing, and start scrolling.
Starting off with housing; my mother and step father, hence forth referred to as "parents", have kicked me out of the flat I was renting in what turned out to be a futile move to profit of the property I was in. They dropped the news of my eviction to me on my birthday, which was nice of them... But it wasnt untill June that I actually was moved out. Since then I've had to crash with a couple of friends who almost imidiately offered their support when they heard what was going on, and since i've moved from theirs they have now had someone else in need move in. I am truly fortunate to be surrounded by such good people.
Currently I've been forced back to live with my parents, they manipulated my situation in such a way as other options would have been impossible to take, plus I was already limited by still holding a work contract that keeps me tied to a given location. My parents are once again trying to force me out and threatening me with excessive rent charges, there is sure to be further updates on this as I'm still here as of this post.
This part I will try to keep short. In the middle of the housing situation my partner of 4 years who had been ghosting me for what has felt like an eternity actually responded to one of my messages and an actual conversation occured. Now i'm a very loyal person, held out on them coming back eventually and was fully prepared to pick things up and rebuild from what had happened. That appeared to be how they presented their intentions. After arranging to meet and me taking time off to go see them to work on things, they then drop on me only a few days before I'm due to set off that they had in fact spent the time ghosting me with someone else and were now committed to them.
This was obviously a big blow to me emotionally and rather poorly timed given everything else going on with me at the current time, but I cant change the bad actions people take against me. What it does mean is I've had to cancel the proposal plans that I had been working on since '21 and the moving plans that I had prepped should my partner have wanted to move in with me at the time. The custom ring designs are gonna be up-cycled into something new, and the materials put towards that as a future endeavor. Any money saved will likely go elsewhere.
And last but not least, work. This one will be short and sweet, the company I work for is playing a game of "fuck around and find out" and are currently in the finding out stage of what union lawyers are like. There's also been a string of poor managament decissions made recently that are having a knock on effect to the sites. And to top it all off, my supervisor, the only person who makes my work somewhat tolerable is leaving in a week from this post.
So with all the depressing shit outta the way, time to look towards the future, so whats the plan? Ya cant keep a good Daz down.
With housing I plan to get somewhere cheap, save and plan a bigger move down the line. I just need to find somewhere or negotiate more with my parents. I need somewhere that I can stream from with decent internet, that's my only thought atm.
All the money set aside for relationship plans will probs go to my hobbies, and some savings. Not much else too that.
Work wise I'm just gonna wait out my contract then find somewhere else.
Long term plans are still be thought on, but now that I dont have anyone anckoring me down here I can put my plans to move to the 'States back on the table. It's something I had planned and saced for befoer 2020 but we all know what happened that year. I am also currently working hard on streaming and art, along with building a little side business with merchy stuff. Been thinking about tentatively opening for commissions for friends but i'm waiting before doing anything with that. And with all that, I can also be found on that bluesky thing, I don't really do the social media stuff but it was worth getting an account I think, so feel free to follow there.
Follow my streams at: https://picarto.tv/DazzleSweetTooth I stream usually 4 times a week tho it varies.
And find me now at https://bsky.app/profile/dazzleswee.....th.bsky.social havent posted anything yet but do plan too
Just Daz here with a quick update on everything thats been going on in my ever chaotic life of the last 4 months or so.
So to start off for those who dont wana read a potential wall of text here's the TL:DR and there will be some links at the end for ya.
I've been forced to move a bunch and might do again, my partner of 4 years broke up with me by telling me they're with someone else, my work situation is looking bleak but is manageable.
Okay now for the long form content, a wall of text, so strap in, get that starwars into music playing, and start scrolling.
Starting off with housing; my mother and step father, hence forth referred to as "parents", have kicked me out of the flat I was renting in what turned out to be a futile move to profit of the property I was in. They dropped the news of my eviction to me on my birthday, which was nice of them... But it wasnt untill June that I actually was moved out. Since then I've had to crash with a couple of friends who almost imidiately offered their support when they heard what was going on, and since i've moved from theirs they have now had someone else in need move in. I am truly fortunate to be surrounded by such good people.
Currently I've been forced back to live with my parents, they manipulated my situation in such a way as other options would have been impossible to take, plus I was already limited by still holding a work contract that keeps me tied to a given location. My parents are once again trying to force me out and threatening me with excessive rent charges, there is sure to be further updates on this as I'm still here as of this post.
This part I will try to keep short. In the middle of the housing situation my partner of 4 years who had been ghosting me for what has felt like an eternity actually responded to one of my messages and an actual conversation occured. Now i'm a very loyal person, held out on them coming back eventually and was fully prepared to pick things up and rebuild from what had happened. That appeared to be how they presented their intentions. After arranging to meet and me taking time off to go see them to work on things, they then drop on me only a few days before I'm due to set off that they had in fact spent the time ghosting me with someone else and were now committed to them.
This was obviously a big blow to me emotionally and rather poorly timed given everything else going on with me at the current time, but I cant change the bad actions people take against me. What it does mean is I've had to cancel the proposal plans that I had been working on since '21 and the moving plans that I had prepped should my partner have wanted to move in with me at the time. The custom ring designs are gonna be up-cycled into something new, and the materials put towards that as a future endeavor. Any money saved will likely go elsewhere.
And last but not least, work. This one will be short and sweet, the company I work for is playing a game of "fuck around and find out" and are currently in the finding out stage of what union lawyers are like. There's also been a string of poor managament decissions made recently that are having a knock on effect to the sites. And to top it all off, my supervisor, the only person who makes my work somewhat tolerable is leaving in a week from this post.
So with all the depressing shit outta the way, time to look towards the future, so whats the plan? Ya cant keep a good Daz down.
With housing I plan to get somewhere cheap, save and plan a bigger move down the line. I just need to find somewhere or negotiate more with my parents. I need somewhere that I can stream from with decent internet, that's my only thought atm.
All the money set aside for relationship plans will probs go to my hobbies, and some savings. Not much else too that.
Work wise I'm just gonna wait out my contract then find somewhere else.
Long term plans are still be thought on, but now that I dont have anyone anckoring me down here I can put my plans to move to the 'States back on the table. It's something I had planned and saced for befoer 2020 but we all know what happened that year. I am also currently working hard on streaming and art, along with building a little side business with merchy stuff. Been thinking about tentatively opening for commissions for friends but i'm waiting before doing anything with that. And with all that, I can also be found on that bluesky thing, I don't really do the social media stuff but it was worth getting an account I think, so feel free to follow there.
Follow my streams at: https://picarto.tv/DazzleSweetTooth I stream usually 4 times a week tho it varies.
And find me now at https://bsky.app/profile/dazzleswee.....th.bsky.social havent posted anything yet but do plan too
And as for your job, well, I hope nothing they're doing is gonna bite you, at least. Here's hoping things won't get too bad before your contract ends, and you can find a much, much better place to work. And if you do decide to move to the 'States, best of luck with that! I've never moved internationally, so I can only imagine how much more interesting that must make the process, so if/when, fingers crossed for ya!
And fingers crossed in general, too. I'd say it's long past time for things to start going your way again!