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Dominant-On-Dominant guys in stories or E-RP?
2 years ago
Been getting back into story-based Role-play and erotic role-play and have realized...
Well, other than it is almost impossible to find semi-literate people who can role-play in a third-person perspective and can do semi-to-full-paragraph RP or ERP. At the very least 3–4+ sentences per post.
There are not a lot of people who realize "Dom on Dom" sex and relationships are totally normal and regular.
Even on f-list, there is no Dom/Dom kink to choose from.
There seems to be this idea that dominant means "ONLY TOP" sexually.
When one can be dominant AND top or bottom or versatile.
Just because someone is on the bottom or "receiving" does NOT mean they are automatically a "submissive".
Or the idea that all Doms are mean, psychopathic, sex monsters that just want to violently dump their load and move on.
What used to be "cuddling after sex" is now "aftercare," and it is turning into a bigger and bigger fetish because so many people have this idea that dominant men are pump-and-dumper tops that just "fuck and leave".
There is no need to shove someone's face forcefully into a wall and call them a "cum slutty bottom bitch whore dumpster" while fucking them so roughly their ass bleeds. To me, that is more of an "S&M" thing than a "Domination and Submission" thing.
Good grief... It is entirely possible to be a "Gentle Dominant"... Just like tantric sex and such. Or be a Dom into other Doms.
Soft touches, sexual teasing, seduction, passionate cuddling, racing heart rates... Both guys are getting the other guy so worked up that they are practically melting in each other's arms for sweet sexual release, while both parties love every moment of it.
I'll do an RP ad on Discord groups or such, mentioning that I'm into "Gentle Domination" or "Romantic Domination" and people act like that's not possible.
If you know any good discord groups for gay story-based adult furry role-play, let me know.
Or if you have seen my F-List https://www.f-list.net/c/axle%20furret/ and like what you see. Feel free to comment here or contact me. ^_^
Well, other than it is almost impossible to find semi-literate people who can role-play in a third-person perspective and can do semi-to-full-paragraph RP or ERP. At the very least 3–4+ sentences per post.
There are not a lot of people who realize "Dom on Dom" sex and relationships are totally normal and regular.
Even on f-list, there is no Dom/Dom kink to choose from.
There seems to be this idea that dominant means "ONLY TOP" sexually.
When one can be dominant AND top or bottom or versatile.
Just because someone is on the bottom or "receiving" does NOT mean they are automatically a "submissive".
Or the idea that all Doms are mean, psychopathic, sex monsters that just want to violently dump their load and move on.
What used to be "cuddling after sex" is now "aftercare," and it is turning into a bigger and bigger fetish because so many people have this idea that dominant men are pump-and-dumper tops that just "fuck and leave".
There is no need to shove someone's face forcefully into a wall and call them a "cum slutty bottom bitch whore dumpster" while fucking them so roughly their ass bleeds. To me, that is more of an "S&M" thing than a "Domination and Submission" thing.
Good grief... It is entirely possible to be a "Gentle Dominant"... Just like tantric sex and such. Or be a Dom into other Doms.
Soft touches, sexual teasing, seduction, passionate cuddling, racing heart rates... Both guys are getting the other guy so worked up that they are practically melting in each other's arms for sweet sexual release, while both parties love every moment of it.
I'll do an RP ad on Discord groups or such, mentioning that I'm into "Gentle Domination" or "Romantic Domination" and people act like that's not possible.
If you know any good discord groups for gay story-based adult furry role-play, let me know.
Or if you have seen my F-List https://www.f-list.net/c/axle%20furret/ and like what you see. Feel free to comment here or contact me. ^_^
I love seeing traditionally dominant characters taking it up the ass. Either from their typically-submissive partners, or other dominants, just because they're in the mood for it! :) It's definitely one of my faves. Agreed with you on all counts!
In secret, I have tried to get back into RP under some new Aliases to give it another shot because...I miss it. I miss having Fun RPs (Yes of course they were 98% Sexually charged) But I tried to see if I could find some people like I used to get.....BEFORE everything became SUPER-Kinky and Always about Master Dom Bitch-Breakers and Complete Robo-Sex-Dolll-Submissives.
I always loved abit of Buildup and story-telling for a scene.
ALWAYS had fun with Gentle Domination and REALLY getting into the Romantic Details of....as you said:: Soft touches, sexual teasing, seduction, passionate cuddling, racing heart rates... Both guys (And/or Girls) are getting the other guy so worked up that they are practically melting in each other's arms for sweet sexual release, while both parties love every moment of it.
Making Fun and Romantic to a degree........But nah, just Shove my face to the floor, pound the Prostate, cum at the same time, put a collar on me blahblahblah...
It became Fucking Boring. Everyone wants the same thing with No variation.
Every Dom is a Bitch Breaking Mega Chad. Every Submissive just sits there and says "moan give more more feels so good and puts in Zero Effort.
I could just write a whole novel about what I used to LOVE about Rp (yes the sex based ones...) and what it has become ad my experience with it now.
Sad Panda
I've checked out some of the most populous Discord furry servers with ERP sections and it is all a bunch of one-liners... Basically:
Fox: "OwO Dom me big giant cock dommy daddy!"
One-line dom: "I fuck your ass!"
Fox: I cum so hard from you fucking my femboi fox butt! OwO"
One-line dom: Yeah you whore ass bitch fuck subby slut you love my cock!" I cum in your butt!
Fox: I shiver and moan.
And then they are done. And that is TYPICAL! I'm not even joking!
I've had people ask me what "Third person Perspective" means or what "Semi-to-full-paragraph Roleplay" means.
I still LOVE... Absolutely LOVE doing story-based RP with the "possibility" of it getting sexy. Axle is a horn-ball wearing a bulging thong as part of his character, but that doesn't mean every guy that wiggles his butt in Axle's direction is gonna get anything from him, let alone the time of day in a lot of cases unless they pique his interest through dialog or action.
The whole point of a CHARACTER is the freaking personality beyond how big their dick is or how gaping their ass is. And just like in real life, maybe the first "meeting" or two won't lead to anything... But then when it does, it is going to be hot and heavy, and so much more fun than just some "quickie" jerk-off material.
And the whole "Violent Dom" thing is so freaking sad. I'm a dom IRL and know plenty of other doms including ones into the more hardcore kink shit, and even if they are rough, it is always a trust thing. They aren't just beating guys up to prove their dominance like people seem to think in a lot of inexperienced role-play.
My favorite is the inexperienced so-called "doms" that think a sleek 6-foot-tall dragon-ferret can't be a Dom and wants him to "prove it", so Axle just walks the fuck away and then they start getting upset out-of-character. Who's the real dom in that case? The one trying to unsuccessfully "make" someone else do something, or the one that isn't going to "play that game" because he knows what he wants and isn't desperate?
So then I started doing it...and met quite alot of Detailed Semi-para Posters.
But then thats where my issue comes in, that whenever I get these One-Line Short Sentence People...it makes me think and feel like they are potentially Young...so not only is it annoying and lazy....the other person is potentially not-of-age and it makes me uncomfortable.
Honest to god I dont really mind to much if there is no buildup, but I just Love and Prefer some and story, even a super short one just to set up the scene / setting. And It can be Strait to the point. All good.
But then they have no idea how to RP the situation itself. BE the character about to Rail/Get Railed. And it drives me up the Wall.
I think IRL Im a Sub. But online Im a Dom. Maybe its a perspective of I know what I would like in my partner and I act that out (Kind of weird now that I think about it...ugh)
But then when I get into RP....for whatever reason I notice....they suddenly have no drive, and they talk circles and wait for YOU to make the moves. Im suppose to be the Sub, but for some reason, I have to initiate everything...and then it takes a turn that I become the Dom and they switch into Sub Mode.
Pisses me off.
They often are very inexperienced... So you got a good point there for sure!
That's why I've stopped "teaching"... I'm tired of being so many people's "first time"... I mean these are people that are often "supposedly" in their early 20s and I was teaching them how to describe sounds and smells or random NPCs in the background, emotional ear and tail movements and so on, but it was almost always a struggle to get them beyond 3 lines/sentences and that doesn't even begin to touch the lack of actual character personalities.
*super hawt OwO pink furry femboy subby bottom fox in thigh highs #892353: Has Messaged you: "OwO ur hawt i wnt that hawt cock UwU nom nom tee hee!"
That's one of the reasons I stopped 5+ years ago and started basically making roleplays with myself as stories.
Hell, I got likely a good 30 stories worth of content that just needs editing, some thumbnails, and titles to post up here. But I miss getting to roleplay with another person and the unexpected results that can create that made it so fun! Even made friends with some furs that could separate RP from the real world and just wanted the fun and quite often sexy stories to enjoy and be creative with for a chance to escape the bullshit of everyday life. I'd even get people thanking me for non-sexual role plays that were something simple like a day at the park or or going on some adventure.
Oh gods, every time there is some inexperienced subby bottom I'll just leave if all they can do is *bend over and moan*. I won't even do "quick fuck" or "straight to sex" stuff any more and I let them know ahead of time and it seems to weed out the worst of them.
Under 18 is not
At least not for the Majority of us in the US.
And alot of these inexperienced RPers give strong Under 18 Vibes @_@
Im a pretty big amateur, but I enjoy writing and do most of it when I add "stories" to my submissions. Since you can get it with/from other people...might as well do it yourself! (Masturbation at its Finest XD)
Most people I do manage to get through an RP with become Clingy and talk like we are Mates or know eachother IRL.
Or get in the trenches and start calling me Master or Mistress (depending on the RPC I used at the time) and its like GDI....and I do develop rude, but understandable detachments and start ignoring.
Sometimes I do engage with them and we get into another RP....but they want the EXACT same thing and with me doing all the work....
-Sigh- ""I have to go""
Ive used it so much that I can now recognize that when its used on me, they got Bored and are looking for an excuse to get out of it.
Im sure in my case, its because Im either not the Super Dom Wet Dream they see in my Pictures. Or I take to long to get to the
S-E-X...when they arnt doing jack shit to move things along to pants coming down.
Its always up to me to Drive the RP, they just want me to provide Finger-Bait material for them
Goodbye.
Feels like everything is OOC and just them IRL projected into a Pretty Picture looking for hook-Ups where they dont need to do anything and just wanna be little FuckToys to get used.
I have to have a "warning" all in caps-lock saying things like [[NOT LOOKING FOR REAL LIFE OUT-OF-CHARACTER ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS]] or warning people that Axle may not actually like their character and not want to get sexually involved if they have the personality of a bag of wet boots.
...Doms can be Dominated and its just as hot to see a Big Dom take it be Another Dom.
Little Dom Vs Large Dom
People have confused "top and bottom" with "submissive and dominant", thinking ALL tops are dominant, and ALL bottoms are submissive.... Let alone Switch and Versatile.
And someone can be dominated without degradation or violence. Hell, even acting like a sub at first, but then teasing and sensually dominating the so-called bigger dom to the point they are a quivering, whimpering mess, and begging to cum.
Or a dom that can let their guard down and put posturing aside for the right guy because of trust. Some big muscly guy that's known for being rough and taking what he wants because of societal or social pressure, turning into a moaning, cuddly bastard when shown proper kindness and affection for once behind closed doors out of the public eye. That's some of the hottest shit I've ever role played.
People forget having an emotional aspect added to sex can make it all the more fun.
Great, now I'm horny again.
MY, FUCKING, MAN!
*High-Five*
Matter of Fact...thats similar to how my Lion -Soun- is.
Big Mean Short-tempered Stoic Lion Biker Demon....but can become just the Biggest Cuddle-Bug in the Sack.
Fuck man, stop, your getting me all warmed up
Modern, fantasy, post apocalyptic, steampunk, camping trip, an adventure through a strange land, a deserted island survival thing... Shit... I'm open to pretty much anything that doesn't start with a bar or gay club. *laughs*
Im a bit burnt out atm from my previous mentioned attempts.
But yeah I understand, it's why I went to story writing again.
Anyway, the offer's still open.
Calling it "aftercare" is downright painful.
What is quickly becoming the most vile of subversive kinks; spending time with someone you actually care for.
Has gay and furry culture changed that much in the last 10 years? That sex has become so casual it might as well just be masturbation to relieve the pressure and move on?
My Guy, thats all its been the past Decade. Its just gotten worse to the point we notice now
But you know, that's a totally nutty conspiracy theory, so it's to be ridiculed until it gets confirmed in its entirety in a couple years.
Most of my guys are more dominant types that can take it as well (I am a true switch so I like domming and subbing), but yeah, the evil vicious dom thing is something I see a lot of (though that is something I saw 10 years ago too). Same with the one-note rollover subs, though I don't like them at all and tend to cut things off if I find they are that type, my demands for detail tend to put them off.
I think if you can curate a group of people that share your RP style and interests though, you should be good.
I'd LOVE to have a detailed RP group, but the problem is that all the people I used to role-play with 5+ years ago have all vanished or given up on it, and it is insanely hard to find new people now.
Hell, then there is the complete opposite side of things where I run into the "Elitist RP Snob" types that want 3 paragraphs per post and use words like "auditory organs" for "ears" or "Occulars" for "eyes", and get pissed out-of-character if I forget a comma or misspell something because they don't make keyboards for people with huge hands *chuckles*. Though, there are a lot fewer of these types than there were back before "SecondLife".
All this reminds me a bit of my badger here, he’d. ever admit it since he likes to play off as macho, but when it comes to sex, he actually likes being the one on the receiving end, though he’d never admit it.
It's almost always some "bitch breaker" rough shit bordering on abuse and r@pe, or just sex for sex's sake. And while that may have its place, the thing most often missing is any sort of emotional aspect to things.
I’m not into the rough shit outside where it’s appropriate https://www.furaffinity.net/view/47598318/ (ie in the ring) though when it comes to even such thing adultwise https://www.furaffinity.net/view/54985389/ it’d be something like this.
Even my more dominant characters who prefer to top aren’t into roughing their partners up.