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If you expect RP don't add me.
a year ago
As the title says.
Lately I've been put off with rp because people can't differentiate lines. Some people assume that when you rp with someone, boom. Automatic boyfriend/girlfriend/partners.
I used to use RP/ERP as a tool for my art. Recent events have made it rather sour and so I stopped. Yet people tell me thier frustrations on that matter.
Others fucked around with me, and now it's ruined for everyone.
Do I still rp? Yes. With VERY select few CLOSE friends. To put in perspective. My rp partners are enough that I count on a SINGLE HAND.
I will not rp with randos. I will not be your virtual boyfriend/fucktoy. Get to know me, and MAYBE you'll have a chance. But don't count on it.
If none of this applies to you, and you just want to add me to be friends, you know how to find me. Just note. I'm busy. I work 12 hour days, and draw for 6 hours a day. I'm off weekends.
That cool with you? Sweet. Let's link up.
Lately I've been put off with rp because people can't differentiate lines. Some people assume that when you rp with someone, boom. Automatic boyfriend/girlfriend/partners.
I used to use RP/ERP as a tool for my art. Recent events have made it rather sour and so I stopped. Yet people tell me thier frustrations on that matter.
Others fucked around with me, and now it's ruined for everyone.
Do I still rp? Yes. With VERY select few CLOSE friends. To put in perspective. My rp partners are enough that I count on a SINGLE HAND.
I will not rp with randos. I will not be your virtual boyfriend/fucktoy. Get to know me, and MAYBE you'll have a chance. But don't count on it.
If none of this applies to you, and you just want to add me to be friends, you know how to find me. Just note. I'm busy. I work 12 hour days, and draw for 6 hours a day. I'm off weekends.
That cool with you? Sweet. Let's link up.
Always sorta feared I had upset ya..
work happenz
But ultimately some people will still disrespect the boundaries, they had a different understanding of the arrangement all together, or they simply fail at maintaining the boundaries. So even making ground rules from the get go won't guarantee it will work, but it may make ending things more easier because there is at least proof of boundary that has been broken and can be referred to.
Here is an observation: I've met a lot of people who decide to have a fuck-buddy, where despite the sex just being a method of relief/foolery, it is still very intimate and thus they end up getting feelings for their partner anyways. Some learn that they just cannot do this kind of thing, because they just get too close. Others try to explore if there is a chance of a relationship there and it has been a mixed bag.
Honestly it is super easy to fall into this trap when forms of intemacy is involved, it is how we bond as humans. Especially the more IRL stuff is included in the RP'ing, it can easily be made to feel intimate and real. So like if the characters involved is not just a removed character, but a representation of the people involved. That said, this does not excuse their actions of thinking it may be real, it is just to explain why this situation happens so easily.