This is why i stopped going to furry cons. each year they get 5% more Sexsuel.. and at this stage Furry cons is more about Sex than having fun with Friends.
More ppl iknow has turned into murrsuiters.. More friends i have only go to the cons for Sex only.. imean really?? You pay so much monye for the travel and the stay at the hotel just to Yiff with other furries? thats what i call a big waste of Monye just for some action.
and I KNOW the felling how ppl and friends have to brag about how much sex they have.
Litteraly had a friend a few months ago who like bragging me about how much sex he hade.. thats was litteraly the only thing he did on the whole con.. just Yiffing with ppl.. he even told some other furs offered him drugs at a Murrsuit party.. and stupid enought he agree to take it.
Yup he regrets he took it because he was Hell-a sick the next day at the con.

The generation of Relationships today is a big mess as well.
Must Ppl are only interrested in you if you have a huge big dick and mustely only are a top because over 70% of Gay ppl are only pure bottoms. Like if i use the Grindr App and see 40 ppl near me.. about 30 of them is only bottom.. maybe 5 of them are mustely bottoms.. and the rest is either swithers or mustely Tops.
Ppl also asked me "Why dont you date some furries instead then?"
Easy Asnwere.. ALOT.. and imean ALOT Of Furries preffer to have an open relationship because they want to fuck with everything and everyone or trade partners with others! The whole Fandom is nearly turned into an Orgy of inbreeding like every murrsuiter and furry have been yiffing with eachtogther.
And alot of Furries also cant hold a relationship together either if they choose to hold it closed.. because either one of them chatting with multiply other furries sexsuel.. or the other one go behind the back and yiff with someone else in secret (Trust me i have been cheated on 3-4 times with all thoes relationships i have been in with Furries)

Everytime an Intervirew asking Furries about sex in the fandom they say "The Fandom is not only about sex"
Then... PLEASE ACT LIKE YOU MEAN IT THEN!!

I've never worried about trying to get laid like this, or ever put much thought into it, so I can't relate to much of it. But part I can relate to is how difficult it is getting noticed or finding people to talk to or hang out with. Conventions should be about having fun and finding things you want to do. I don't know if it'd be healthy to go into it worrying about a one-night stand or quick fling like that. Best bet could be trying to see what friends might be interested, build up relationships with them, nothing says you can't date someone you're friends with.

Personally I find it a little odd going to a con expecting to have sex, especially if you haven't set something up with someone beforehand. I can tell you're frustrated but maybe don't worry about it so much? It'll come when you least expect it. Also please for the love of everything be careful if you're just going to fuck anyone.