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If you're one of those people who... :
a year ago
I forgor
Talks about wanting to do things and then makes plans for it, names the days and the things you want to do, and then:
•ghosts
•don't take the initiative if you put it together
•don't show
•never follow up
•don't even have the decency to back out or say "I changed my mind" or explain why
and then act like nothing happened? Fuck you. You're responsible for what others think of you, and acting like that is a great way to tell people you don't value their time, and that we shouldn't bother trying to engage.
It's not unreasonable to be decent and communicate. If something happens, you changed your mind, or want to rearrange something, please tell the other person. Even moreso if you're friends. Even moreso if it's a real life event where someone has to bust their ass organising. Don't lead people on.
•ghosts
•don't take the initiative if you put it together
•don't show
•never follow up
•don't even have the decency to back out or say "I changed my mind" or explain why
and then act like nothing happened? Fuck you. You're responsible for what others think of you, and acting like that is a great way to tell people you don't value their time, and that we shouldn't bother trying to engage.
It's not unreasonable to be decent and communicate. If something happens, you changed your mind, or want to rearrange something, please tell the other person. Even moreso if you're friends. Even moreso if it's a real life event where someone has to bust their ass organising. Don't lead people on.
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