RIP - Fabian Melendez AKA "Shifterfur" 7/22/90 - 6/16/24
a year ago
General
I am very sorry to have to be the one to break this news to our mutual friends and family. But I was informed late last night that my soulmate and partner of five years, Fabian Fidel Melendez (aka "Shifterfur") has passed away.
I am still in shock over this myself. However, rather than keeping everyone in the dark I figure it is best to let as many people as possible know so as not to cause undue worry and sorrow later on.
Those who knew Shifter well also knew that he had struggled with obesity and other related health problems his entire life. These problems, coupled with severe depression over the loss of both of his parents, unfortunately led to his condition worsening over time.
On June 11th 2024 Shifter admitted himself to the ER due to intense pain in one of his legs. Due to the chaos I was not able to contact him during this time as he did not have his phone on him and the hospital he was admitted to did not have my contact information. I received a call from said hospital late last night, informing me that Shifter had gone into cardiac arrest earlier that afternoon and that they had not been able to resuscitate him. As of now the exact cause of death is unconfirmed, but the doctors suspect that a blood clot from an earlier infection may have made its way into his lungs.
As for myself, I am currently sad and hurting, but am doing as well as I can considering the circumstances. Those of you who have my contact info, feel free to reach out if you want to.
I am still in shock over this myself. However, rather than keeping everyone in the dark I figure it is best to let as many people as possible know so as not to cause undue worry and sorrow later on.
Those who knew Shifter well also knew that he had struggled with obesity and other related health problems his entire life. These problems, coupled with severe depression over the loss of both of his parents, unfortunately led to his condition worsening over time.
On June 11th 2024 Shifter admitted himself to the ER due to intense pain in one of his legs. Due to the chaos I was not able to contact him during this time as he did not have his phone on him and the hospital he was admitted to did not have my contact information. I received a call from said hospital late last night, informing me that Shifter had gone into cardiac arrest earlier that afternoon and that they had not been able to resuscitate him. As of now the exact cause of death is unconfirmed, but the doctors suspect that a blood clot from an earlier infection may have made its way into his lungs.
As for myself, I am currently sad and hurting, but am doing as well as I can considering the circumstances. Those of you who have my contact info, feel free to reach out if you want to.
~RedDragon
~dragonartw
Sorry for your loss :C
I'm truly sorry to hear this, we met at Anthrocon years ago, and I'll keep that memory close.
Sabletooth
~yeno
My condolences, if you wanna talk, you know I've got an open ear for ya.
My condolences... I'm so sorry... 😞
Devin Otter
~devinotter
Oh god...I hadn't spoken to him in a while and wondered if he was alright...I'm so sorry. My deepest condolences.
BlackBlueDawg
~blackbluedawg
I'm really sorry for your loss. I do remember meeting him, and I can't believe he's gone. My condolences. :( *hugs*
Chamelion
~chamelion
I just now saw this news, I'm.... just completely numb right now.
Craz
~craz
I'm sad to hear that, I remember he was a sweet heart. I'm sorry for your loss.
JonTheCaptor
~jonthecaptive
Deepest condolences. He's never truly gone from this world though, as long as you're here to keep his memory alive.
Entario
~entario
I hit him up last night on Telegram to ask how he was doing. That's how I got clued in on something being wrong. Then I found the obituary.. This is such a surreal feeling.. :(
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