Are You Serious? This Again?
a year ago
General
Here is an announcement to anyone sitting there wondering why I don't talk to them...
With all due love and respect to those who I actually care about... Fuck You!
Like seriously, Fuck you. You know where to find me. You know how to talk to me. We all got 100 things to do in our lives and work and all that... so I understand people get busy, but if you haven't talked to me in a while... that's you're own damn fault.
My discord is public. It is my personal discord... I don't have a work or other discord. I've said this before, you all know this. I am in the voice chat of one or two of my discord channels ALL THE FUCKING TIME! I invite people to play games, hang out, talk, shoot the shit, maybe 3 or 4 times a week. I play helldivers, discuss many things, and just generally hang out. We play cards against humanity, jackbox, all kinds of shit...
Bro if you not there you not there cause you got better shit to do, not because I haven't offered you a red carpet to hang.
I have spent damn near 39 years reaching out for people to interact with me. I got a kid, I run a business, and I volunteer; I no longer have time to chase friendships and people who don't think I am worth coming to. Or reaching out to.
So, I do apologize if this message offends you, but sorry, not sorry! I been here the whole fucking time. I'm easy to fucking find. I'm around every day.
This goes for inquiries about your commissions. This goes for hanging out. This goes for everything... if it's important, you will send me a damn message here, on discord, on twitter, on telegram!
My main page has 11 ways to get in contact with me and all are up to date and all fucking work... so... if you ain't been talking to me, YOU AIN'T BEEN TRYING TO TALK TO ME! Ain't nobody believe that you been looking for me and I ain't got back to you, I ain't responded, or I ain't welcomed you to interact. Y'all can miss me with that shit.
I hate to be so forceful with this message, but I'm tired of this. Bro... I can scroll through your goddamn message and find that I've opened the conversation more often than not, don't fucking say to me, oh, it's been a while, I thought you weren't talking to me no more. NO MOTHERFUCKER! I am no longer willing to chase anyone just to have some kind of a relationship.
Most people feel like they can go months without talking to someone and everything is fine. Fine... that's how you do. I get it, cause just because I stopped reaching out doesn't mean I'm not cool with you. I just let you determined our relationship and it's friendly when we do speak. You want it to be something else. That's gonna be difficult at this point, but in the end you gonna have to put in the effort. Years of being the only one doing that in so many situations make me like fuck that... the people who feel I'm worth enough time to actually put in the effort, that's where my effort goes.
This has been an unsurprising and frankly should have been unnecessary journal. But here we are.
With all due love and respect to those who I actually care about... Fuck You!
Like seriously, Fuck you. You know where to find me. You know how to talk to me. We all got 100 things to do in our lives and work and all that... so I understand people get busy, but if you haven't talked to me in a while... that's you're own damn fault.
My discord is public. It is my personal discord... I don't have a work or other discord. I've said this before, you all know this. I am in the voice chat of one or two of my discord channels ALL THE FUCKING TIME! I invite people to play games, hang out, talk, shoot the shit, maybe 3 or 4 times a week. I play helldivers, discuss many things, and just generally hang out. We play cards against humanity, jackbox, all kinds of shit...
Bro if you not there you not there cause you got better shit to do, not because I haven't offered you a red carpet to hang.
I have spent damn near 39 years reaching out for people to interact with me. I got a kid, I run a business, and I volunteer; I no longer have time to chase friendships and people who don't think I am worth coming to. Or reaching out to.
So, I do apologize if this message offends you, but sorry, not sorry! I been here the whole fucking time. I'm easy to fucking find. I'm around every day.
This goes for inquiries about your commissions. This goes for hanging out. This goes for everything... if it's important, you will send me a damn message here, on discord, on twitter, on telegram!
My main page has 11 ways to get in contact with me and all are up to date and all fucking work... so... if you ain't been talking to me, YOU AIN'T BEEN TRYING TO TALK TO ME! Ain't nobody believe that you been looking for me and I ain't got back to you, I ain't responded, or I ain't welcomed you to interact. Y'all can miss me with that shit.
I hate to be so forceful with this message, but I'm tired of this. Bro... I can scroll through your goddamn message and find that I've opened the conversation more often than not, don't fucking say to me, oh, it's been a while, I thought you weren't talking to me no more. NO MOTHERFUCKER! I am no longer willing to chase anyone just to have some kind of a relationship.
Most people feel like they can go months without talking to someone and everything is fine. Fine... that's how you do. I get it, cause just because I stopped reaching out doesn't mean I'm not cool with you. I just let you determined our relationship and it's friendly when we do speak. You want it to be something else. That's gonna be difficult at this point, but in the end you gonna have to put in the effort. Years of being the only one doing that in so many situations make me like fuck that... the people who feel I'm worth enough time to actually put in the effort, that's where my effort goes.
This has been an unsurprising and frankly should have been unnecessary journal. But here we are.
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