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Meet Ziggy
a year ago
NOTE: This journal entry may update frequently to include new information, links etc!
Trigger warning for discussions about CPTSD, sexual abuse, etc - I discuss my experiences
and how they relate to my kink lifestyle below. Please avoid everything after the dotted line
if you do not wish to read about this.
Hi! I'm Ziggy - you can also call me Zigs!
I go by they/them, it/its and he/him pronouns.
I'm a 30 year old babyfur living in Pennsylvania with my nesting partner and our beloved pets.
I'm new to the community, so I'm still learning the ropes, but I've known a bit about babyfurs for
years and have had a few babyfur friends since I joined the fandom back in the 2010s.
My fursona is a Kougra neopet, who is a hybrid of the Toy and Plushie paintbrushes. They're also
a shapeshifter, so they can turn into any neopet or animal, but they retain their colors and basic
design elements no matter what they turn into. If they change to a neopet painted a color other
than toy or plushie, they still keep their color scheme, but the design is altered. This gives artists
a lot of options and creative freedom, and I think it's lots of fun!
I may also depict or identify myself as other creatures or characters, even occasionally as The Doctor
from Doctor Who; there's a lot of backstory for this that I won't get into unless someone sincerely wants
to know, but it can best be summarized as "weird identity funk." Don't think too hard about it. :P
I am polyamorous, and in a relationship with two people, one of whom is long-distance. My partners
aren't interested in diapers or babyfur activities, but they are fully supportive, and I'm blessed to have
such loving, patient and understanding people in my life. I am also a plural system and several members
of the system are involved in relationships with one another. (I am not seeking additional partners, please
refrain from hitting on me. Polyamory is does not mean available - thank you for respecting this!)
Links
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/.....?ref_=wl_share
SoFurry: https://littlecryptid.sofurry.com/
Likes
-Bluey
-My Little Pony
-Disney movies
-Coloring books, crayons, arts and crafts
-Animal Jam, Webkinz and other little games
(Ask me for my username!)
-Being called a good boy
-Pastels and vibrant, bright colors
-Soft and gentle things!
(like plushies, blankets, hugs, etc)
-Halloween
(I love literally everything to do with it)
Personal Dislikes / Yuckies
-Messy diapers (unless the waste is non-organic,
like plush stuffing - but if other people post it I can
ignore it easily and just fave what I like!)
-Loud noises
-Intense thunderstorms
-Chores and adulting
(I do it well, but I haaaate it)
-Mean people, bigots, etc
(I am a VERY far-left fur, you've been warned)
Other Notes
-I don't roleplay, sorry!
-I don't currently take art commissions
-I'm extremely shy, aloof, and have trouble with one-on-one conversation.
I much prefer to talk in group settings, like discord servers or forums, but
I like to think I'm nice when you can get in touch!
-I'm not interested in flirting/dating/etc. Please respect my boundaries!
I am both an ABDL fur and and age regressor - both of these topics have helped tremendously
with navigating and healing from C-PTSD. Through these interests, I'm able to be gentle and care
for myself in ways I never could before. That said, I am very anxious and shy about all of this, and
grapple a lot with shame and embarrassment.
TW BEGINS NOW
I experienced a lot of trauma in my youth that has manifested in so many ways, and I have had a lot
of difficult side effects from it, such as incontinence and bed-wetting into adulthood, which did not
stop until I left my home state and got away from my parents for good. I still have bladder control
issues that give me trouble (often at night, worsened by nightmares), but it's much better than it was.
Since I've improved, I don't need to wear diapers IRL but I occasional wear adult pull-ups for both
my own comfort/headspace reasons, and as a safeguard because of my intermittent incontinence issues.
On an age regression front, I enjoy the carefree whimsy, the comforting, safe vibes, and being able to let
go of my adult responsibilities and worries for a while. It's soothing and has given me a way to relax and
indulge in things that bring me joy, like cartoons, coloring books, toys (which I collect anyway), and other
small things.
On the kink side, the comfort and security of AB/DL is in play, but I also enjoy the mild humiliation and
humbling of being dismissed as being too small/immature to do certain things or make certain choices.
This takes a lot of pressure off of me, which helps a lot as someone who has endured sexual abuse both
as a child and in adulthood. It also gives me the opportunity to explore sexuality in settings where I have
a say in what is happening to me, unlike when I was abused and had no control at all. I am able to correct
the bad experience, and change my associations with sex and sexuality from abuse or lack of consent, to
one of comfort, love, security, gentleness and respect. (A bit ironic, isn't it?)
If you have questions, ask away! I'd rather take the time to answer your questions than have people
get the wrong impression of who I am, what I'm about, or why I'm an ABDL fur.
However, if you're here to throw a fit about the ABDL thing, I would prefer that you just leave me alone.
If you've already made up your mind that I'm some nefarious freak of nature for being an ABDL fur, I'm
not going to waste my time and energy on speaking with you or justifying my entire existence or life story.
Simply put, There is no amount of explaining that the "A" in "ABDL" stands for "Adult" - or that this kink is the
result of processing trauma and the adult incontinence it caused - that will make you not hate me.
Trigger warning for discussions about CPTSD, sexual abuse, etc - I discuss my experiences
and how they relate to my kink lifestyle below. Please avoid everything after the dotted line
if you do not wish to read about this.
Hi! I'm Ziggy - you can also call me Zigs!
I go by they/them, it/its and he/him pronouns.
I'm a 30 year old babyfur living in Pennsylvania with my nesting partner and our beloved pets.
I'm new to the community, so I'm still learning the ropes, but I've known a bit about babyfurs for
years and have had a few babyfur friends since I joined the fandom back in the 2010s.
My fursona is a Kougra neopet, who is a hybrid of the Toy and Plushie paintbrushes. They're also
a shapeshifter, so they can turn into any neopet or animal, but they retain their colors and basic
design elements no matter what they turn into. If they change to a neopet painted a color other
than toy or plushie, they still keep their color scheme, but the design is altered. This gives artists
a lot of options and creative freedom, and I think it's lots of fun!
I may also depict or identify myself as other creatures or characters, even occasionally as The Doctor
from Doctor Who; there's a lot of backstory for this that I won't get into unless someone sincerely wants
to know, but it can best be summarized as "weird identity funk." Don't think too hard about it. :P
I am polyamorous, and in a relationship with two people, one of whom is long-distance. My partners
aren't interested in diapers or babyfur activities, but they are fully supportive, and I'm blessed to have
such loving, patient and understanding people in my life. I am also a plural system and several members
of the system are involved in relationships with one another. (I am not seeking additional partners, please
refrain from hitting on me. Polyamory is does not mean available - thank you for respecting this!)
Links
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/.....?ref_=wl_share
SoFurry: https://littlecryptid.sofurry.com/
Likes
-Bluey
-My Little Pony
-Disney movies
-Coloring books, crayons, arts and crafts
-Animal Jam, Webkinz and other little games
(Ask me for my username!)
-Being called a good boy
-Pastels and vibrant, bright colors
-Soft and gentle things!
(like plushies, blankets, hugs, etc)
-Halloween
(I love literally everything to do with it)
Personal Dislikes / Yuckies
-Messy diapers (unless the waste is non-organic,
like plush stuffing - but if other people post it I can
ignore it easily and just fave what I like!)
-Loud noises
-Intense thunderstorms
-Chores and adulting
(I do it well, but I haaaate it)
-Mean people, bigots, etc
(I am a VERY far-left fur, you've been warned)
Other Notes
-I don't roleplay, sorry!
-I don't currently take art commissions
-I'm extremely shy, aloof, and have trouble with one-on-one conversation.
I much prefer to talk in group settings, like discord servers or forums, but
I like to think I'm nice when you can get in touch!
-I'm not interested in flirting/dating/etc. Please respect my boundaries!
I am both an ABDL fur and and age regressor - both of these topics have helped tremendously
with navigating and healing from C-PTSD. Through these interests, I'm able to be gentle and care
for myself in ways I never could before. That said, I am very anxious and shy about all of this, and
grapple a lot with shame and embarrassment.
TW BEGINS NOW
I experienced a lot of trauma in my youth that has manifested in so many ways, and I have had a lot
of difficult side effects from it, such as incontinence and bed-wetting into adulthood, which did not
stop until I left my home state and got away from my parents for good. I still have bladder control
issues that give me trouble (often at night, worsened by nightmares), but it's much better than it was.
Since I've improved, I don't need to wear diapers IRL but I occasional wear adult pull-ups for both
my own comfort/headspace reasons, and as a safeguard because of my intermittent incontinence issues.
On an age regression front, I enjoy the carefree whimsy, the comforting, safe vibes, and being able to let
go of my adult responsibilities and worries for a while. It's soothing and has given me a way to relax and
indulge in things that bring me joy, like cartoons, coloring books, toys (which I collect anyway), and other
small things.
On the kink side, the comfort and security of AB/DL is in play, but I also enjoy the mild humiliation and
humbling of being dismissed as being too small/immature to do certain things or make certain choices.
This takes a lot of pressure off of me, which helps a lot as someone who has endured sexual abuse both
as a child and in adulthood. It also gives me the opportunity to explore sexuality in settings where I have
a say in what is happening to me, unlike when I was abused and had no control at all. I am able to correct
the bad experience, and change my associations with sex and sexuality from abuse or lack of consent, to
one of comfort, love, security, gentleness and respect. (A bit ironic, isn't it?)
If you have questions, ask away! I'd rather take the time to answer your questions than have people
get the wrong impression of who I am, what I'm about, or why I'm an ABDL fur.
However, if you're here to throw a fit about the ABDL thing, I would prefer that you just leave me alone.
If you've already made up your mind that I'm some nefarious freak of nature for being an ABDL fur, I'm
not going to waste my time and energy on speaking with you or justifying my entire existence or life story.
Simply put, There is no amount of explaining that the "A" in "ABDL" stands for "Adult" - or that this kink is the
result of processing trauma and the adult incontinence it caused - that will make you not hate me.
