Never thought I'd make a journal just to complain about shit, but I figure some people might be able to gain something from this.

Been seeing an increase in people trying to get money or pictures of myself out of me because I'm a sub. Normally that'd be harrassment but it's fine, I advertise myself as someone you can be as mean/rude as you want to. I got a lot of strangers saying the most fucked up things to me and I'm happy about that.

But these types are different. Saying stuff like "a Dom as good as me deserves money for my services" or "send me a pic otherwise I won't bully you". People that literally just started talking to me, like what? Dude I wanna be tortured, not some half-ass pressure to give up myself to earn the 'privilege' of being turned on.

I'm not judging findom or blackmail kinks, obviously my own kinks are a lot more taboo than that, but I want to make it clear if anyone approaches you with those types of messages just cut em off right away. These people brag about how much money they've gotten trying to get you to join in feeding their ego. If you're into those things, engage with someone who discusses/knows beforehand whether you're both into that. Because this constant insistance from randos I'm getting is showing me there's a lot of people out there who just want money or to get themselves off, but don't actually care about you.