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Snuff community/in general rant
7 months ago
Why? Why am I vilified for liking what I do? Yes, I'm public about it. Yes, I don't hide it. But why am I treated like the scum of the earth the second people find out? Blocking me, disabling their accounts, or straight up just saying it to my face; that I'm such a horrible person for killing others. News flash, I don't kill people. My fictional sona kills fictional characters. Yet, other stuff is just fine. But not me. Us. Any into snuff/necro. Sure, there's misconceptions. Stereotypes. But that's not what I see. What I see is just plain vitriol. Even amongst each other, this community shames each other. So what if you're into gore? Stop saying asphyxia is boring and slow day after day after day. I don't like gore, but do I shame you for liking it? No. You're allowed to like it. So stop shaming me and what I like.
Outside the snuff community, I'm treated like shit for liking what I do. Others hide it so they can appear "normal" but I don't. I don't want to hide it. It shouldn't be so goddamn "taboo" to like something, since by the end of the day, it's just all fantasy. Do you think I'm sick in the head? That I'm some psychopath? That says more about you than me if that's your first thought. I have watched so many good artists, friends, and people I enjoyed spending time with leave because of this shit. Because they're so scared that they're going to be burned at the stake for liking something in fantasy. But if they liked anything *other* than snuff? They'd be fine. Perfectly. No matter how gross. You know what's worse? I've seen CUB CONTENT get better reception than snuff. Like- seriously? I may not like cub, keep it away from me, and I won't shun you, but I hear people say how gross it is, yet...it has a whole site dedicated for it? And no one bats an eye? Where's all the hate I keep hearing about? Where's all the vile words? Exactly. It's a double standard. You stake us but let them pass? If you're going to kinkshame people, you can't just pick and choose. Either you're an asshole or you're not. I don't care what you're into. I care about being treated like a person, fetishes be damned, and in turn, I'll do the same for you.
You see snuff and your first reaction is to think this person is some crazy psycho and needs to be avoided. How about you actually get to know them? Sure, they could be an asshole. But they could also be a good person, and you might end up making a new friend. I've come to hate this community. Not furries in general, just the fetish communities. It's so lopsided, and the sheer amount of bitching; "There's not enough of this!" "This is boring!" "I see this all the time, when are we going to get something good?" and the narcissism, oh GOD the narcissism. The amount of people that feel entitled to have their stuff made, or to have their kinks catered to while pushing down others- it's fucking unbelieveable. If this was what people avoid when they see certain fetishes, I could understand that, but no. That's not what I see. It's just all "This fetish is bad and you're a bad person for liking it"
I'm tired. So, so tired. This is why my found family is so small. Because a lot of people in these communities are genuinely horrible. I want to be seen as a person. Not blocked immediately. Not shunned. Not told to go commit a fucking crime because of something that I enjoy in fiction. All it's doing is breeding an environment for shitty people, and the constant of narcissism and kinkshaming each other. It should be: "I don't like what you do, but that's fine." Not: "I don't like what you do, go kill yourself you fucking psycho." And yet it is. Because people are allowed to be like this. Because people choose to just believe misconceptions, or make wild assumptions. Do you think I, as someone who doesn't like cub, think that those who do are fucking child molesters? No. Because that's stupid. It's retarded. I'm not a murder. I don't break into morgues to fuck a stiff. Yet, some people would happily believe I do, just because I like snuff and necrophilia. It needs to stop.
I know. I rant a lot. It's just that a lot of stuff weighs on my mind, and doing this is better than bottling it up and only getting more and more angry. I want nothing more than to be in peace. To be seen as a person, no matter what I like. Sure, there's misconceptions and people are sometimes complete degenerates. Shouldn't let that make you think that it applies to *everyone* in the same community as them. Because some of us just want to exist, too.
It's like we never changed since the Salem trials. Burning innocent people for our own greed and paranoia.
Rant over. Sorry about the lack of posting. Just have forgotten to upload to FA. And with the fact I make multiple images, it's super tedious and tiring to post them all one after the after. Tags and description especially, even with a notepad and copy/paste. Regardless, I'll get to it. Hopefully. Hope you have good days though, everyone needs them.
Outside the snuff community, I'm treated like shit for liking what I do. Others hide it so they can appear "normal" but I don't. I don't want to hide it. It shouldn't be so goddamn "taboo" to like something, since by the end of the day, it's just all fantasy. Do you think I'm sick in the head? That I'm some psychopath? That says more about you than me if that's your first thought. I have watched so many good artists, friends, and people I enjoyed spending time with leave because of this shit. Because they're so scared that they're going to be burned at the stake for liking something in fantasy. But if they liked anything *other* than snuff? They'd be fine. Perfectly. No matter how gross. You know what's worse? I've seen CUB CONTENT get better reception than snuff. Like- seriously? I may not like cub, keep it away from me, and I won't shun you, but I hear people say how gross it is, yet...it has a whole site dedicated for it? And no one bats an eye? Where's all the hate I keep hearing about? Where's all the vile words? Exactly. It's a double standard. You stake us but let them pass? If you're going to kinkshame people, you can't just pick and choose. Either you're an asshole or you're not. I don't care what you're into. I care about being treated like a person, fetishes be damned, and in turn, I'll do the same for you.
You see snuff and your first reaction is to think this person is some crazy psycho and needs to be avoided. How about you actually get to know them? Sure, they could be an asshole. But they could also be a good person, and you might end up making a new friend. I've come to hate this community. Not furries in general, just the fetish communities. It's so lopsided, and the sheer amount of bitching; "There's not enough of this!" "This is boring!" "I see this all the time, when are we going to get something good?" and the narcissism, oh GOD the narcissism. The amount of people that feel entitled to have their stuff made, or to have their kinks catered to while pushing down others- it's fucking unbelieveable. If this was what people avoid when they see certain fetishes, I could understand that, but no. That's not what I see. It's just all "This fetish is bad and you're a bad person for liking it"
I'm tired. So, so tired. This is why my found family is so small. Because a lot of people in these communities are genuinely horrible. I want to be seen as a person. Not blocked immediately. Not shunned. Not told to go commit a fucking crime because of something that I enjoy in fiction. All it's doing is breeding an environment for shitty people, and the constant of narcissism and kinkshaming each other. It should be: "I don't like what you do, but that's fine." Not: "I don't like what you do, go kill yourself you fucking psycho." And yet it is. Because people are allowed to be like this. Because people choose to just believe misconceptions, or make wild assumptions. Do you think I, as someone who doesn't like cub, think that those who do are fucking child molesters? No. Because that's stupid. It's retarded. I'm not a murder. I don't break into morgues to fuck a stiff. Yet, some people would happily believe I do, just because I like snuff and necrophilia. It needs to stop.
I know. I rant a lot. It's just that a lot of stuff weighs on my mind, and doing this is better than bottling it up and only getting more and more angry. I want nothing more than to be in peace. To be seen as a person, no matter what I like. Sure, there's misconceptions and people are sometimes complete degenerates. Shouldn't let that make you think that it applies to *everyone* in the same community as them. Because some of us just want to exist, too.
It's like we never changed since the Salem trials. Burning innocent people for our own greed and paranoia.
Rant over. Sorry about the lack of posting. Just have forgotten to upload to FA. And with the fact I make multiple images, it's super tedious and tiring to post them all one after the after. Tags and description especially, even with a notepad and copy/paste. Regardless, I'll get to it. Hopefully. Hope you have good days though, everyone needs them.
I don't judge though and try to make a fun variety of art for everyone. I always wish I got to meet and chat with more people but every time I hear stuff like this I worry there's just not many nice people out there even if I did manage to be more social.
And I mean, while as niche as it can be, least it's not so niche you're literally the only one heh. Simple can be nice sometimes. But hey, never stop looking. Don't get worn down like I have. Being nice and social helps, as long as you're careful of course. And as always, you're free to message me anytime, Nixy. I'm always grateful for the time you come to spend with me. That, and the arrows hehehehehe
This (and other reasons, but mainly this) is why I avoid social media. If your lifestyle / fetish / hobby / fantasy / interest doesn't happen to fit whatever the more popular ones are, then you will be the target of idiots, morons, and the closed-minded. Almost always the same people that try and talk about being more tolerant, hypocritically enough.