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Gender is in a state of flux (HRT)
6 months ago
A little over a year ago I posted this: https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10768936/
In which I mentioned my decision to adopt non-binary they/them pronouns and move my gender presentation, such as it was, to the middle rather than all the way on the "dude" side as it had been for many years prior. As time has gone on this has seemed more and more like the right call for myself personally. While I am still "a guy" to most casual observers, i know how i feel about myself and friends and family (within furry, anyways) have been champs about acceptance. I also began to interrogate things about myself, aspects of my personality that turned out to be some kind of gender dysphoria, that was so entrenched I didn't even realize it until I began to think deeply about the matter. I can certainly post about all those things in another journal.
And in the year since I came out as non binary a lot of things happened, both politically in the larger world and personally. While the situation in the US for trans people has gotten increasingly dire, it is quite straightforward to obtain gender-related healthcare at least here in Nova Scotia, Canada and shortly after BFC I made the decision I wanted to start on HRT, at a low dose of estrogen, just to see what happened. I decided to get while the gettin's good, I suppose, as this opportunity might easily vanish if the vicious backlash to trans rights happens in Canada as it has in the last few months in the USA. If you are not trans yourself, you might want to ask trans friends how they are feeling right now in America: my guess would be Not Great. Instead of hiding back in the closet in this atmosphere, I felt it better to go for it, in a spirit of rebellion and solidarity, as well as a sense that if I don't do it now, I might never get another chance. I am 53 years old - pretty late for a gender transition but I'm certainly not dead yet.
After some consultations and forms, I was prescribed Spiro and Estradiol in January 4 2025. I have now been taking HRT for about two months, and I've noticed quite a few changes. I feel quite good. And I've started to move things in a direction that I wanted them to go.
As I said to the doctor at the gender clinic, I don't yet know if I am going to go all the way fem. I may or may not adopt a new name and full time female presentation. Even if I do I will be "boymoding" for some time. ask me again in a year. However I'm starting to experiment with wardrobe and makeup and so forth. I have a lot to learn.
It's a great adventure and it's just beginning.
In which I mentioned my decision to adopt non-binary they/them pronouns and move my gender presentation, such as it was, to the middle rather than all the way on the "dude" side as it had been for many years prior. As time has gone on this has seemed more and more like the right call for myself personally. While I am still "a guy" to most casual observers, i know how i feel about myself and friends and family (within furry, anyways) have been champs about acceptance. I also began to interrogate things about myself, aspects of my personality that turned out to be some kind of gender dysphoria, that was so entrenched I didn't even realize it until I began to think deeply about the matter. I can certainly post about all those things in another journal.
And in the year since I came out as non binary a lot of things happened, both politically in the larger world and personally. While the situation in the US for trans people has gotten increasingly dire, it is quite straightforward to obtain gender-related healthcare at least here in Nova Scotia, Canada and shortly after BFC I made the decision I wanted to start on HRT, at a low dose of estrogen, just to see what happened. I decided to get while the gettin's good, I suppose, as this opportunity might easily vanish if the vicious backlash to trans rights happens in Canada as it has in the last few months in the USA. If you are not trans yourself, you might want to ask trans friends how they are feeling right now in America: my guess would be Not Great. Instead of hiding back in the closet in this atmosphere, I felt it better to go for it, in a spirit of rebellion and solidarity, as well as a sense that if I don't do it now, I might never get another chance. I am 53 years old - pretty late for a gender transition but I'm certainly not dead yet.
After some consultations and forms, I was prescribed Spiro and Estradiol in January 4 2025. I have now been taking HRT for about two months, and I've noticed quite a few changes. I feel quite good. And I've started to move things in a direction that I wanted them to go.
As I said to the doctor at the gender clinic, I don't yet know if I am going to go all the way fem. I may or may not adopt a new name and full time female presentation. Even if I do I will be "boymoding" for some time. ask me again in a year. However I'm starting to experiment with wardrobe and makeup and so forth. I have a lot to learn.
It's a great adventure and it's just beginning.
If this isn’t the place to talk about that let me know, I've been looking around for someone to ask about it with.
All that aside, it’s good to hear that you’re learning more about yourself and finding ways to make yourself happy! Best of luck to you with that.
Not sure interesting is the right word there but I can't think of a better
My brain is a bit foggy right now and I can't word much but I'll respond in more detail when I get the chance.
Luckily, I'm in Illinois where trans people still have rights. Things have been pretty bad, but I'm going to push on and support my trans friends.
I'm so happy that you're finding yourself, and you're taking steps to be more comfortable in your own skin. I'm also non-binary, but I don't mind if someone calls me a girl >///<.