I’m sorry for being a bother (vent)
4 months ago
Hello, if I haven’t gotten used to this site yet, it’s probably because I’m still technically new.
(Repost from Inkbunny, & I’m sorry if it does feel like that any of y’all are being called out for this, I was just giving a heads up to anyone to avoid further sadness & what to do just incase any of y’all start to feel uncomfortable with I had suggested as an idea and/or during the RP & please don’t bring any assumptions, the last thing I need is someone thinking about something that ain’t true)
I wish everyone would just please warn people to stop before blocking them, I have anxiety, I don’t how severe it is but when someone blocks me (I don’t really know the reason, but I understand), it makes me sad, & it could be for several reasons but when people block me, it increases my anxiety, so just for future reference, please just give me a warning to stop before you decide to block me (I’m not calling anyone out & I’m not doing this to gain attention, I just feel sad when I’m blocked without a reason provided).
I know this isn’t going to change y’all’s mind but I just want to let y’all know how it makes me feel & for that, I do apologize for my actions.
This also goes for any platform as well.
I wish everyone would just at least just let me know that either y’all don’t like I suggested for the roleplay and/or just let me know their ideas first so that I can try getting into the RPing scene in a more safe environment instead of just blocking me like that, & tbh I’m starting to feel like giving up.
I wish everyone would just please warn people to stop before blocking them, I have anxiety, I don’t how severe it is but when someone blocks me (I don’t really know the reason, but I understand), it makes me sad, & it could be for several reasons but when people block me, it increases my anxiety, so just for future reference, please just give me a warning to stop before you decide to block me (I’m not calling anyone out & I’m not doing this to gain attention, I just feel sad when I’m blocked without a reason provided).
I know this isn’t going to change y’all’s mind but I just want to let y’all know how it makes me feel & for that, I do apologize for my actions.
This also goes for any platform as well.
I wish everyone would just at least just let me know that either y’all don’t like I suggested for the roleplay and/or just let me know their ideas first so that I can try getting into the RPing scene in a more safe environment instead of just blocking me like that, & tbh I’m starting to feel like giving up.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Its best to give up. Thats why I stay away from everyone. All this talk about "Join a community your not alone." Thats a garbage statement. Communities like this claim "We dont judge you for who you are." But they do. Thats why I just stay in my section.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Look, I appreciate the advice but I’m not just going to give like that, I’ll have to keep trying but I just want people to at least give me a heads up before it’s gone too far, or at least suggest a different idea and/or scenario all together.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
And thats what your doing wrong. Your pushing so hard that its pushing people away. And thats why they block you.


It’s not that I’m pushing people away, it’s more of something else, but I have not have actually thought of that being the case as well.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
What do you roleplay? What do you do that causes people to act like this?


Well, I do roleplay as a caretaker & you that one scene from Rugrats in Paris: The Movie where Phil & Lil stuff their diapers with slime?

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Oh yeah lol. Why do that?

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Well, this actually depends on the person that I do roleplay with, if it’s with a DL/ABDL it’s romantic but if it’s a little, I’ll be more of a Parent/Guardian.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Ok. But the slime in the diaper thing. Why do that? What purpose does that have?

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Well, for my roleplay, it’s a special slime with an ability to absorb any accident and/ or mess & dissolves it instantly along with a special diaper that makes sure the slime doesn’t escape when combined (I do apologize if it’s gross & I understand if you don’t want to interact with me anymore because of it).

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Is it sexual?


Only with the DL, Honestly (This is why I would recommend the person that I’m RPing with have a suggestion that they want to do, & so far for the setting, it’s in a small fictional Japanese village located within city limits of Kyoto, Japan called Hondo).

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Let me explain before you say something, when I mean DL, I meant like adults, not what you are thinking.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
I know what diaper lover is. But I mean with the rugrats thing. The diaper thing involving rugrats. Is your roleplay with the slime sexual?

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
I’m not sure how to answer that actually, I do apologize if have asked this already but do you have a Discord?

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Yes I do but I dont like to add people on it. I only talk to 3 people.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Alright.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
I am just curious about the slime roleplay. Is it NSFW?

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Well, it’s more of the feeling of having slime in a diaper & the squishiness of it (I do apologize if it’s gross & weird).

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Ok. What are your thoughts about diaper farts?

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Well, I have heard it being called by a different name but like I said, I don’t mind it.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
What are diaper farts called? I only know them as diaper farts.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
I don’t remember but I think they are called Brap.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Oh I dont call that weird stuff. Rainbow Dash farts sometimes but she is a baby.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Okay.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Chase thinks its funny. But he is a boy.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Alright, anything else?

diapers4life
~diapers4life
What do you mean? Tracker also is not potty trained. Pipp was easier. But boys take longer to train because they mature slower. So potty training Tracker was a challenge so he is not ready yet.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
No I meant like characters, I forgot to clarify, my bad.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Oh ok. Is it the slime roleplay that causes people to block you?

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
No, it’s more of something entirely, & like I said, I don’t have that much experience with social interaction online, so I think it’s more of because of my actions, but I’m trying to actually be better but the problem is that I’m anxious.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Oh ok. Yeah I normally just stay in my section.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Well, I still want to at least recover from the pandemic though.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
The pandemic is over.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
I know but it increased my anxiety.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Yeah. Liberals increase mine. Especially feminists.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
Well, I did get upset of their actions when it was being covered on the news.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Yeah.

Dakota Takamoto-Joestar
~dakisuke
OP
I’m going to be real with ya, I still to this day blame the Chinese Communist for not having proper containment procedures.

diapers4life
~diapers4life
Lol yeah me too.