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Massive Argument
4 months ago
Well, for the first time in awhile I got in a massive argument with my parents. Like screaming and cursing, probably audible to my neighbors. Just a build up of a lot of frustrations. We apologized and everything's good now, but I hate that it happened at all. Just been having a really hard time lately, and it finally came to a head when I got yelled at by my neighbor for trying to mow his yard while he was washing his car. I'm in a lot of pain due to digestive problems. Tired all the time due to same digestive issues and depression. Felt so terrible yesterday I ended up cancelling a landscaping job that I've been trying to get done for weeks. Mower hasn't been working well on my lawns(my fault tbh for not doing maintenance and replacing faulty parts) Haven't been able to socialize at all, because few of my local friends have been available, and my autism group hasn't been meeting. No joke, I go to the convenience store to buy food at least once a day just to interact with people
Been working with doctors on the digestive issues. The trouble is I don't know how to fix those. I've had them my entire life, but for some reason they've been worse than ever, even with my reasonably healthy diet based entirely around broccoli and chicken. The problem I have I shouldn't have with a healthy diet, because its usually caused by a poor diet
Been working with doctors on the digestive issues. The trouble is I don't know how to fix those. I've had them my entire life, but for some reason they've been worse than ever, even with my reasonably healthy diet based entirely around broccoli and chicken. The problem I have I shouldn't have with a healthy diet, because its usually caused by a poor diet
A chronic condition? Of course, I'm no expert, but I've had my own share of this. From exercise, managing stress, and of course, 'Diet.' (Die, with a 't' ), all of it is interactive. Allergies (Food or drink)? I'm sure you've already gone through the routine, but as we get older, our bodies also change. What we may have NOT been allergic to as kids, may suddenly not be friendly as adults. That sort of thing.
As-for the family dynamic? I can't touch that one Hon., much as I'd like to help. I'd be poking my snout into yer personal affairs with far too little knowledge, and as my lifelong, failed efforts to meet my own Momma on 'Equal footing' proved, I'm not an expert on the human species' psychological elements.
Work? If you're schedule for doing maintenance clashes with a Customers? Ask them to let you know if 'Now is not a good time, can we reschedule?' If that doesn't work, and they continue to find/create problems, then it's time to cut them loose and let them pester someone else.
Wishing you all the best. (((Hugs if o.k.)))
I know it's rough.
A.S.
Honestly, in terms of family dynamic we have a pretty good relationship. Like its been years since we had a blowup like this. And most of the trouble is on my end. I feel like I'm trapped here, and being trapped causes hostility.
Thank ya ~hugs back
Have you tried any prebiotic drinks? It may help in the long run.
All my life I've dealt with Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). By the age of five I knew where every restroom was in all the shopping venues we visited -- up to 35 miles away. I only got that under control in the past year or so. Recently I've been mapping my food sensitivities and I've discovered that one of them is to cruciferous vegetables (Brassica). It includes broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, collards and kale.