I'm sorry man :(

Kim, look at this…

https://youtu.be/nS8Lim2OlK0?feature=shared

I'm so sorry :(

I'm so sorry, Kim. This is awful. You don't deserve this. *hugs*

I think you are very successful really. You taught yourself how to do art work, You do it very well. You comics are really good. You did the cursed comic and got much farther than I thought you would have on the donations to make it.
I had to move back in and take care of both of mine for 4 years. Which was hell. My mom could not remember anything. Then my dad had a stroke. And made him not being able to remember anything much faster than she did.
Since my sister was unable to help. He did leave me everything for doing that. And yous should get paid for what you doing. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I also had their doctor setup in house care for them.
They came out so many days a week to check on them and such. Which was a huge help.
Hang in there. You are a great artist.

This is very inspirational. It sounds like you were able to help and located logistical assistance to accomplish stuff, maybe if possible could you offer some pointers of places/people to contact for this type of help and relief and assistance with care like you did ...would be great ^v^

Too bad my art skills aren't great enough to land me in a better job or lifestyle just not good enough for anything but being a thankless caretaker

Never forgetting you, always remembering you. You're not a good artist, you're a perfect artist, you're a super artist! You don't deserve this, not every thing is your fault. You are the best female furry bat I've ever known you. Why let yourself forget about your dreams of being an animator as your dream? Why let bullies continue to treat you bad? All you have to do is stand up and do what is right, fight back with your powerful words, follow your dreams, don't give up your dreams, and never let your fear hold you, let go of your fears and let your bravery comes at your heart. OK? I know you got this. 🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶🫶🫶🫶❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹🫂🫂🫂🫂

Because I've been pushed around all my life, I'm burn out to the point were I can't defend myself and I'm disabled so I can't do anything and my animation sucks anyway.

Hold on... Are you saying that you're autistic, meaning that you're disabled? Is that true? 😦😦😦😦

I don't know if I'm autistic, but I do have SLD and dyslexic

You have Specific Learning Disability (SLD) & Dyslexia and you don't blame them for your struggles that you faced. I have autism/ADHD and I don't blame them for my struggles that I faced when I'm currently jobless and working with my dad to earn more money. So, please be strong and I'll be strong with you. I'm here, always. 🥹🥹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹🫂🫂

My Mom was stubborn. It took several attempts to get her into assisted living. Memory issues. She'd be pleasant and accepting of the move one day, then be questioning and upset the next day. I often told myself she would be gone one day, so be careful to not say anything I'd later regret. She was laid to rest on St. Valentine's Day. So try to be patient. *Hugs*

*gives a giant hug sad*
I feel bad for you kim. Im sorry i dont know how to help you. Listen to the others. They can help you more than I can. I feel very sorry for you. Please be strong

The nuclear option is to cut all ties and pop smoke when you have the means; you have your own life to life, and you don't need to spend it on ungrateful people. Do not let the problems of others become your own.

Calm down kim. My grandma is a pain in my ass too but having just buried my mom a few days ago this week, be kind to her.

I am kind to her but she's not being kind to me.

When the meds wear off she will be. Meds can be a bitch.

She not kind even without meds

Ok then. Toxic relationship i see then.

Stay strong hun.

I know it is frustrating. Your mother is likely very scared and doesn't know how to deal or react to all this. She is the child in your relationship, dependent on you and everything is out of control, and lashing out at you.

You have proven yourself to be the adult, responsible and doing what must be done.

That's courage and responsibility you have demonstrated and *I* notice and respect that greatly.

You hear that, Kim?

I respect you.

And I don't give that out lightly.

*listens, or tries to*

Sorry to read that..

I'm so sorry...:(

I’m really sorry about your situation.

I knew it! I fucking knew you're gonna start complain on your mother just like you did last time.

Can you finally call that fucking 988 and let somebody there helping yourself instead of venting yourself out over and over again? I'm sorry dear but first, we're not your therapists and second, you need a help IRL, not online! If I could, I would do everything to help ya but you know I can't.

I know only your version of story where your mother and sister are bitches who treat you like a crap. For now, I have no reason for not believing you but if it's so bad like you're saying, at least try to seek for professional help like that number I mentioned about.

aw no! I hope that changes to the better soon! <3

This happens as people get older... I saw it with my grandmother and am starting to see it with my mom. Just remember the good times when you were young and they took care of you. Please be mature, and be kind to your mom. Eventually we (all) need to step up and take control of our lives and help the people who helped us.

What good times she was always like this when I was growing up.

a lot of people know you can make it and even prosper. i think you (and me) can too. (sort of in a similar sounding situation with my own mom, for some decades now.) Endure, Kim. and dont forget that this is your mother who gave you life, abd though maybe she doesn't say or show it i am sure she loves you and is grateful for you.

maybe try to get job as animator in other country?

I try that but my animation is subpar so I get rejected and I don't do 3d, I tried modeling and animating but it was too frustrating for me even with tutorials