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Another lousy milestone
5 months ago
It is sad that so often the oppressed become as cruel as the oppressors. (с)It happened. Another milestone achievement.
No more backwardness. We are all for inclusivity.
Let's shake hands and suck each other.
Amazing. Fascinating.
High five!
Champagne!
I'm not surprised. And I don't care.
What does matter to me is the pack of scavengers who started howling in the comments.
"Now bIgOtS will no longer use sLuRs, merp-derp!"
"Don't like it? Get out!" "Suck it up!"
"COPE!"
And all of this brings me back to why I still use the term CUNTBOY when referring to myself.
In the 2000s and the first half of the 2010s, the trans community was...
... NOT REALLY INCLUSIVE.
If you are not a biological woman who has transitioned and become a transman, or a biological man who has transitioned and become a transwoman, you are not part of this Closed Club. It's simple.
I assure you, dear reader of these lines - Just try to add vaginoplasty or mastectomy to your artwork in the year of 2010 - without first showering apologies and kissing the feet of the Great Fixers from the T part of the rainbow community...
By your Americanized logic, it was like using the N-word while being a snow-white Irishman.
So, either write long introductions to every piece of art with a character with an atypical genitalia - about how you immensely and infinitely respect transgender people, apologizing a dozen times... or you'll just get bullied.
"How dare you?! You're not one of us! You weren't a woman who became a man or vice versa! How can you know our experience to post something like this?!"
... And, at this very point, I have to admit - these hysterics were... actually... right about something.
I am not a trans woman. I am not a trans man.
I cannot claim their experience.
In contrast to this - I am a person born in a cis-male body and experiencing severe genital dysphoria. Quite roughly speaking, I can say that I am a cis-man who wants to become a trans-man.
This is not a joke. This is not fetishization (although I don't see ANYTHING wrong with it). This is who I am.
This is also my experience. A unique experience of unique transgenderness, I assure you, dear reader.
But at that time - you couldn't be that.
My... our existence was equated with fetishization and a crude joke.
And we decided - if the world doesn't want to see anything in us except vulgarity - then there is no point in trying to be something else.
Cuntboys.
So we will accept it. Don't forget your Zootopia lesson, you green youngsters.
In any case, it became a separate gender. And that toxic letter T seemed to stop bothering us.
Now, swallow all your new fashionable offensive words for a second, ya brave warriors of social justice of the brave new world, and judge for yourselves.
Cuntboy is actually a very laconic and precise term.
It's not one of your mind-numbing acronyms from the depths of Soviet stagnation, and yet it tells the reader or listener everything they need.
A man with a vagina. And he does it in a rather playful manner.
... And yes, I can already hear your standardized objections (AS IF they came from the same bureau... which is not... riiight?)...
... Guys. In the 90s and 00s, the Victim Culture, to which you belong, was not yet dominant.
We were not looking for something else to be offended by, like IСE agents looking for migrants to fulfill their official deportation quotas.
Anyway, that's what we were. Weirdos.
Queers.
Cis men desperately wanting different genitalia.
But everything changed when your generation took over the watch, didn't it, my undear Z?
I still remember... It was 2017... I was recovering from a serious nervous breakdown and rarely visited social networks, including FA.
And when I finally got back here... I noticed that the vibe had changed dramatically.
Like a certain... silent revolution had happened. That's exactly what I thought then.
Everyone around me was whining and mumbling about inclusivity...
And damn it, when I tried to look for new art under the "cuntboy" tag, I found almost nothing.
After investigating a little, I found that almost all the cboys I knew in the past had started using the terms "male intersex". Completely erasing the "cuntboy" from their identity.
And writing whole walls of text, tearfully apologizing for how non-inclusive and bigotish they were.
It was like a humiliating confession to the brand new dictator.
"Comrade Stalin! A terrible mistake has been made!
I was simply shocked at how much this all resembled a Middle Eastern coup... Or the early "bulldog fight under the carpet" when the Bolsheviks expelled the Trotskyists from the party.
What's worse is that it was just fucking factually incorrect.
Do you know what "Intersex Male" means?
Let's start with the fact that it's not just an umbrella... but a fucking restaurant awning medical anatomical genetic condition.
A whole scattering of genetic rarities and anatomical variants.
Including pseudo-hermaphroditism (oh, sorry! I forgot that herm is now also slur derp-derp!).
So this whole thing not only turned everything on its head, but literally privatized the term... The whole fucking umbrella term, to describe a single option, which is simply medically and linguistically incorrect and at best opportunistically frivolous.
Long story short... I was "a freak who claims to be a trans man who has no rights to it" - disgusting in the eyes of the community.
.... And I became "a freak who dehumanizes trans men and... I won't even get into that pseudo-progressive bullshit language anymore..." - still disgusting in the eyes of the community some-fucking-how.
I was an outlaw for one reason - BEFORE.
I remained an outlaw for another reason - AFTER.
To summarize briefly...
... Yes, there is the word "andromorph"... I have nothing against it.
It may not have the "slurish" context of the original, but let's be honest, it is factually clumsily and does not have the laconic engram of what the cuntboy had.
I'm okay with this word.
I use it too.
And yet...
Why do I still use this?
Because Fuck You!
Literally this is the reason.
Because of the sheer fffucking toxicity of the trans community.
Because calling themselves inclusive, they are blatantly lying. First of all, to themselves.
The comments from particularly loud zealots to the June 18th update show this once again.
These are not the comments of compassionate people who accept into their ranks those who need sympathy and protection.
These are the comments of venomous scorpions, which cannot help themselves but sting, because such is their nature.
I have already tried to greet you and break bread with you as brothers and sisters. And how did you react to this?
Мне всё твердили люди - братья.
Ты их люби. Всегда. Везде.
Я вскинул руки для объятья
И оказался на кресте...
People kept telling me that Human beings are brothers.
Love them. Always. Everywhere.
I raised my arms to embrace
And found myself crucified...
So... yeah... Until you come to me with a formal apology for your past behavior and a guarantee not to act like arrogant assholes again, I cannot consider myself an AMAB non-binary man... or even transgender at all.
I am andromorph. And cuntboy.
A guy with pussy? Yes.
Part of your community? No.
Arrivederci, hypocrites.
Tell a non-binary guy from Russia how oppressed you are.
Let's laugh together.
Yes and more yes.
And at least you don't use that overly politically correct choking term "Vagentleman"
There used to be a point I would actively go out at call these morons on that bullshit, but I've reached the point where I figure... there's no damned point. its not worth my time; these people don't have a perspective that is beyond two dimensions and any kind of objective points or arguments that I would arise would be countered by pathetic deflections, gaslighting, what-aboutisms, red herrings, and any kind of mental fallacy that would give themselves the proper amount of indulgence and arrogance to feed their own deeply-ingrained narcissisms to the point they literally can never be wrong
they will hate you because you speak abstract concepts to their simple minds
and simple minds have nowhere to go other than to get angry and spiteful with fervent zealotry.
No one has the right to dictate how you identify. You choose what words to use, not them!
Let's bring cuntboy back. Let's celebrate herm. Let's revel in these terms, not ban them because some assholes used them as slurs, or some prude thinks they're offensive.
If we strip away all the excess, we get - an aggressive minority gaslighting the majority and forcing them to bow down to them.
It's that simple.
People are coming in and saying "Hey, you can't use those terms to describe yourself! Those are naughty words, Tik Tok and Youtube say so! We won't allow you to use these words and terms you have used for years, because we dislike them!"
It's fucking bullshit.
Like... Bitch, you just drew yourself gangbanging four other furries and spewing cum out of all your technical holes.
If you want to seem like something other than fuck fodder, give me something to cling to.
You know... Something that will show your character traits... Some kind of, you know... PERSONALITY.
But if you only draw penises and vaginas, don't cry me a river about people only see you as a penis and a vagina.
It's a catch 22.
That's why their brains are acting up.
"Program incompatibility detected."
I identify as a hermaphrodite, and am considered "bigoted" because I use the correct term to describe my true self (the lady in my avatar), who has two sets of fully functional reproductive organs, one male and the other female.
Note that I'm not considered bigoted for referring to other people as hermaphrodites, because I don't actually do that. Nope, I'm bigoted and evil because I identify myself as one. Dumbest logic I've ever heard in my life.
And then when they find another stumbling block, the cycle repeats itself.
These are the problems of snowflakes who have never known grief in their lives.
Doesn't change how it effects people online, though.
though the reason why you can't be hermaphrodite is it needs two fully functioning sets, which humans can't do, hence why intersex is used, but that just biology nitpicking, and it's more that hermaphrodite was used as a slur to non-cis people in the past, but if you want to go by that term, go for it hun!
have fun and don't pay attention what haters say!
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If it were simply haters, this discussion wouldn't be happening. The people being complained about here have been trying to make it against the rules to identify as we see fit because they are offended by the words we use. I don't use "hermaphrodite" lightly, I made it clear in my first comment on this journal precisely the reason I use that term instead of another, and I've made a point of explaining it on several of my art pieces, my journals, and even my profile page. There's no mystery to it, it's easily accessed by anyone willing to take the time to simply read it.
As for "possible," I don't know if it is humanly possible or not. That said, Lilith is a Draconian Reptilian, not a human, and it absolutely is possible for hir people. Since shi is my true higher self, "Hermaphrodite" is a valid gender identity for me.
That's who, and what, I am. I won't change it to appease other people. If that loses me friends or acquaintances or whatever, well, I've already lost more of those than I care to think about, so while it's painful, it won't be particularly devastating compared to when it first happened a few years ago.
and thanks for the clarifying statement at the start, that really helped figure out the tone and target!
Can you tell us more?
also it is silly to demand trans people/community to apologise for the behaviour of idiots, yes, some trans people can be jerks, and try to gatekeep who is and isn't trans, but that doesn't carry responsibility to all other trans folk, the only ones that need to apologise are the idiots who tried to keep you out.
as for me, if you ain't cis, you trans, and all forms of being trans is valid, it's your body, your identity and no one should tell you who you are or aren't, and that is the norm in the trans community for a while now from my experince.
My post is about the nature of people.
My post is about how most of any movement, including LGBTQ+, are, unfortunately, nothing more than vibe surfers.
Just little bastards looking for an ace-bully to become their cronies.
The wind began to blow in the other direction - and they had already changed their color.
I have already been through this in a political sense here, in this damn country. Several times.
I assure you, in the coming years in the USA (and I assume you are writing from there) you will become acquainted with this phenomenon much closer than you would like. Including LGBTQ+.
So accept my condolences in advance.
I would say your view on the nature of people might be heavily tainted by pessimism, and when you consider the majority of people's behaviour, you might see that most people do care about the goals of the movement, and wish to help others, it's our capitalist society that hampers them and breeds toxic behaviour.
Sure, the USA is nosediving towards fascism; however, notice all the people who come out to protect their immigrant neighbours and to protect trans people. When push comes to shove, lot's of people who stood on the side, or even encouraged the pusher, will realise they don't agree with these actions and will go to defend others.