I am getting tired of social media spaces I was invited to participate in being so much... the same as spaces I rejected. Tired of what amounts to a diffrent flavor of bullshit and judgment in places that claim to be welcoming. Welcoming sure, so long as you drink thier kool-aid! "Don't point out our hypocrisy" "don't have an opinion that goes against our narrative" "don't point out when you think a part of the narrative is stupid or counter productive." "You'll only ever be a guest in OUR space not a contributing voice because your particular form of weirdness is too "hetrosexual" " "Go back to the place that hates yiu for being too Queer or fall in line and be falsely aggressively queer."