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Helping others should ideally be a source of connection.
4 months ago
And mutual support, rather than a burden. As I am willing to always help anyone even from friend or family if needed but should never be taken as a burden since we all are willing to need that help when it comes. When it comes to be doing favors I rather find it as a sign of help to help others as all my life growing up I have always helped with the family and even at work took it all to keep my job and I would never ever be snowed when anyone wants that helping hand since I wanna help, but saddens me that they are people out there who find this as annoyance and a burden rather than letting it be part of life and to show deep down that person needs such help.
I have been around this so many times of my life when nobody would never help me when it comes to lost of things, lets say helping bring bags of groceries and taking out and bringing out that trash. Or washing some dishes, you are not welcome to do that for me, but would appreciate if you wanted to do it. I mean if you complain about these small task that is something that would become a big problem.
But to me, I think I just have the full sprite of not being lazy and able to pick up after myself always for the last 37 years of my life. Though it is kind of bad when people take advantage of you for there own need to act or move since they are aware you will do it and will let you do all that work rather than they ever helping you or even when the boss tells both to do it, that sloth guy tells you to do it, for he wont life that finger. That sure takes me back when I worked retailed and it it still going on right now.
Though this could be some sort of thing in my life going out to maybe help those who are not willing to pick up after themselves, but somebody whos been bullied, mocked, beaten by some big coward who wouldn't fight somebody his own size. Threatened. It might be some sort of struggle I am still going and hope it gets better and not to ever be repeated of my past. Even though that's going on still...
I have been around this so many times of my life when nobody would never help me when it comes to lost of things, lets say helping bring bags of groceries and taking out and bringing out that trash. Or washing some dishes, you are not welcome to do that for me, but would appreciate if you wanted to do it. I mean if you complain about these small task that is something that would become a big problem.
But to me, I think I just have the full sprite of not being lazy and able to pick up after myself always for the last 37 years of my life. Though it is kind of bad when people take advantage of you for there own need to act or move since they are aware you will do it and will let you do all that work rather than they ever helping you or even when the boss tells both to do it, that sloth guy tells you to do it, for he wont life that finger. That sure takes me back when I worked retailed and it it still going on right now.
Though this could be some sort of thing in my life going out to maybe help those who are not willing to pick up after themselves, but somebody whos been bullied, mocked, beaten by some big coward who wouldn't fight somebody his own size. Threatened. It might be some sort of struggle I am still going and hope it gets better and not to ever be repeated of my past. Even though that's going on still...
