Well, them making you feel like a loser for posting here sucks ass, and they shouldn't have done that. Whether they meant it like that or not.

I understand the distrust due to the purge, but they got babyfurs/diaperfurs/ABDL staff members now, so it'd be fucked up if it happened again.

Also, posting on here doesn't make you a loser

If your friend calls you a loser, they're not a friend, they're just pretending to be friends to you. And I understand your reason for not posting here, the purge of any and all diaper artists forcing to leave here, I've seen it all too, since I stayed and watch the ship going down with it. And you're not a loser for posting here, you can post art wherever you want including here, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't forget what FA has done, it's good to remember and to prepare in case it happens again. *Hugs*

I definitely agree, people don't realize that being called a loser by your friends may be a joke to them, but it's actually a lot more hurtful than they even realize in times we're living in right now regardless of how long you've known them. I may not have done some research on the Babyfur purge, but I already seen the damage FA has done to it's community, and how it's effecting Diaper artists.

Leon, believe me when I say it's not fault for what's going on in these dark times right now. And I don't blame you for not forgiving the Admin for inexcusable courses that may cost them financially in the future. You were first artist to introduce me to babyfur community was I thought was weird at first, but over time it rubbed off on me and I started to appricated this kind of art. Don't listen to what people say about you, you are not a loser. You're real friends always support you, and like my father said "friends come and go, but family is always forever." *Hugs*

Aye the people behind the scenes now are far more reasonable, and if course a few babyfurs on staff really helps.
Those that don't wanna post here cause they feel scorned need to learn to bury the hatchet this still stands as our best hope for a cohesive art gallery and community site

Posting art does not make you a loser. I don't know where some people get that idea from, but that would have been considered bullying, and I don't like bullying.

Also, I am familiar with what FA had caused with the diapefur purge, how that happened since Dragoneer had passed away, and I had not forgotten that whole incident. I don't blame you for how you felt, in spite of the whole ordeal.

Don't let any negativity stop you from doing what you're doing. The best thing to do is to stay strong, and be positive. That's what I would do whenever I'm in a situation I'm not prepared for.

That's horrible that 'friends' would say such things that would be so negative to making a decision on coming back to fA. Being here may not be the super best place to be, but it does have a certain simplicity and familiarity that allows us to still communicate and share our talents with each other.

On another note, I don't think it hurts to have another place to share your art and writing. The more places you can manage to be on and keep up with means more potential new friends, comments, and inspiration.

I know that I am not on here as much as I once was, but that is due to the new job I got. As I can, and more as I get acclimated to the new job, I am hoping to be more frequently around to see what you and our other pals post, leave comments, and share in good times. :)