After doing some more thinking now that I am close to a couple of months being settled in to my new home...

I have decided to just continue living life, get back in touch with the friends I have and live, laugh, live.

What about the love part? I don't know, going to be 40 in April and not going to actively look for it. If it comes knocking some day, I'll have my guard up for sure, but all see where things go.