Guys ... I, uhm ...
18 years ago
General
I've been thinking ... and talking to several other artists who feel the same way, and ... I'm just not enjoying myself here anymore. It was great when the requests I was getting happened to coincide with what I wanted to draw, but that's not the case anymore. Now I've got a huge backlog of pictures I just don't want to draw. I feel like my creativity and skills have fallen in the past year because I'm trying to cater to everyone here. Back when I wasn't getting comments and requests, I just drew for myself, and ... I was happier. But I can't seem to really draw for myself anymore. Every time I start a sketch, I get this wave of guilt that I should be working on something more important. It's drained me. And as a result I've stayed offline for the most part. I can't seem to deal with talking to anyone other than a few close friends.
So ... from this point on, and until I feel otherwise, all pending requests are on hold indefinitely. Pending art trades will still be finished, but I can't say when.
I'm sorry to have to do this, but I draw mostly for my own enjoyment. I no longer have any incentive.
So ... from this point on, and until I feel otherwise, all pending requests are on hold indefinitely. Pending art trades will still be finished, but I can't say when.
I'm sorry to have to do this, but I draw mostly for my own enjoyment. I no longer have any incentive.
FA+

He's joking, guys. Please don't bash him.
*looks down at the Purplecat-shaped corpse with a gaping head wound*
...Shit.
No requests, at all!
Though I take commissions at 9000 USD. I'm going to get rich quick! :)
The rest of us will just enjoy the show.
just do what is best for you honestly, if you dont wanna do it tell them!..
How about you make it simple for yourself. Go outside and play for the next month. After you've gotten sick of the great outdoors, come back inside and sit down for possible drawing time. Or do something unrelated like digging out a SNES and go on an 80 hour RPG spree. You can't possibly turn that down. Not if I ... REQUEST IT!! *sparkly magic and ominous music*
I'd be happy if you continued drawing delightful things, but it's not up to you to make me happy.
It's cool that you understand this now. Guilt is bad.
Create at your own pace. I don't think anyone worth attention will fault you for it.
Wasn't that the point to begin with? Anyone who has a problem with it is more than likely going to get reamed by your corps of raving fans.
I just like flaming people. *Loads fresh tank into his incinerator.* Heheheee
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YuD40EXE7CA
"Fuck it"
I have to admit that after the first few lines I was kinda afraid of you saying something like you are leaving to live in Tibet and never ever draw again(which of course would be okay too, it's your own choice, but that would have been terribly sad). ^^; Anyhow I doubt anyone will hold this decicion against you(and if they do then they have a bit too high of an image of themselves).
I have never been one to bitch about requests and stuff(most people don't either I suppose). I only really expect something to be done for me if I have paid for it(since I can't do a trade). Still there has been few nice surprises when I have seen my request or suggestion drawn. :3 I think that I have thrown plenty of suggestions your way but don't worry about them(although I doubt those were in question here).
Your too damn nice! Sheesh, at least he has the excuse of being a super christian. You honestly cannot make everyone happy and should not expect to make everyone happy! Say no!
SAY NO damn it and do not blame FA for your lack of saying no! If people hate you for saying no, the hell with them! Selfish people make me sick!
We lose too many great artists to the whole I have to please my fans thing. And folks wonder why I never bothered to learn how to draw better and instead kept on writing. Less attention that way.
So take a break from the requests hell even cancel mine and don't worry about it ^.^
Best of luck to you, whichever way you go, man.
Requests are tricky, because you really are being asked to cater to the audience. That's not fun -- it's just work. I can't even do requests at all (well, not usually). Hell, I can't even work on commission. I just get too frustrated and keep yelling at myself that what I'm doing isn't good enough. You have the same curse as I do -- the bane of the perfectionist.
Just set some realistic goals for yourself, and think of comments as a casual conversation rather than a classroom. When drawing stops being fun, you'll stop doing it altogether.
Have you tried Oekaki? I prefer Oekaki to PaintChat and OpenCanvas sessions, because the medium is spontaneous and indiscriminate, but it isn't realtime, so there isn't any pressure to draw quickly. I'd be doing more of that, but lately I have been pretty inspired to draw on paper, thankfully.
Dude, I LOVE oekaki. I used to frequent Athos' oekaki board for years until it shut down. I recently joined Guppy's board, but I haven't done anything there yet.
... Oh jeez, that reminds me. I used to post on your oekaki years ago as "RetroRat". I didn't want porn stuff associated with my usual alias. In retrospect, that was probably a wise decision ...
Come back when you're not as pressured, and I'll be here smiling ^_^
This kind of thing is bound to happen.
"those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind"
=^.=.^=
And yeah this is the reason i dont do requests :P
Just chill here, do oC Sessions with people and just chit-chat.
Put a big effin' disclaimer on your userpage that you are not open for any sort of commission or art trade, say why and leave it at that and resume drawing for yourself and on the spot when you feel like being random with friends.
And I'm not even sure if a such ferret tastes nice. xD
That's also why I simply do gifts for friends (unasked, but always a pleasant surprise), and trades with folks I really want to trade artwork with. For all the rest, I take commissions only. It's a lot easier to draw something if I'm getting paid for it, but even still I have a list of certain things I just won't draw. There's no way I could ever appeal to everyone--nor would I really want to, either.
"I HATE YOU FANDOM SO I AM LEAVING BECAUSE YOURE PERVERTS! D:"
:P
Trades, well, I'm usually the one offering up first, so by default it's something I'll probably want to draw. Here lately I've been more doodling up a gift and just throwing it at the character's owner.. squeal with glee if they respond in kind, otherwise just enjoy what I drawled.
My point though, I guess, is that you should always draw what *you* want to draw. Burnout is not a pretty thing, I've been there.
Hobbies shouldn't be stressful, that's why they're hobbies, not jobs.
And i don't feel guilty for not doing work i should be doing xD
Anyway... I'm the other way around. I don't request unless I can give something in return. xD
If you're not drawing for yourself, it's not really art anyway.
Never feel guilty about expressing yourself. Shame isn't worth it.
Now ya know why I don't do commissions... much as I sure could use the money... 'cause try as I might I jus' can't draw ta match someone else's specifications of what they want an it winds up givin' me art-block... like you...
Sure it's nice ta wanna cater ta everyone else's desires but if ya can't then ya can't... that's all there is to it... If anyone REALLY likes yer art they'll enjoy what'cha draw... an not jus' what they want'cha ta draw.
...which is what you did. Good job!
So yeah. Do whatever, cause, it's -your- whatever to do it with.
It's okay, ZC.
I'm sure nobody will hold it against you, and I think you -should- look out for your own interests more. Enjoy a nice, long break.
I think I've only ever taken and completed one request. I'm a big fan of the "hmm, I'll think about it" response, sometimes with an added, "if I do it/use the idea, I'll be sure to give you credit." I'm very unlikely to do requests because, if it doesn't deeply interest me and really get me going, I'm not doing it for free. I can be paid to do stuff that's a bit different from what I like...so far I've been paid twice. Or was it 3 times? But I digress...stories and music aren't the most popular things to begin with, and my subject matter (in writing, at least) is well off the beaten path, so I don't get much attention.
Congrats for finding what helps you draw best. :D
Congrats for finding what helps you draw best. :D
You seem like a cool person, and I find it sad that I likely won't get to knowyou more than just an occasional message here and there.
As well as, requests are just that---requests. I get many to draw many things, and honestly, I just draw what I like anyway. Ask Froyst.....I made hir into a canid rather than a predominantly feline...er.....thingy. At least with fetish art, if it has a huge cock, it can't possibly fail...........much. :)
Anyway, draw what makes you feel good, even if it's strange cat things crapping out a log the size of Rhode Island. Art cmes from the heart, and the soul, it's an expression of your inner you on paper for all to see. Revel in it.
And if that's true, holy shit, what does that say about MY inner me? I think I should lie down..
You're the boss. You draw (Or don;t draw) whatever you want: Us great, filthy, unwashed masses are just happy to be spectators on your work.
It more like a hobby I like to do. I'm sorry I have not watch you before but I really like the crazy things you draw up & some of it hyper. >3
You seems like a kind person & this is why your having this prob. xD I can totally understand what this feels like.
Another reason is why I don't comment much ether unless it's something I really like, like Lemurs. x3