I've noticed something along time ago, and with each new friend I make. It becomes more clearer. I value my friendship with them more then they do with me. Its a hard fact and I'm learning to deal with it.
A few ways that I've decided to deal with this fact are.
-If I visit them often, but they cant come visit me. Then I'll stop visiting.
I dont do one sided friendships.
-Making plans with me, the canceling them for something unimportant, or ditching me and doing plan with me.
That right there is a friendship ender.
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