Ok so I recently discovered that my Ex still has feelings for me and that all he was doing at the club was to let me know he still liked me. Now I found this out by talking to a mutual friend who sent him an e mail asking him what was going on and thus the discovery was made. Now with this info I was a bit more confused because there were some pretty harsh things said at one point. But I decided to give in to my curiosity and so I sent him an email and we talked some, The things said that were harsh were said out of pain and such so that can be over looked but we are now talking and have decided to first be friends and take things slowly to see where they end up. This is all sorts of new for me as usually an ex is an ex end of story, and on top of that he broke it off with me and he made the contact to re establish contact its very dizzying. What I do find odd is when I was told that ignoring him at the club was more painful then the break up